To break up with him on his birthday?

Send him a message by text (or voicemail if you really want to annoy him as he'll have to dial in to listen to it), saying something like this:
"Hi Cheater, I'm letting you know that I'm no longer interested in being one of your harem of women. I know you've cheated on me, on numerous occasions and I've had enough. Consider this your birthday present from me - you're free of the constraints of a relationship. It's over. I ended it. Byeeeeee!"

Or similar.

I’d probably message look I know you’re out but this is wrecking my head, I’m full of anxiety because of your past indiscretions. I don’t want to live like this and neither do you. I’m sorry, it’s over.

his reply will tell you everything. If he drops everything and comes to you then maybe give it a shot if not. It’s over.

do you really want to spend every time he’s out in this anxiety?

Honestly, OP, you're not breaking up with him on his birthday because he does not see you as his girlfriend. You're just his most frequent fuck buddy.

MoonWoman69 · Today 07:17
10 months and he hasn't been faithful at all? He's clearly a real catch isn't he? Why the hell are you still with him? Surely you can't be that desperate for a man that you'll put up with this shit! Just bin him off and block him right now! You honestly think binning him on his birthday is going to have an impact on him? He won't give a toss by the sound of it! He'll be picking someone else up by the end of the night!
I'd also be making an appointment to get tested for STI's too!
Good luck 🌻”

This with bells on. Plus some counselling/self-help reading to work out why you let him get away with the first 3 infidelities. It’s irrelevant what he says. Look at what he does.

I'd understand if you were just not feeling the relationship anymore and would say to wait a few days, but if he cheated he deserves what he gets whatever day of the year it is. Chuck him, block him, don't look back.

Hell would freeze over before I sat with this losers parents being paraded as the ‘lovely girlfriend’ and playing happy families whilst I knew what their wonderful son had been doing. Tell him you’re not going tonight and that actually you don’t wish to see him again. Block him and move on you’ll be a much happier person for taking back control of your own life.

This seems like a wind up thread

This

Where on earth is your self respect?? Why are you allowing him to continually shag around??

Jesus.

Dump him and then take a good long look in the mirror and sort out your life please. You deserve so much more than this.

He cheated on you 4 times in 10 months. Consistently lies.

Absolute scum.

I'd dump him on his birthday on purpose.

However he probably won't care. You need to fuck him off and move on, why on earth would you lower yourself to this.

And get an STD check sharpish!!

You might think that you are in a relationship with him but he certainly isn't with you. He has had sex with 4 other women (that you know of- I bet there have been more) in your 10 month "relationship". Please have some respect for yourself and walk away. And in future, don't let people treat you like this. He will never change because you are accepting this horrible behaviour from him.
And please get checked for STI's.

Absolutely dump him and block him. If he’s cheated 4 times already then he’s going to carry on doing so. You deserve much better and he deserves to be dumped, birthday or not.

Block and delete

There is no basis for your trust so don't trust him. You'll thank yourself later. You deserve better.

IN FAIRNESS TO HIM?!

The only possible way you could make this ‘fair’ is if you actually worked in the public records office and had his birth certificate burned so he literally never had a birthday again.

I’m impressed by the sheer brass neck of a shitscrape like this saying you ‘need’ to trust him though! Omg 🤣🤣🤣 REALLY do you want to just explain the logic of that one the. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

4 times in 10 months! Jeez, you should’ve ended it after the first time. Of course get rid then go speak to a therapist about why your bar is so low that you allow a nob like him to treat you so poorly!

Fucking block the cunt.

He fucks around and you're worried about how he'll feel being dumped on his birthday?

Who gives a shit how he feels?

It may not be the gift he wants but it's the gift he deserves!

"Not coming tonight, I've had enough, it's over, you've let me down and treated me like shit. " press send and block
If you get on with his family then tell them (and why)

The only unreasonable thing is that you haven't dumped him ages ago.

Bollocks to his birthday.

You don't need to do anything. You just aren't a couple
Block and move on

You'd be unreasonable NOT to dump this louse. The fact it's his birthday is actually the icing on the (birthday) cake.

Dump the dickhead and don't look back.

I have to agree with the others. I really don't think he will care if you dump him although he might be put out that you won't be there to pander to him and feed his ego during his birthday dinner.
Can you imagine what your relationship will be like in one to two years time if you stay with him?
Can you imagine what you will be like?
Dump the fucker!

Do it and then commit to spending some time single and working on your self esteem. Once should have been enough.

Who cares about timing? He hasn't cared about cheating on you!

Run and don't look back.