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The reaction to National Service on here

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:33

Do you honestly believe they would send teenagers to the front line?”

You do realise that teenagers are already junior officers? Good friends’ son recently passed out from Sandhurst before his 20th birthday. Very bright lad, a year ahead in school. Going into intelligence, will be making life and death decisions. Pretty much frontline, wouldn’t you say.

SoupDragon · 28/05/2024 11:33

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:25

Apart from very few would doing it in the military 🙄 read the articles

Most people seem to be ignoring this rather important fact.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:29

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:28

MaryMaryVeryContrary · Today 11:25
And they certainly wouldn’t be front line troops, I’m amazed you’re all jumping to such wild conclusions without any evidence at all”

So Lord Dannat is jumping to wild conclusions? How is it that you are so more clued up about this scheme than he is?

At the very least, it will divert funds from an already struggling professional military.

Is Lord Dannat implementing the scheme? He’s arguing against something that isn’t even real!

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:29

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:26

SoreAndTired1 · Today 11:20
From speaking to others over the last hour about this, including one who currently serves, it seems only smart alecs who have never served a day in uniform thinks it's a 'good' idea. Anyone who has served or is serving shudders and thinks it's the worst idea ever, and the most dangerous one. It's an ignorant idea from those who consider themselves 'hard' but have no fucking idea that all it does is put serving members lives in danger and civilians lives in danger. It's a recipe for disaster”

Yep, step father ex-military, completely agrees. As does Lord Dannat. I think I’ll take their opinions over Sunak’s.

Do you honestly believe they would send teenagers to the front line??? Most of them wouldn’t even be doing their NS ‘in the military’. The responses here are nuts, from people who haven’t even read the article but want to jump in with their second hand ‘military experience’

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MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:28

MaryMaryVeryContrary · Today 11:25
And they certainly wouldn’t be front line troops, I’m amazed you’re all jumping to such wild conclusions without any evidence at all”

So Lord Dannat is jumping to wild conclusions? How is it that you are so more clued up about this scheme than he is?

At the very least, it will divert funds from an already struggling professional military.

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:26

SoreAndTired1 · Today 11:20
From speaking to others over the last hour about this, including one who currently serves, it seems only smart alecs who have never served a day in uniform thinks it's a 'good' idea. Anyone who has served or is serving shudders and thinks it's the worst idea ever, and the most dangerous one. It's an ignorant idea from those who consider themselves 'hard' but have no fucking idea that all it does is put serving members lives in danger and civilians lives in danger. It's a recipe for disaster”

Yep, step father ex-military, completely agrees. As does Lord Dannat. I think I’ll take their opinions over Sunak’s.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:25

And they certainly wouldn’t be front line troops, I’m amazed you’re all jumping to such wild conclusions without any evidence at all!

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:25

SoreAndTired1 · 28/05/2024 11:20

From speaking to others over the last hour about this, including one who currently serves, it seems only smart alecs who have never served a day in uniform thinks it's a 'good' idea. Anyone who has served or is serving shudders and thinks it's the worst idea ever, and the most dangerous one. It's an ignorant idea from those who consider themselves 'hard' but have no fucking idea that all it does is put serving members lives in danger and civilians lives in danger. It's a recipe for disaster.

Apart from very few would doing it in the military 🙄 read the articles

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SoreAndTired1 · 28/05/2024 11:20

From speaking to others over the last hour about this, including one who currently serves, it seems only smart alecs who have never served a day in uniform thinks it's a 'good' idea. Anyone who has served or is serving shudders and thinks it's the worst idea ever, and the most dangerous one. It's an ignorant idea from those who consider themselves 'hard' but have no fucking idea that all it does is put serving members lives in danger and civilians lives in danger. It's a recipe for disaster.

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 11:18

NineChickennuggets · 28/05/2024 11:10

This will require money spent on it and that money could be better spent elsewhere.

Yes, it won't just have a negative impact on 18 year olds. It will cost money which could be better spent elsewhere. No doubt somebody dodgy will be given a contract to organise it though and they will be laughing all the way to the bank.

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2024 11:18

@UnimaginableWindBird
I don't think it's ok to place a burden on an 18 year old that I wouldn't be prepared to carry myself.

Absolutely spot on. Why only 18 year olds? My husband is 65, I’m 60. We have never been required to “volunteer”, like most people on this thread, I suspect. Very easy to expect others to do so.

Mayorq · 28/05/2024 11:16

"If I was asked to contribute in some way I would."

And if you were told?

NineChickennuggets · 28/05/2024 11:10

This will require money spent on it and that money could be better spent elsewhere.

MrsMurphyIWish · 28/05/2024 11:08

Zwicky · 28/05/2024 08:01

I do agree that the response of a lot of people "why should my kid have to give up her weekends" is basically a selfish entitlement.

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about not wanting to take unpaid leave from the job that you do to pay your rent and bills to do unpaid work? Both wrt students who overwhelmingly work weekends and for whom this accounts for 25% of earnings, and full time workers, such as those in the NHS, who are contractually obliged to do weekend working?

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about wanting to spend the period of your life between school and full time adult responsibilities travelling or volunteering abroad like previous generations have been able to do?

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about not wanting to flit between your home and university towns, paying £££ your own transport, to do compulsory litter picking or a couple of shifts in a charity shop when you should be working in up your paid job, studying, socialising. (I know people think 18yo socialising is appalling and would never do such a thing themselves)

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about not wanting to give up the volunteering you already do with your hobby or club to do different volunteering in an unrelated sector?

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about not wanting to give up your sports training, especially those who do team sports and those at elite level and those who will miss competitions.

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about Monday-Friday workers not wanting to do 12 shifts on the trot every month?

Can you explain specifically what is “selfish” or “entitled” about an employer in retail, care, beauty, hospitality etc. who does most of their business at weekends, wanting their staff to be actually available. DH is an employer in hospitality. Our pt staff only work weekends. Will he be employing 17/18yo if this comes in? Will he fuck.

Why doesn’t every adult in the whole country give up a weekend every month? No getting off the hook if you work, have a baby, study, want to go on holiday, have got festival tickets, already volunteer in a different area. No excuses, you entitled fucks, I don’t care if you do scouts already and do your mums shopping every Saturday after working all week and you don’t have anyone to walk your dog while you wash a fire engine for 8 hours, It’s selfish and entitled not to want to. I don’t care if you are a nurse and you always work Saturdays for your childcare. Stop being so selfish and entitled!

Well said @Zwicky.

When I went to uni in 1997 (thanks to Blair!), I was able to have a bursary and a loan as a child of parents who lived solely on benefits. I still had paid employment to live. At one point I was teaching in the day and working in a pub evenings and weekends. Every spare hour I had, I used for paid employment. I don’t how I would have survived if I had to do unpaid work.

WoshPank · 28/05/2024 11:05

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 11:03

I don't think the military in the UK are deeply naive regarding the best way to defend the UK. They think it is a terrible idea and they will know more than you or rishi sunak. Our needs are different to countries that are next door to Russia. National Service in the uk was abolished in the 1960s as for the UK large armies were seen as less effective than weapons. Do you think that has changed?

I also can't see any other country where military service is only for 18 years and must be done that year with no exceptions.

There's Eritrea. Definitely a model to emulate there!

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 28/05/2024 11:05

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 10:37

This is true as far as it goes.

What is interesting though is that what Thatcher was saying is essentially that people need to realize that benefits given by the state are made possible through the work of other citizens. The state isn't a person that is productive in itself. So there is a public duty to be productive if we want the state to be able to provide benefits.

Essentially that there needs to be a balance between what we want the state to provide and our expectation of contributing to that. She felt that there was a lack of balance in people's expectations, which, given the whole IMF loan, seems potentially justified.

Very prescient.

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wombat15 · 28/05/2024 11:03

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 10:50

It's generally mainly military service, and it's a bit like a job, where people get some training and also their living expenses and such are paid. They work for a period of time and when they are done they go on to their further education and work with the skills they have gained. Which they carry through their adult lives.

It's a model that could be extended to some other kinds of work quite easily, and even within a military model, there are a lot of different types of work - medical, builders, clerks, etc.

It's a good foundation for how to work effectively in a group and take a leadership role, much more so than many young people will have had before.

People are being deeply naive if they think only countries like Switzerland or Finland or even Israel are the only ones who need to think about having a population with an ability to step up in a military conflict. The chances of a global conflict in the next decades are really significant and many western countries are deeply unprepared. I suspect the UK would be full of people like the men who have run away from Ukraine, unwilling to fight for their country but expecting others to take them in, and no doubt hoping to go back if it's later possible. All based on the sacrifice of others.

I don't think the military in the UK are deeply naive regarding the best way to defend the UK. They think it is a terrible idea and they will know more than you or rishi sunak. Our needs are different to countries that are next door to Russia. National Service in the uk was abolished in the 1960s as for the UK large armies were seen as less effective than weapons. Do you think that has changed?

I also can't see any other country where military service is only for 18 years and must be done that year with no exceptions.

bluetopazlove · 28/05/2024 11:01

I so remember when my husband was served at lunch times and break times by wrvs and my husband loved them but then again these were all run by volunteers but we can't keep relying on them .Those women knew what they signed up for but we can't keep relying on these volunteers to keep signing on for this .

WoshPank · 28/05/2024 10:59

People are being deeply naive if they think only countries like Switzerland or Finland or even Israel are the only ones who need to think about having a population with an ability to step up in a military conflict. The chances of a global conflict in the next decades are really significant and many western countries are deeply unprepared

This proposal does absolutely nothing to address that, though. It would be actively detrimental to defence, because its expensive and the people with actual military expertise think its a bad idea.

Hugosmaid · 28/05/2024 10:52

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 10:50

It's generally mainly military service, and it's a bit like a job, where people get some training and also their living expenses and such are paid. They work for a period of time and when they are done they go on to their further education and work with the skills they have gained. Which they carry through their adult lives.

It's a model that could be extended to some other kinds of work quite easily, and even within a military model, there are a lot of different types of work - medical, builders, clerks, etc.

It's a good foundation for how to work effectively in a group and take a leadership role, much more so than many young people will have had before.

People are being deeply naive if they think only countries like Switzerland or Finland or even Israel are the only ones who need to think about having a population with an ability to step up in a military conflict. The chances of a global conflict in the next decades are really significant and many western countries are deeply unprepared. I suspect the UK would be full of people like the men who have run away from Ukraine, unwilling to fight for their country but expecting others to take them in, and no doubt hoping to go back if it's later possible. All based on the sacrifice of others.

Quite

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 10:50

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 10:35

So what does happen in other countries where they have national service? You seem very knowledgeable about it so presumably you are thinking of a specific country?

It's generally mainly military service, and it's a bit like a job, where people get some training and also their living expenses and such are paid. They work for a period of time and when they are done they go on to their further education and work with the skills they have gained. Which they carry through their adult lives.

It's a model that could be extended to some other kinds of work quite easily, and even within a military model, there are a lot of different types of work - medical, builders, clerks, etc.

It's a good foundation for how to work effectively in a group and take a leadership role, much more so than many young people will have had before.

People are being deeply naive if they think only countries like Switzerland or Finland or even Israel are the only ones who need to think about having a population with an ability to step up in a military conflict. The chances of a global conflict in the next decades are really significant and many western countries are deeply unprepared. I suspect the UK would be full of people like the men who have run away from Ukraine, unwilling to fight for their country but expecting others to take them in, and no doubt hoping to go back if it's later possible. All based on the sacrifice of others.

Hugosmaid · 28/05/2024 10:45

I went on a date once with a deputy head master. Was chatting for a couple of weeks before hand and seemed great.

God knows how but we got on the subject of war and he said he’d never join the army if there was a war on. Why should he put him self in the firing line for other people?

I have 2 cousins in the RAF and another was in the PARAS. He is happy to kick back and expect other people to step up - like my family.

I went off him instantly.

In light of world events we absolutely should be thinking about what potentially could happen and be prepared. If I was asked to contribute in some way I would. I happen to rather like the life the uk has to offer

WoshPank · 28/05/2024 10:43

SoreAndTired1 · 28/05/2024 10:39

Not yet RTFT but most army people are against it. They say the worst thing they want to do is babysit kids who don't want to be there and aren't serious about it and could put lives in jeopardy. You don't want to give those sorts of kids a rifle.

You're quite right.

Unfortunately, OP and the people who agree with her haven't been willing to pay much attention to the views of people with relevant experience in the areas all these NEETs would be fobbed off on.

GrumpyPanda · 28/05/2024 10:41

Marianus · 27/05/2024 19:11

And at what point does it become forced labour?

From day one, by definition. Under international human rights norms there are certain exemptions when it's nonetheless permissible - chiefly military conscription as well as associated (e.g. medical) service in wartime. Also certain traditional obligations such as citizens firefighting services or flood defense. I very much doubt this could be extended to cover a scheme where under 5 percent do military service and the remainder of the population are press-ganged into doing what the USSR called a "subbotnik" - Saturday shifts helping with the harvest or doing street cleanup. Modern Eurooean systems do have alternative service but it's either for volunteers or for conscientious objectors who have already been selected for the military. It's also paid.

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/05/2024 10:41

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 10:35

So what does happen in other countries where they have national service? You seem very knowledgeable about it so presumably you are thinking of a specific country?

When I lived in Greece, male Greek friends (they were under 30 and it was last decade) told me that once they'd done the 6 weeks basic training, there was nothing for them to do on their compulsory military service. Some of their colleagues were apparently sent home for months at a time and a couple of the ones I knew had got jobs near their barracks, working in cafés, etc.