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Sick of vile vape smoke.

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/05/2024 11:34

It’s bloody everywhere and I’m sick of massive plumes blowing into my kid’s buggy. So bloody selfish. That is all…

OP posts:
Amx · 24/05/2024 06:41

I don't smoke or vape but I love the marshmallowy smell of the fat clouds.

I can't stand weed though. It reeks.

NCgoingdry · 24/05/2024 06:22

@Wheelyfembot Imagine getting so worked up over a made-up condition entirely unrelated to vaping that you have to call a stranger a cunt Biscuit

Ohhhthedrama · 24/05/2024 00:27

Y'all must be super sensitive to smells. I share an office with a vaper, and I don't smell anything or struggle to breathe at all

Upallnight2 · 23/05/2024 23:25

Jesus, people are so dramatic 🤣

Cyanobacterium · 23/05/2024 22:58

I do agree with a PP though that some MNetters can get very over dramatic about it.

Some of us have lung conditions, thanks, and we certainly don't want it near our babies. That's not dramatic, it's just common sense. And it is common decency for smokers and vapers to stay away from others while doing it. Also, with all the focus on clean air both inside and outside, quite rightly so, it seems ridiculous to permit this. You should have to be a certain distance away from non-consenting people to smoke or vape, and it's you that has to move not them.

And we certainly shouldn't have the anomaly that smoking and vaping are allowed in open-style bus stops, on train platforms etc. You should not be allowed to cause smoking or vaping related smells to find their way into neighbouring properties either, that should be considered nuisance. If we were starting from scratch it would be absolutely clear that the current permissiveness on smoking or vaping - when it interferes with bystanders - is bonkers.

Scammersarescum · 23/05/2024 22:30

I was at an indoor concert last week and the two women in front of me vaped heavily throughout. Sadly the ushers did not see them

Had a sore chest by the end of the show.

Selfish buggers.

LauderSyme · 23/05/2024 22:26

Hate to tell you OP but your kid's body is going to be exposed to far worse things in life. Their blood is probably infested with microplastics already.

OhBumBags · 23/05/2024 22:22

Cyanobacterium · 23/05/2024 21:53

I don't think vapers realise care how much blows out behind them and into the faces of passers by.

^^There, fixed it.

As far as I am concerned, causing toxic smoke or vapour to end up in someone else's lungs without consent should be considered assault or poisoning.

Better put a message out before you climb in your car then.

LauderSyme · 23/05/2024 22:19

@Cyanobacterium "As far as I am concerned, causing toxic smoke or vapour to end up in someone else's lungs without consent should be considered assault or poisoning."

That would have an interesting effect on the criminal justice system given that traffic exists. I don't consent to anyone poisoning me with their petrol and diesel vehicle exhaust fumes either.

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/05/2024 22:16

I am sorry you have to live with such limitations, but thats not the fault of vapers - if no one could do a thing that someone, somewhere is allergic to... we'd all stay home and do nothing really!

Ponderingwindow · 23/05/2024 22:11

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/05/2024 21:27

Yes. Yes they are.

exhales huge cloud of Grape & Strawberry Candy flavour vapour

Very few adult vapers want to use tobacco flavours, most people think thats what they'll vape when they give up the fags and they try it for a short while and go off it pretty rapidly in favour of the sweet/fruit/candy/cake flavours.

To answer a few other points, I forget who made them:

'Im allergic to the flavourings'

you're allergic to all the flavours? Really, every single one? Wow. Because each flavour has different ingredients, all of which originate in the food industry, you must really struggle to eat anything.

Possibly you're allergic to one of the two base carriers in vapes, Propylene glycol and vegetable glycerin - both are safe and common food additives (and are found in many more products beyond food).

It's disgusting breathing in what someone else has breathed out

I can't really help you there - stop breathing in public places, invest in a plastic bubble to live in, wear a filtration mask and breath only filtered air?

Everywhere you go, you're breathing in what someone else breathed out, and more and much worse. You're breathing in the gas that comes out of peoples arses (and cat farts, dog farts, cow farts... so many farts) the exhaust fumes from yours and other peoples cars, planes, helicopters, boats and trains. Any time you're stuck in a room with other humans you're breathing in some of what they breathed out. There is no escape from this.

Vapers do not cause you to breath in more of this disgusting stuff, they just let you see that little portion that you're breathing in. If everything we churn out into our atmosphere came with a neat coloured cloud so we could see it... welllll.. ew.

It's worse than cigarette smoke

No. It isn't. Public Health Englands study into vaping and examination of multiple studies showed that for the secondary inhaler, ie you judgey grumpy non-vapers - it is absolutely, categorically, better than cigarette smoke.

The jury is out on whether its 100% safe for the primary user, me, the common, unclassy, disgusting vaper - but thats fine, we are well aware of that. It is still safer than smoking.

I am allergic to fragrance mix I and balsam of Peru plus other things but those are the only ones relevant to this discussion. They are used in most commercial products from personal care, cleaning supplies, food, and yes, vapes. Flavoring often actually means fragrance.

yes, I do struggle to eat . I struggle to find things like toothpaste and shampoo. I struggle to leave my house. Last time I went to the doctor, even though they took precautions, I had an allergic reaction because they wiped some equipment down with something that wasn’t safe.

Monwmum · 23/05/2024 22:04

It's disgusting! We noticed it more than ever on holiday last year around the pool! It just constantly smelt sickly sweet and fruity! The flavours all seem so gross 🤢 Can't believe anyone wants to inhale the smell of sweets!

Vapers seem to be very inconsiderate of others though much more so than smokers...

Cyanobacterium · 23/05/2024 21:53

I don't think vapers realise care how much blows out behind them and into the faces of passers by.

^^There, fixed it.

As far as I am concerned, causing toxic smoke or vapour to end up in someone else's lungs without consent should be considered assault or poisoning.

cyclamenqueen · 23/05/2024 21:50

cakewitch · 23/05/2024 21:35

It's just steam.. that's all.. and most household air fresheners smell much much worse

No they really don’t .

TTCaxristi · 23/05/2024 21:45

parkrun500club · 23/05/2024 11:36

Yes I don't like it either. It's even more horrible than cigarette smoke,

And then you have the constant lingering smell of weed...

The smell of weed is the absolute worst. I can’t stand it. Who are these people who think it’s ok to smoke it on the streets?!

lawn365 · 23/05/2024 21:44

Yes I don't like it either. Its horrible!!!

LunaNorth · 23/05/2024 21:43

One of the flavours knocks me sick, because it smells exactly like Pripsen threadworm medicine from the 1980s.

I’d rather get a good sniff of Silk Cut <nostalgia>

NoEffingWay · 23/05/2024 21:42

I think what we forget collectively is how much less people smoke now, and how gross the stench of cigarettes used to be.

LoopyLooooo · 23/05/2024 21:40

I don't like the sweet smell particularly but it's way better than fag smoke IMO.

It smells a bit like burning candyfloss.

I do agree with a PP though that some MNetters can get very over dramatic about it.

cakewitch · 23/05/2024 21:35

It's just steam.. that's all.. and most household air fresheners smell much much worse

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2024 21:32

Errors · 23/05/2024 15:43

I didn’t say it was. I just find people’a reactions to it really over the top.
I have never smoked or vaped but realise that the general public is quite annoying on the whole, lots of people do loads of things that get on other people’s nerves but we’ve all kind of got to rub along together. You don’t own nor can control public spaces and what people do in them within the confines of the law.

Well, vaping does make me feel ill.

Years ago, I was told that I have an allergic reaction to secondary smoking. When I got home and delivered the doctor's verdict, my dad - God bless him - stopped smoking on the spot. (That was 45 years ago.)

I'm assuming that my reaction to secondary vaping is similar.

MaryFuckingFerguson · 23/05/2024 21:31

I have a colleague that vapes. Its nowhere near as repulsive as cigarette smoke, but it’s a very unpleasant, cloying smell that lingers. He’s constantly embarrassed about it.

M340 · 23/05/2024 21:29

DemBonesDemBones · 23/05/2024 21:24

@ReadingSoManyThreads I'd never laugh at a genuine medical issue. This, as you know, is absolute nonsense.

On the list of things that didn't happen...

nupnup · 23/05/2024 21:28

@Wheelyfembot I laughed at your response, what an absolute joke.

As if second hand vapour causes nose bleeds and a consultant has confirmed this! So much handwringing.

And no @ReadingSoManyThreads I don't really care about the condition as you're calling people cunts.
I presume you don't get in hot baths, or wear deodorants or hairspray.

Or is it just the pink lemonade elf bar that does the trick.

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/05/2024 21:27

Auburngal · 23/05/2024 17:03

Some of these vapes are designed for kids. When I womble with my fellow litter wombles, we find no end of vapes. Rainbow Candy, Unicorn Shake, Gummy Bears are not flavours that former smokers want to vape. Plus seen teens vape using vapes that flash different colours.

Yes. Yes they are.

exhales huge cloud of Grape & Strawberry Candy flavour vapour

Very few adult vapers want to use tobacco flavours, most people think thats what they'll vape when they give up the fags and they try it for a short while and go off it pretty rapidly in favour of the sweet/fruit/candy/cake flavours.

To answer a few other points, I forget who made them:

'Im allergic to the flavourings'

you're allergic to all the flavours? Really, every single one? Wow. Because each flavour has different ingredients, all of which originate in the food industry, you must really struggle to eat anything.

Possibly you're allergic to one of the two base carriers in vapes, Propylene glycol and vegetable glycerin - both are safe and common food additives (and are found in many more products beyond food).

It's disgusting breathing in what someone else has breathed out

I can't really help you there - stop breathing in public places, invest in a plastic bubble to live in, wear a filtration mask and breath only filtered air?

Everywhere you go, you're breathing in what someone else breathed out, and more and much worse. You're breathing in the gas that comes out of peoples arses (and cat farts, dog farts, cow farts... so many farts) the exhaust fumes from yours and other peoples cars, planes, helicopters, boats and trains. Any time you're stuck in a room with other humans you're breathing in some of what they breathed out. There is no escape from this.

Vapers do not cause you to breath in more of this disgusting stuff, they just let you see that little portion that you're breathing in. If everything we churn out into our atmosphere came with a neat coloured cloud so we could see it... welllll.. ew.

It's worse than cigarette smoke

No. It isn't. Public Health Englands study into vaping and examination of multiple studies showed that for the secondary inhaler, ie you judgey grumpy non-vapers - it is absolutely, categorically, better than cigarette smoke.

The jury is out on whether its 100% safe for the primary user, me, the common, unclassy, disgusting vaper - but thats fine, we are well aware of that. It is still safer than smoking.