Well well, whoever said boys are easier than girls as teens, I have a bone to pick!!
Where to begin, my DS is 18, in sixth form doing his A-levels. He’s bright, has firmed his uni choice for next year and needs AAA.
Last summer he started dating a girl in his year, she’s nice enough and until lately it’s been drama free.
To the issue, well it’s turns out my DS was “emotionally cheating” now I’ll be honest I’m not sure what this means and I don’t really want to but I’ll assume he was chatting to another girl a lot, apparently this had been going on since march (source - my Y12 DD as DS would rather keep me in the dark), the girl in question is in Y12 and one of my DDs best friends.
On the weekend before there first A-level so last weekend, a bunch of Y13s and some Y12s went for food. DSs girlfriend didn’t go (she apparently doesn’t like anyone). Well DS being the perfect example of an idiot decided to kiss this girl he’d been messaging on the walk home and was seen by someone who told his girlfriend.
Oh golly since then it’s been non-stop. On the night before his first exam she broke up with him - DS is distraught. But that I could handle he cheated that’s on him, but since then I think she’s been pushing the boundaries.
Apparently she was seen kissing his best mate the same day as one of his exams, she messaged him over the weekend to say she’s made summer plans with some other lad and honestly it feels very vindictive.
She’s definitely more academic than DS and according to DD seems to be fine and getting through by being a bit bitchy.
Now DS has has a couple of his exams already and tbh he doesn’t think they have gone well at all, unsurprisingly. If there is any chance of saving this he needs the rest to go perfectly but this girl seems to be intent on getting her own back. He has blocked her but she seems to find ways to get to him!
Her mum isn’t on the scene but I think I need to talk to her dad and say “hey can we call a truce until exams are over then you two can battle your break up however you see fit”.
DH thinks I need to stay out of it, DS is a mess and I feel like we are in a teen drama show!!
AIBU wanting to talk to her dad? Or will just be looking at either clearing or resits and hoping DS has learnt a lesson?
Gosh aren’t teens hard work!