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Husband going away for weekend!

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Mjb24 · 27/05/2024 09:27

So it's my 1st time posting and would live to know peoples thoughts on this one.

I'm 38 weeks pregnant with 2nd child. Little one is 2.5years. My husband goes away every year with his mates Friday to Sunday around May time. This year its organised to go this weekend and as the date gets closer I'm getting more and more upset. I've tried to talk to him but he's 100% adamant he's going. Part of me doesn't grudge it as he works so hard for our family and also helps me with my own business too but I cant help but question our marriage as he's basically risking missing thr birth to get get drunk one weekend with his pals. He just keeps saying you were late 1st time and to stop worrying. Aibu?

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AuntieDolly · 27/05/2024 09:31

That's ridiculous! Get some help lined up just in case.

Applesandpairsofrocks · 27/05/2024 09:29

Well it sounds like he’s going so I’d see if you’ve get any friends or family who can be on standby

to do the mumsnet cliché I’d assume there are bigger problems going on?

Overthebow · 27/05/2024 09:29

How far away is it? If he’s able to get back quickly then I wouldn’t have an issue, but far away and drinking then no, he shouldn’t be going. It wouldn’t be fair on you so close to the due date and you have a toddler too.

TwilightSkies · 27/05/2024 09:29

🙄 he sounds like a dedicated family man 🙄

Ugh!!!!! Selfish twat!
Why the fuck is this weekend away arranged when you are due?

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