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People living in the countryside moaning about rural life

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SuePreemly · 27/05/2024 16:00

I live in a village. New housing estates have gone in recently. Since then we've had complaints on the local FB page about:

Horse poo on roads
Crow scarers in the field being loud
Slurry smells
Dust during combine season

What on earth do people who move into a rural village surrounded by fields expect?

They're always on about having "consideration for others" on their posts, whilst showing none to the place and people whose work involves it 🥴

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krustykittens · 27/05/2024 23:08

Horse riding - that posh hobby provides jobs in rural areas. I live in an area where there are more horses than people and owners provide a valuable income to farriers, vets, equine dentists and physios, feed shops, saddlers and livery yards that are often based on farms that are needing to diversify as farming just doesn't pay. Tourism isn't the only source of income in rural areas, nor would we want it to be. They are also a way of life for a lot of people in the countryside and have been for generations.

Elephantsareace · 27/05/2024 22:56

There was a thread on here a while back where a woman had spotted a farmer with a shotgun in the field behind her garden and was downright hysterical about it, she just couldn't understand why despite loads of posters telling her it was normal.

It's an entitled thing rather than a townie thing, on the whole. Well-off people with good jobs who are used to being in charge.

OutOfTheHouse · 27/05/2024 22:53

The difference between horse shit and dog shit (aside from the garden benefits) is that horse shit is massive as easily avoided.

JudgeJ · 27/05/2024 22:49

Devilshands · 27/05/2024 16:06

Ditto where I live!

My favourite complaint that I've heard recently is that the roads are too narrow and they should be upgraded so you can drive two cars side by side instead of having to use passing bays. What did they expect?! Our nearest 'A-road' is about 20 minutes away...

Another classics are that the birds are too loud in the mornings...errrrr okay.

And the bells!!!!!
When my late OH gave up a lot of time, along with other retired people, to try and improve the village speeding problems by running the Speedwatch one woman who had just moved in decided that she wanted to determine speed limits outside her house and was too thick in understand, despite him telling her for an hour, that he didn't personally set the limits. She quickly moved to run the next village and I gather she's as popular there.

JustMarriedBecca · 27/05/2024 22:49

Whiteglasshouse · 27/05/2024 17:43

Townies are annoying in the town too. There is a lovely 200 year old pub with garden in the city I live in. People bought next to it and then complained about the noise from the beer garden. 🙄 The beer garden was subsequently required to close at 8pm. 😡

Ditto people moving to new build next to an entertainment venue and then complaining about the noise.

These are effectively affluent people who are used to getting their own way.

That's like people who move next to a school and complain about kids noise and extra cars at 8.40-9am

ifIwerenotanandroid · 27/05/2024 22:40

norfolkbroadd · 27/05/2024 17:00

My absolute favourite one is the local Nextdoor page where the newer locals complain about the shooting noises coming from the MOD firing range that backs onto their gardens. 😂

We had one here who bought their cottage without realising that the lovely country pub near it hosted regular clay pigeon shoots. They complained it was like living in a war zone & wanted the shoot closed down.😂

oakleaffy · 27/05/2024 22:32

silverbirches · 27/05/2024 22:24

Villagers can be really snobby and rude to those who live in the new houses. They make it clear you're not really part of the village and quite openly look down on you. Long time villagers make it clear they never wanted the houses to be built in the first place.

Couple of things to unpick here.
Firstly, the chances are that the houses were built on farmland bought by deep-pocketed property developers, whose planning permission was approved despite much local opposition.
Secondly, one reason the locals opposed the development may well have been because all the new homes are highly desirable 3-4 bed semis and detached houses, ideal for commuters. The developers don't provide small homes or social housing affordable for the young people whose roots are in the area. Most of them work on the land or in other local industry, but can't find anywhere to live locally because they have been priced out.

That’s very true.
A development behind a 17th C cottage ruined the view but they were all very expensive executive type detached houses built to a high spec.
The long term farm /racing stable staff could never have afforded them.
Tied cottages were the norm- very tricky for lower paid rural
staff.

silverbirches · 27/05/2024 22:24

Villagers can be really snobby and rude to those who live in the new houses. They make it clear you're not really part of the village and quite openly look down on you. Long time villagers make it clear they never wanted the houses to be built in the first place.

Couple of things to unpick here.
Firstly, the chances are that the houses were built on farmland bought by deep-pocketed property developers, whose planning permission was approved despite much local opposition.
Secondly, one reason the locals opposed the development may well have been because all the new homes are highly desirable 3-4 bed semis and detached houses, ideal for commuters. The developers don't provide small homes or social housing affordable for the young people whose roots are in the area. Most of them work on the land or in other local industry, but can't find anywhere to live locally because they have been priced out.

oakleaffy · 27/05/2024 22:15

unsync · 27/05/2024 21:57

We had a woman in the new builds complaining that when the affordable housing gets built, it will devalue her property and she "didn't move to a village to live next to a council estate". The affordable housing is for people with links to the village who can't now afford to live here because incomers are pushing prices up. 🙄

Plenty of rurally born people also detest horrid new builds springing up like mushrooms -
Where my friend lives there is masses of opposition to new builds.

Who wants to be surrounded by people rather than fields?
Not many.

sparklychair · 27/05/2024 22:13

unsync · 27/05/2024 21:57

We had a woman in the new builds complaining that when the affordable housing gets built, it will devalue her property and she "didn't move to a village to live next to a council estate". The affordable housing is for people with links to the village who can't now afford to live here because incomers are pushing prices up. 🙄

And the developers say that their costs have shot up, they'll have to reduce the affordable houses from a dozen to three... Or you discover some rich townie is buying four of the new houses to let out as Airbnbs...

oakleaffy · 27/05/2024 22:10

DameKatyDenisesClagnuts · 27/05/2024 16:59

People will always complain about something and it's usually the minority. At least this then gives a certain type of country folk an excuse to feel superior to 'townies'
(disclaimer: have lived very rurally for 25 years, don't complain, get on well with all my neighbours but wouldn't want to associate with the types that wang on about 'blow ins' etc)

Quite a lot of Londoners have a house rurally where weekends and holidays are spent- and things like grain dryers , crow scarers are just accepted as part of life.

Ditto quite a few of those who live in the rural areas also have pied a terre in London - so it cuts both ways.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 27/05/2024 22:05

@SuePreemly it is like that where we live too! why move to the countryside and not expect to have countryside smells and countryside noises?? moaning about cows mooing in the fields, cockerels, cock a doodling at 5am and just wait till the corn lice come out!! lol they have no idea how noisy it is in the countryside. how do the think the vegetable reach the shops, the breadmakes get their flour? are they really that stupid? the bird scarers are scaring my we doggie? believe it or not, our dogs are the only dogs in the village who can be taken for a walk on guy fawkes night/ they hear a bang and look up expecting a pigeon to fall/ everyone else's dogs are cowering under the bed! go back to the town and let us have our villages without all those new houses springing up and ruining the village life!

EagleEyeRock · 27/05/2024 22:01

I live fairly rurally; in the area is a livery. New owners moved into a detached house close to the stables and complained about 'too many horses'.

The stupidity of people never fails to surprise me.

They didn't last long!

unsync · 27/05/2024 21:57

CammoMammo · 27/05/2024 18:13

People in the new builds complaining there are more new builds planned, which will spoil their countryside views.

We had a woman in the new builds complaining that when the affordable housing gets built, it will devalue her property and she "didn't move to a village to live next to a council estate". The affordable housing is for people with links to the village who can't now afford to live here because incomers are pushing prices up. 🙄

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:40

I'm eyeing up the practical looking yet not unattractive Ryedale Pull On boots....

SuePreemly · 27/05/2024 21:37

Rydale dog drying coats and fleeces are great too. My somewhat vain attempts to limit the mud on the dog

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Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:36

SuePreemly · 27/05/2024 21:34

Oh yeah, decent quality for your everyday yard/dog walking/shooting/farmer type clothes. Good sales!

I'm not a farmer but always after good warm and long lasting clothes, especially ones that keep the winds out in winter!

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:34

wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:29

You try getting off a horse in the middle of a road with a shovel, holding the horse behind you with cars behind or infront of you. If the horse doesn’t freak at the shovel , the plastic bag with definitely do the job, never mind trying to get back on it without a mounting block, you’d get motorists complaining about being delayed then. Horse poo isn’t toxic like dog poo to plants. I think you need to toughen up a bit!

Read my posts properly before telling me to 'toughen up', many thanks.

SuePreemly · 27/05/2024 21:34

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:28

Never heard of Ryedale tbh, are they good quality?

Oh yeah, decent quality for your everyday yard/dog walking/shooting/farmer type clothes. Good sales!

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Serencwtch · 27/05/2024 21:31

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:28

Never heard of Ryedale tbh, are they good quality?

They always have stands at county shows etc & now have a website. Sort of how joules started out but they've stayed more practical/rural whereas joules went mainstream.
Decent quality & reasonably priced fleeces, waterproofs, tweed etc

wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:29

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 19:32

It's actually fine to have a wee moan every now and then, get it off one's chest and then remind yourself how unreasonable you are.

As for horse poo, why ARE they allowed to leave it on pavements and the like?

You try getting off a horse in the middle of a road with a shovel, holding the horse behind you with cars behind or infront of you. If the horse doesn’t freak at the shovel , the plastic bag with definitely do the job, never mind trying to get back on it without a mounting block, you’d get motorists complaining about being delayed then. Horse poo isn’t toxic like dog poo to plants. I think you need to toughen up a bit!

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:28

EdithStourton · 27/05/2024 21:24

@SuePreemly it's very much a Rydale fleece for me
I have a massive Ryedale raincoat. I used to do the school run (walk) in the previous one. Bloody amazing garment.

Never heard of Ryedale tbh, are they good quality?

EdithStourton · 27/05/2024 21:24

@SuePreemly it's very much a Rydale fleece for me
I have a massive Ryedale raincoat. I used to do the school run (walk) in the previous one. Bloody amazing garment.

Einwegflasche · 27/05/2024 21:24

SuePreemly · 27/05/2024 21:06

And yea, horses have equal right to be on the road, and are classed as vulnerable road users.

Live in the countryside, deal with countryside matters.

Completely agree.
I always take the 'pass wide and slow' approach.
My comments re poo in walking areas are really my only 'complaint', tbh it's more a minor gripe, and in general the horse riders here are (mostly) very considerate of everyone else.

wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:23

ScroogeMcDuckling · 27/05/2024 18:26

Skid on horse shit on a motorbike, pray there is nothing coming to run you over.

Where I grew up, there was farming, I still live there, but a lot has been sold off by farmers to developers, so no more farms, we haven’t got narrow roads really, so it’s not a problem like that.

But now, I find myself as bad as a townie, as a dog owner, I pick up my dogs dumps in a small plastic bag, why can’t horse rider carry a roll of bin bags and do the same :-)

I actually like the fact that shops are open longer hours, perhaps not the pubs, I love how many restaurants there are too, so I do love how my area has transitioned over time, but I do love my allotment, and I live the peace that it brings, only birdsong, a passing train, and a few cows mooing, but there is downsides, dead rodents etc that cats have killed, flies too.

I can totally understand why people want the country, but until you live it you don’t know the downsides of it

I hope you’re kidding about the horse poo?! Do you really expect a rider to get off their horse to pick up poo in the middle of a road - dangerous but also some riders wouldn’t be able to get back on again without a mounting block. Horse poo is good for the plants, unlike dog poo which is acidic. I think you just need to toughen up a bit!

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