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To ask if you feel that you have an 'inner child'?

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robinn · 25/05/2024 11:14

I know it's a popular concept in Psychology/therapy, but I just wondered do you feel that you have an inner-child or a younger self?

I had a fairly difficult childhood and early adulthood, and lately I've found myself thinking about myself at the age of around 7, I'm not sure why 7 is the age that has come to mind. I feel so much protectiveness towards that version of myself, and whenever anything bad happens to me in the present day I feel angry when I think that's happening to 7-year-old me in the future (if that makes sense). Yet in the present moment I don't care about myself that way.

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MagnetCarHair · 25/05/2024 11:42

God, no. Even when I was a child I had an inner old lady inside.

DoubleHelix79 · 25/05/2024 11:41

Perhaps not in the way you refer to it, but I definitely feel like I have an inner child. While I'm a perfectly adequate adult, with two kids and a husband, I very much enjoy letting it out sometimes. Building an intricate marble run, running down a hill as fast as I can, pretending we're in a spaceship, that sort of thing. I think it's important to stay playful.