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BeverForget · 23/05/2024 22:09

I work in food supply chain.
Four of the 'big' grocery retailers have just asked to renegotiate at least four weeks min supply, as opposed to two.
This happened in Feb 2020 as well.
Lots of rhetoric about being on a war footing, from politicos.
And then Sunak essentially jumping ship yesterday, as though he knows there is a crisis on the horizon that he wants no part of.
There is no way that the Tories have a prayer in a July election.
So what do they know that they aren't telling us?

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Snippysocks · 26/05/2024 19:19

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:13

Jeez 16 and 17 year olds may be "easily influenced by their peers" but they have a stake in the future! Raising the voting age to 21 is about as fair as having a cut off at say 75. Why should anyone 75+ have a vote? They have no idea of how the world works these days.
See? Sounds ageist that way round doesn't it? What's the difference? Why is a 70 year old more "worthy" than a 19 year old?

A 70 year old is definitely no more "worthy" than a 19 year old. But he's had 51 more years of experience. Not the same experiences, but at 70 he's lived through different governments and heard lots of broken promises from all sorts of politicians.....and seen politicians of good intent not being able to deliver on their promises and others breaking promises because it's more convenient.

WinterMorn · 26/05/2024 18:32

Igotjelly · 26/05/2024 18:23

You can in Scotland

True

Igotjelly · 26/05/2024 18:23

WinterMorn · 26/05/2024 17:41

You can’t get married at 16 anymore.

You can in Scotland

Ilovemyshed · 26/05/2024 18:21

I think the voting age should stay as is or rise to 21, I don't believe a younger mind is mature enough to understand the depth of many of the issues. Although to be honest neither are many so called adults.

MPs shouldn't be allowed to take on the job until age 40 min and 20 years or so of industry/ business/ life experience outside of politics.

Kandalama · 26/05/2024 18:19

T1Dmama · 26/05/2024 17:39

Yeah.. who wants that!! Kids are damaged enough these days without getting PTSD or shot at to boot!

It’s National service.
No fighting in a war.
No one’s getting shot at.

Its basically glorified scouts, ccf, d of e with marching and fatigue’s.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

GivePeaceAChance · 26/05/2024 18:13

GivePeaceAChance · 26/05/2024 18:12

Always better to join the army well post 18.
If you can get a degree in absolutely anything you go in on a higher rank. I have a friend that did a degree in sewing ( can’t remember the full title ) and went in as an officer in the Navy.
As an aside the army have a higher number of servicemen but on the whole are less well trained than Navy or AirForce.

Agree 18 for both

As an aside if you do ccf at school, or elsewhere, and get to NCO rank you also can expect a better chance of going in at a higher level.
Not surprising as you’ve had more training.

GivePeaceAChance · 26/05/2024 18:12

Catiopatio · 26/05/2024 17:36

The children of elites may have done CCF, but they were not among the teenage soldiers dying in conflicts like Afghanistan and Iraq. Possible to sign up to the British Army at 16.

Not saying the voting age should be lowered, but it is disturbing teenagers can join the army before they can vote. Maybe 18 for both?

Always better to join the army well post 18.
If you can get a degree in absolutely anything you go in on a higher rank. I have a friend that did a degree in sewing ( can’t remember the full title ) and went in as an officer in the Navy.
As an aside the army have a higher number of servicemen but on the whole are less well trained than Navy or AirForce.

Agree 18 for both

WinterMorn · 26/05/2024 17:41

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:19

I'd be happy with 16. They can get a job, start paying taxes at 16. Get married, move out. Seems fair to me. But actually my argument was more in response to a PP who thinks people of 18, 19 and 20 should have the vote taken away from them.
And yes EVERYONE has a stake in the future, of course. But the younger you are, the longer the decisions taken are likely to affect you.

You can’t get married at 16 anymore.

T1Dmama · 26/05/2024 17:39

dontcryformeargentina · 26/05/2024 02:04

He is mad... another reason not to vote for conservatives

Yeah.. who wants that!! Kids are damaged enough these days without getting PTSD or shot at to boot!

Catiopatio · 26/05/2024 17:36

GivePeaceAChance · 26/05/2024 12:37

The privileged few have probably already done ccf at school.
Its worth noting it’s those that usually join up full time as well which is why there’s a push for a more multicultural armed forces. A recruitment officer resigned after being told they couldn’t employ white males.

The children of elites may have done CCF, but they were not among the teenage soldiers dying in conflicts like Afghanistan and Iraq. Possible to sign up to the British Army at 16.

Not saying the voting age should be lowered, but it is disturbing teenagers can join the army before they can vote. Maybe 18 for both?

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:20

TabithaTimeTurner · 26/05/2024 17:18

Or we could just keep it at 18. Who wants to raise it to 21?

A previous poster on this thread is arguing for the voting age to be raised.

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:19

I'd be happy with 16. They can get a job, start paying taxes at 16. Get married, move out. Seems fair to me. But actually my argument was more in response to a PP who thinks people of 18, 19 and 20 should have the vote taken away from them.
And yes EVERYONE has a stake in the future, of course. But the younger you are, the longer the decisions taken are likely to affect you.

TabithaTimeTurner · 26/05/2024 17:18

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:13

Jeez 16 and 17 year olds may be "easily influenced by their peers" but they have a stake in the future! Raising the voting age to 21 is about as fair as having a cut off at say 75. Why should anyone 75+ have a vote? They have no idea of how the world works these days.
See? Sounds ageist that way round doesn't it? What's the difference? Why is a 70 year old more "worthy" than a 19 year old?

Or we could just keep it at 18. Who wants to raise it to 21?

WinterMorn · 26/05/2024 17:16

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:13

Jeez 16 and 17 year olds may be "easily influenced by their peers" but they have a stake in the future! Raising the voting age to 21 is about as fair as having a cut off at say 75. Why should anyone 75+ have a vote? They have no idea of how the world works these days.
See? Sounds ageist that way round doesn't it? What's the difference? Why is a 70 year old more "worthy" than a 19 year old?

Everyone has a stake in the future, so where should we draw the line when it comes to lowering the voting age?

Itsrainingten · 26/05/2024 17:13

Jeez 16 and 17 year olds may be "easily influenced by their peers" but they have a stake in the future! Raising the voting age to 21 is about as fair as having a cut off at say 75. Why should anyone 75+ have a vote? They have no idea of how the world works these days.
See? Sounds ageist that way round doesn't it? What's the difference? Why is a 70 year old more "worthy" than a 19 year old?

Onionskins78 · 26/05/2024 17:05

TabithaTimeTurner · 26/05/2024 15:54

16/17 year olds are too easily influenced by their peers, you only have to see the amount of them thinking they are the opposite sex or identifying as a cat to realise that. God help us if they were allowed to vote.

As the mother of two young adults who were recently teens I’d say that was a bit of a harsh assessment! Yes sixteen and seventeen year olds can have a bit of a skewed perspective when it comes to assessing themselves and their place in the world but they have a surprising amount of clarity when it comes to world affairs and a keen sense of justice. Let them have their say!

Sweden99 · 26/05/2024 16:40

Snippysocks · 26/05/2024 15:28

Problem is, @Sweden99 , those who will live with the consequences of their votes are not just the 16 year olds - it's also those who are younger than 16. So what age will you allow to vote? 15? 14? 13? There has to be a lower age limit somewhere, doesn't there? Many adults of all ages are naive and inexperienced (I'm definitely not one of the sharpest tools in the box - so perhaps I ought to be disqualified from voting) but there has to be a qualifying line somewhere, doesn't there? A lower age limit isn't perfect, but no one seems to have come up with a better suggestion. Until then, we'll have to disagree as to the age one should be to vote- but at least, by the time one is 21 you should have seen a bit more of life than a 16 year old. And as I said, I reckon most 21 year olds will probably elect a Labour government anyway.

Yes, I understand and there is a compromise and it will be arbitrary.
I would ask you to read the point I made, as I had read yours.

TabithaTimeTurner · 26/05/2024 15:54

sososotocvfgft · 26/05/2024 13:12

Guessing you're a Tory?

The conservatives have such a better deal in terms of how the voting boundaries have been drawn up.

Enabling 16/17 year olds to vote is a great idea in my opinion. Get them to engage in voting while they are young and idealistic.

Letting the old folks run the country hasn't worked, why not try something else?

16/17 year olds are too easily influenced by their peers, you only have to see the amount of them thinking they are the opposite sex or identifying as a cat to realise that. God help us if they were allowed to vote.

MibsXX · 26/05/2024 15:40

Smoke and mirrors, peeps smoke and mirrors.....so what else exactly have they been up to quietly that we're NOT hearing about? ( like the spying on peoples internet and bank accounts that they snuck through on a late sunday evening whilst the news was all about the latest MP scandal?) Just wondering..
I cannot help thinking that all politicians of all denominations are the same , we are given a "choice" simply to keep us in line..

MibsXX · 26/05/2024 15:29

Snippysocks · 26/05/2024 12:53

  • My biggest worry is not National Service - that happens in other countries without disastrous results - its the Labour suggestion of votes for 16 year olds. Your 16 year old may be incredibly intelligent and wise, but if they're too young to get a tattoo or enlist without parental permission, they're too young to vote.

They have a vote in Wales...

Snippysocks · 26/05/2024 15:28

Sweden99 · 26/05/2024 15:07

Which is about the virtue of democracy and who should get the vote.
If it is about being well informed and having relevant experience, it is a dangerous path.
I suggest that the Government has to gain credibility by consent of those who will live with the consequences and judgement by those who have lived with the consequences.
If naive views and inexperience are disqualifying, you are after an unaccountable elite rule.

Problem is, @Sweden99 , those who will live with the consequences of their votes are not just the 16 year olds - it's also those who are younger than 16. So what age will you allow to vote? 15? 14? 13? There has to be a lower age limit somewhere, doesn't there? Many adults of all ages are naive and inexperienced (I'm definitely not one of the sharpest tools in the box - so perhaps I ought to be disqualified from voting) but there has to be a qualifying line somewhere, doesn't there? A lower age limit isn't perfect, but no one seems to have come up with a better suggestion. Until then, we'll have to disagree as to the age one should be to vote- but at least, by the time one is 21 you should have seen a bit more of life than a 16 year old. And as I said, I reckon most 21 year olds will probably elect a Labour government anyway.

NosyJosie · 26/05/2024 15:10

Devonbabs · 26/05/2024 15:00

Actually I would disagree, the UK is not multi cultural and it should not be. It’s a model which dies not work.

Many people from many different cultures live and work here, but, in order for a society to work at its most effective there needs to be a prevailing culture, Norma’s and values to which all members subscribe, rituals which are shared and understood. It is in the trying to break down this, society is failing, because without this what is society other Han a collection of individuals

Indulge me, please. Outline which British values you speak . Because from where am sitting, a LOT of families “not from here” have a lot more traditional “British” values than your average born and bred white families.

Sweden99 · 26/05/2024 15:07

Snippysocks · 26/05/2024 14:26

As I said @Sweden99 , personally, I'd raise the voting age to 21. That's nothing to do with my political views. (I like Keir Starmer - though his weedy response as to what is a woman does him no favours). I think lots of 21 year old disaffected students would definitely vote Labour and they'd win by a landslide, but at least they would have had some life experiences to draw on before voting.

Which is about the virtue of democracy and who should get the vote.
If it is about being well informed and having relevant experience, it is a dangerous path.
I suggest that the Government has to gain credibility by consent of those who will live with the consequences and judgement by those who have lived with the consequences.
If naive views and inexperience are disqualifying, you are after an unaccountable elite rule.

Sweden99 · 26/05/2024 15:03

NosyJosie · 26/05/2024 14:50

Of all the typos I have seen on MN, this is the smallest 😂

Wondering where people are “from” is one of the reasons this country is a mess. The U.K. has been truly multicultural since WW2.

Also, even people who are not British may have lived here for long enough to make their own observations, as well as being legitimate voters, that doesn’t make them a “troll” does it?!

No, which is why I was confirming.

Devonbabs · 26/05/2024 15:00

NosyJosie · 26/05/2024 14:50

Of all the typos I have seen on MN, this is the smallest 😂

Wondering where people are “from” is one of the reasons this country is a mess. The U.K. has been truly multicultural since WW2.

Also, even people who are not British may have lived here for long enough to make their own observations, as well as being legitimate voters, that doesn’t make them a “troll” does it?!

Actually I would disagree, the UK is not multi cultural and it should not be. It’s a model which dies not work.

Many people from many different cultures live and work here, but, in order for a society to work at its most effective there needs to be a prevailing culture, Norma’s and values to which all members subscribe, rituals which are shared and understood. It is in the trying to break down this, society is failing, because without this what is society other Han a collection of individuals

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