Something a friend said is bugging me a bit.
Both DD and DS are at private school. DD stayed there to do her A levels, because the learning style suits her and they are the only school locally to offer one of the A levels she's about to sit. DS is pretty certain he's going to leave after GCSEs and go to the excellent local college.
My friend suggested that DS might feel aggrieved that we've spent so much more money on DD (about £45k) and suggested we put it aside for him to use later (for instance as a house deposit.)
I've always believed that unless there's dreadful inequality you just pay what's needed for each child. DS might do medicine- he'll need supporting for a lot longer at university but I wouldn't expect this to annoy DD.
Am I setting myself up for strife in later years? DS knows he could go privately for A levels and is just choosing not to...