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To push past in this situation

31 replies

SpringKitten · 21/05/2024 13:55

If someone you knew at work was provoking you (the topic was insisting that you had to announce your pronouns and then tapping repeatedly the back of your chair to annoy you when you refused) and then later in the day that person decided to escalate the argument and also blocked the doorway to the toilets, refusing to move when you asked them to please let you past, would you be unreasonable to shove past them into the loo?

In a situation where there is no other female loo available and both of you are women.

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ilovesooty · 21/05/2024 14:48

Crunchymum · 21/05/2024 14:45

What sex are you?

She said they're both women.

She shouldn't be blocking your personal space whatever the issue is.

Crunchymum · 21/05/2024 14:45

SpringKitten · 21/05/2024 13:55

If someone you knew at work was provoking you (the topic was insisting that you had to announce your pronouns and then tapping repeatedly the back of your chair to annoy you when you refused) and then later in the day that person decided to escalate the argument and also blocked the doorway to the toilets, refusing to move when you asked them to please let you past, would you be unreasonable to shove past them into the loo?

In a situation where there is no other female loo available and both of you are women.

What sex are you?

Nanny0gg · 21/05/2024 14:35

Justcallmebebes · 21/05/2024 14:34

That's pretty outrageous. I'd escalate that

^^This

Who does she think she is?

Justcallmebebes · 21/05/2024 14:34

That's pretty outrageous. I'd escalate that

ashiningbeaconinspace · 21/05/2024 14:19

I would probably claim to identify as a 3 toed sloth 🦥 in those conditions!

KreedKafer · 21/05/2024 14:14

What is the actual situation here? Are you saying that your female colleague won’t let you in the bogs until you confirm you aren’t a man?