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To think you should warn people you have XL Bullies in your house before they come over?

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walkthroughtulips · 23/05/2024 17:30

I posted not long ago about going to a home salon and how much it stank of dogs and she told me she had 5 or 6 dogs.

I’ve since found out she actually owns 4 XL Bullies and she never once told me booking the appointment.

Aibu to think that’s just wrong? The salon is just a room in her house. Now I’m not terrified of dogs but yes I would feel extremely intimidated had I been in a small room with 4 of them.

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SerafinasGoose · 23/05/2024 21:33

MeepMep · 23/05/2024 18:26

I'd report her to 101.

I was at the vets today and one came in, muzzled but it was fucking huge, thankfully it was taken straight into a side room and back out again. But the nurse made a big fuss of how lovely XLs are 🙄

I noticed how everyone in the waiting room clutched their small dogs and cat carrier closer.

The woman couldn't even pull it back from pulling towards the other animals.

It had its balls too which I thought was illegal??

XL is a disingenuous misnomer. They are pit bull crosses. And they've already been illegal since about the 90s.

I wonder if so many protestations as to how 'lovely' they are would be made if they were called by their accurate name.

You wouldn't get me near that house and what's more I'd report her. If she's running a business from an address with these things in situ then she's being crassly irresponsible.

walkthroughtulips · 23/05/2024 21:24

GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 23/05/2024 21:21

But she knew there were 5 or 6 dogs there, she was told prior. The OP’s issue is not that there were multiple dogs on the property but that she didn’t find out until afterwards that 4 of them are xl bullies. Her issue is not dogs themselves but the breed. The fact OP had no idea until a later date tells me that the salon owner ensures the dogs do not access client areas which sounds reasonably responsible to me. If the OP was so concerned about breed she could have asked the question herself when she was advised of the number.

They do access the area as she posted in her rant that her dogs sit with her clients or can be put away at request.

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Enigma52 · 23/05/2024 21:23

Snapplepie · 23/05/2024 20:32

Was this in nottingham? I've had exactly the same experience! Definitely XL bullies and 2 of them were let in the room and jumped all over me in the chair!

I think I would have frozen in fear!

walkthroughtulips · 23/05/2024 21:22

Choochoo21 · 23/05/2024 21:13

I voted YABU because surely even having 5 or 6 Rottweilers or American bulldogs (or any other strong breed) would be a cause for concern.
And not necessarily just XL bullies.

I feel like it’s unprofessional to run a business from home and have 5 or 6 dogs, even if they were poodles but especially if they’re large, strong breeds.
Unless it was a massive house and they were completely separate from the business area.

Eh? Why’s that me being unreasonable?

My cause of concern is about the exact breed of dog she has. Was I suppose to list out every single breed that I would feel uncomfortable around as a pack?

Funnily enough I’m not scared/concerned about the dogs that’s don’t exist in her house/business.

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GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 23/05/2024 21:21

Mrsdyna · 23/05/2024 20:46

I am allergic to dogs so I'd want to know so that I could cancel the appointment.

But she knew there were 5 or 6 dogs there, she was told prior. The OP’s issue is not that there were multiple dogs on the property but that she didn’t find out until afterwards that 4 of them are xl bullies. Her issue is not dogs themselves but the breed. The fact OP had no idea until a later date tells me that the salon owner ensures the dogs do not access client areas which sounds reasonably responsible to me. If the OP was so concerned about breed she could have asked the question herself when she was advised of the number.

Enigma52 · 23/05/2024 21:21

CuloGrande · 23/05/2024 18:30

I work in community healthcare - I went on a home visit last year heavily pregnant. Was told they had just got a puppy, it was a 10 month old xl. In a house with an kid, and a bedbound owner.

Crikey, that sounds awful.
Bed bound owner? It doesn't bear thinking about!

walkthroughtulips · 23/05/2024 21:18

sleepyscientist · 23/05/2024 18:30

You sure they are actually XL bullies? Can't imagine her insurance allows it if they are, is it not a similar type dog, dogue de Bordeaux look very similar if you're not into dogs for example. It's always a risk with home salons that people will have dogs running round. I can remember a TV show of a big saloon that had a pack of chihuahuas running around.

Yes because she posted a huge rant about the media only portraying them as horrible and she has four who are loveable and friendly.

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KatieB55 · 23/05/2024 21:17

I've seen two of these dogs in our area. Both were muzzled out walking but clearly not trained as they were straining on their leads. Quite terrifying. I wouldn't be in a house with 1 never mind 4!

madroid · 23/05/2024 21:14

"The relative of Angeline Mahal spoke to reporters about the mother who was killed by her two registered XL Bully dogs.

She issued a direct warning to any other owner of the breed.

She said: “There’s something I want to make clear and it’s that anyone who has an XL Bully-type dog needs to do the right thing if they spot their pets becoming aggressive and give them up.

“I know it’s hard because people have such an attachment - but we wouldn’t want any other family to go through this. We miss Angeline. She was a sincere person with such a kind heart.”

Figures show 57,277 exemption certificates have been issued to owners who want to keep their pet

Choochoo21 · 23/05/2024 21:13

I voted YABU because surely even having 5 or 6 Rottweilers or American bulldogs (or any other strong breed) would be a cause for concern.
And not necessarily just XL bullies.

I feel like it’s unprofessional to run a business from home and have 5 or 6 dogs, even if they were poodles but especially if they’re large, strong breeds.
Unless it was a massive house and they were completely separate from the business area.

BingoMarieHeeler · 23/05/2024 21:11

God I hate dogs more and more every day at the moment. You have to be thick as shit to own an XL Bully let alone 4 . YANBU OP I’d feel extremely uncomfortable to find out I’d been in the vicinity of an XL Bully.

Londonrach1 · 23/05/2024 21:08

Yanbu. It's not safe. Is she registered by the council to work from home. I not revisit and id report her to the council. It's very unsafe to have member of the public coming to a residential house set up as a business with the dogs on site!

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 23/05/2024 21:05

Countrygirlxo · 23/05/2024 20:56

My partner worked in a house last week with an XL bully, he wasn't warned and it wandered freely. He said it was a right softy and the dog wasn't fazed that there was a stranger in it's house. Maybe the upbringing determines the temperament but I personally wouldn't want to be anywhere near one

Apparently a large proportion descend from the same stud dog and they have a sudden rage response which can come out of nowhere. Sadly I wouldn't even trust the seemingly soft ones.

Thinkbiglittleone · 23/05/2024 21:04

AtrociousCircumstance · 23/05/2024 17:39

Totally not ok. Supposedly ‘secured’ XL Bullies kill.

This is my thought.

TeenLifeMum · 23/05/2024 21:02

They all think their xl is different and “wouldn’t hurt a fly”. I think they genuinely believe it. It’s bonkers. I have a cocker spaniel and as much as I’m fairly confident he wouldn’t hurt anyone I’m aware he’s a dog and if he was in pain then he may react out of character. There’s always a risk.

Countrygirlxo · 23/05/2024 20:56

My partner worked in a house last week with an XL bully, he wasn't warned and it wandered freely. He said it was a right softy and the dog wasn't fazed that there was a stranger in it's house. Maybe the upbringing determines the temperament but I personally wouldn't want to be anywhere near one

Eenymeanymineymo · 23/05/2024 20:52

4intheCorner · 23/05/2024 19:30

I picked DS up from a friend's house, only to be greeted by an XL Bully. To say I was not happy is an understatement. No warning of any dogs, nevermind an XL Bully. DS will not be returning.

I can't imagine what my reaction would have been! You have totally done the right thing.

FredsRoses · 23/05/2024 20:52

I think you should probably report this to your local council OP, as it's one thing running a business from home, but keeping those sort of animals there, has got to be high risk, and surely it's got to be worth a phone call to find out if it's actually breaking any laws? Also, if it's not breaking any laws now, then perhaps it should be outlawed in order to protect her customers. Perhaps it's something that no one thought of while introducing the current laws, and an amendment could be made. I know you have no intention of going back OP, but would like to think you might take some action to protect others from finding themselves in the same position you were in.

ButterCrackers · 23/05/2024 20:51

OdeToBarney · 23/05/2024 19:51

This is my worst nightmare. I am dreading navigating play dates for my DD.

What irresponsible parents not to have told you about their dangerous dog. Never go back there.

OdeToBarney · 23/05/2024 20:50

MeepMep · 23/05/2024 20:34

Can you say your child has a bad dog allergy and check if nay dogs in the house that way?

That's a good shout, thank you!

Mrsdyna · 23/05/2024 20:46

I am allergic to dogs so I'd want to know so that I could cancel the appointment.

PixieLaLar · 23/05/2024 20:42

I’m a massive dog lover but tbh I think it’s quite irresponsible having 4 of any large breed dog. No one can physically restrain 4 large dogs if they were to turn for some reason.

TheaBrandt · 23/05/2024 20:41

I just don’t understand why anyone would want one? Just why? It’s so weird. But am not a dog person at all

MeepMep · 23/05/2024 20:34

OdeToBarney · 23/05/2024 19:51

This is my worst nightmare. I am dreading navigating play dates for my DD.

Can you say your child has a bad dog allergy and check if nay dogs in the house that way?

Snapplepie · 23/05/2024 20:32

Was this in nottingham? I've had exactly the same experience! Definitely XL bullies and 2 of them were let in the room and jumped all over me in the chair!

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