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Is this a red flag?

31 replies

Drumstick99 · 20/05/2024 18:14

Dating as a single mum and been on a few dates with a single dad. He sees his daughter on the weekends but her mum doesn’t allow her to stay over and his house and doesn’t trust him to do it apparently for a few reasons. Is this a red flag with having a young child myself

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Babycatsmummy · 20/05/2024 18:17

Hmmm I'd definitely explore and see what her reasoning is. Do you like this guy?
Obviously, I'd not introduce him to your DC until you've established a better understanding as to why he is being stopped.

It may just be a case of a bitter ex but until
You get to know him a bit better it's hard to judge these situations xx

Treacletoots · 20/05/2024 18:17

It would be a no from me.

I wouldn't let someone unsuitable near my dog, let alone my child.

Novella90 · 20/05/2024 18:17

Do you know the reasons?

Offthepath · 20/05/2024 18:17

Major red flag

jackstini · 20/05/2024 18:16

Has he said that? Or do you know her?

Ciderlout · 20/05/2024 18:15

Well it’s not great…..

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