I’ve been with my boyfriend around six months, we live in London and he currently shares an apartment with a female. I think they’ve lived together maybe 2 years.
She is attractive and I think it’s been the case that since they met he’s fancied her but she hasn’t been interested in him. She also has a boyfriend (but this is also a recent relationship).
I 100% don’t think she’s jealous I’m with him but I think she’s jealous she doesn’t fully have his attention anymore, but I also think she’d actually never date him given the chance. They’ve also both been single at the same time as well.
Hes never given me reason to think he’d cheat but then today he was late meeting me because it was because he was comforting her because she was upset about her grandad passing - I have no idea when he died but it’s not a recent thing.
Maybe I’m being harsh, but she has her own boyfriend to comfort her and I know grief can hit at any point it just felt I would have been more understanding if the death was recent? It’s ultimately made me think that she’s always going to have some pull on him and I can’t be bothered to compete so maybe it’s easier to end it early on? Or am a I heartless cow?