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Told to leave spa area

69 replies

Imitationgame · 25/05/2024 19:54

Today I went to a smallish spa and the big (and only selling point) is the infinity pool.

Me and my friend were the only two in it until two other women joined. Maybe 5 minutes later a couple came in and one of the women turned to us and said “we should go and leave the couple to it”

Aibu to think being a couple doesn’t give you priority and neither should you ask other adults to leave when you have zero authority

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Momstermunch · 25/05/2024 20:30

You weren't told to leave though were you?!

Psychoticbreak · 25/05/2024 20:28

IncognitoUsername · 25/05/2024 19:58

I would have stayed till I wrinkled like a prune but I’m petty like that.,

I would have to be removed in a body bag.

Carrot678 · 25/05/2024 20:28

It was weird of her to say that but also doesn't really sound like she told you that you had to leave? I'm assuming you didn't?

easylikeasundaymorn · 25/05/2024 20:20

did she and her friend get out?
Apart from anything else, how did she know you and YOUR friend weren't also a couple?

PonyPatter44 · 25/05/2024 20:14

Obviously she is quite silly. What did you do?

TomatoSandwiches · 25/05/2024 20:14

Should have turned it into a jacuzzi op then you'd have it all to yourself 😁

GaryLurcher19 · 25/05/2024 20:14

What's an infinity pool?

Chanelbasketballandchain · 25/05/2024 20:12

Aquamarine1029 · 25/05/2024 20:01

"No thanks, but you're free to leave if you want to."

that.

comedycentral · 25/05/2024 20:11

What happened next?

Trickabrick · 25/05/2024 20:10

Imitationgame · 25/05/2024 20:08

There’s no time limit advertised

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That’s not really answering the question though - was it too crowded for all of you or was there enough space to be comfortable?

Hugosmaid · 25/05/2024 20:09

You didn’t actually leave did you?

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Imitationgame · 25/05/2024 20:08

OMGsamesame · 25/05/2024 20:01

Was there space for all of you?

If not maybe she was hinting that you'd had your time and needed to let others have a shot.

There’s no time limit advertised

OP posts:
OMGsamesame · 25/05/2024 20:01

Was there space for all of you?

If not maybe she was hinting that you'd had your time and needed to let others have a shot.

Aquamarine1029 · 25/05/2024 20:01

"No thanks, but you're free to leave if you want to."

countdowntonap · 25/05/2024 19:59

eh? Did the woman work there? Did she leave herself?

feathermucker · 25/05/2024 19:59

You're only BU if you actually moved. You didn't, did you?!

ZipZapZoom · 25/05/2024 19:59

IncognitoUsername · 25/05/2024 19:58

I would have stayed till I wrinkled like a prune but I’m petty like that.,

Me too!

How bloody weird she thought you should all leave just because the couple had arrived. What did she think they were going to do. Hmm

IncognitoUsername · 25/05/2024 19:58

I would have stayed till I wrinkled like a prune but I’m petty like that.,

stayathomer · 25/05/2024 19:57

Yanbu- did she think they were going to do something there? Ye could all easily have shared!!