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RosesAndGin · 26/05/2024 11:39

That we all follow fashion?
I know, within seconds of me posting this someone will be along to say they are completely free thinkers and would never be sheep like enough to follow any trends but if that's the case why do we never see anyone dressed in a flowing regency gown or trussed up in a victorian dress?
Personally I love vintage dresses (70's/80's maybe, like Mary wears in Young Sheldon) but I see loads of people wearing the same style of dress, where does it come from? Who decides what 'looks good'?
I remember as a teenager reading Cosmo and the style advice at the time was that boot cut jeans were great for everyone and the only shape of jeans anyone remotely stylish should consider! As it turns out, as a tall, fat woman with relatively slim legs skinny jeans look much better on me! I couldn't have bought them at the time even if I wanted to as nowhere stocked them until I was in my late 20's!!
I think we have far more choice now which is good but to some extent we can still only choose what someone decides to buy in for retailers.
Personally I am waiting for a full Georgian revival inspired by Bridgerton so I can waft around in an exquisite gown all day (not sure I will be able to walk the dogs in it but I am prepared to give it a go😆)

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steamedisbest · 26/05/2024 12:02

@Arlanymor

i have never seen Helena BC “pulled down” by the media

Arlanymor · 26/05/2024 12:01

LongSinceGotUpAndGone · 26/05/2024 11:56

why do we never see anyone dressed in a flowing regency gown or trussed up in a victorian dress?

Because unless it's a re-enactment event, festival etc. they would be subject to people waving and pointing at them wherever they went.

Plenty of people don't give a hoot about fashion, but they buy their clothes from what's available in the 21st century, so they will be, in a broad sense, contemporary.

Yes I think I agree with this - there is an element of not wanting to stick out like a sore thumb - think how much the media pull down Helena Bonham-Carter.

Also while there are charity shops and vintage shops, so you don't have to look like everyone else, you can only purchase what is in those shops (so a lot will be the prevailing fashion of the last five years or so) and also what you can afford (there's lovely stuff on Etsy that I just couldn't justify even though they are essentially one-offs and gorgeous).

I was living in Shoreditch when 'hipsters' became a thing. I remember wondering why almost everyone working local pubs and restaurants was wearing a lumberjack shirt and had a beard - because it almost looked like a uniform!

And you've just reminded me I need to find an outfit for my friends 50th next month, so thank you!

steamedisbest · 26/05/2024 12:00

RosesAndGin · 26/05/2024 11:55

My point is we don't have much choice as to whether we follow fashion or not....
I can't exactly pop into H&M and buy a replica Victorian gown complete with corsetry and bloomers can I?
Someone somewhere is deciding what we all wear and we all oblige and wear it!
Is this thread as shallow as a puddle - well obviously!! I'm just musing on a Sunday morning inbetween boring jobs I have to get done.

It is very odd Op

it is as though you don’t understand capitalism

the shops aren’t going to produce items on the off chance that a couple of people fancy a particular style of clothing for a hundred odd years ago

There’s fancy dress shops for that

LongSinceGotUpAndGone · 26/05/2024 11:56

why do we never see anyone dressed in a flowing regency gown or trussed up in a victorian dress?

Because unless it's a re-enactment event, festival etc. they would be subject to people waving and pointing at them wherever they went.

Plenty of people don't give a hoot about fashion, but they buy their clothes from what's available in the 21st century, so they will be, in a broad sense, contemporary.

RosesAndGin · 26/05/2024 11:55

steamedisbest · 26/05/2024 11:42

op won’t believe you don’t follow fashion!

My point is we don't have much choice as to whether we follow fashion or not....
I can't exactly pop into H&M and buy a replica Victorian gown complete with corsetry and bloomers can I?
Someone somewhere is deciding what we all wear and we all oblige and wear it!
Is this thread as shallow as a puddle - well obviously!! I'm just musing on a Sunday morning inbetween boring jobs I have to get done.

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DeadMabelle · 26/05/2024 11:52

Hermittrismegistus · 26/05/2024 11:44

why do we never see anyone dressed in a flowing regency gown or trussed up in a victorian dress?

Not sure if it counts but I spend my days WFH while wearing Victorian style nightgowns.

Well, there are people who do dress in period clothes, or who don’t do fashion because they’re wedded to a different look. I teach at a university and while the average undergraduate ‘look’ is definitely more homogeneous than when I was a student, there are still subgroups of hipsters, Goths, hippies, surfers etc. A colleague in another department has a kind of steampunk look with three-piece vintage suits and a waxed moustache and can occasionally be seen on a penny farthing. A friend’s sister is a pattern maker for Primark and she dresses pretty much entirely in 50s style dresses.

RosesAndGin · 26/05/2024 11:51

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Are you 5 years old? A bit sad that's the best response you could come up with 🥱

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GerbilStyle · 26/05/2024 11:45

on a tangent, what I find weird is that every child calls their parents by the same name,or a cultural variation. there must be millions of parents in this country who answer to mum or dad.

Hermittrismegistus · 26/05/2024 11:44

why do we never see anyone dressed in a flowing regency gown or trussed up in a victorian dress?

Not sure if it counts but I spend my days WFH while wearing Victorian style nightgowns.

DeadMabelle · 26/05/2024 11:44

Notawool · 26/05/2024 11:43

Well unless you’re going to make your own clothes, you can only buy what is available to buy, so it’s pretty hard to completely eschew all fashions trends.

Exactly.

Notawool · 26/05/2024 11:43

Well unless you’re going to make your own clothes, you can only buy what is available to buy, so it’s pretty hard to completely eschew all fashions trends.

Sirzy · 26/05/2024 11:43

I don’t think it is that weird (said as someone who doesn’t care about fashion) humans are tribal and what you wear can be one way of fitting into your tribe.

steamedisbest · 26/05/2024 11:42

Enchantedlilypad · 26/05/2024 11:41

I find this strange too, I don't typically follow fashion and wear what I feel comfortable in! I love vintage clothing aswell.

op won’t believe you don’t follow fashion!

Purplecatshopaholic · 26/05/2024 11:42

Hmm, well one reason is most of us buy what is available in shops/online so we are all subliminally influenced i guess, by what’s there versus what isn’t.

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Enchantedlilypad · 26/05/2024 11:41

I find this strange too, I don't typically follow fashion and wear what I feel comfortable in! I love vintage clothing aswell.

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