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Leaving the tumble dryer/washing machine on when going out

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DustyLee123 · 19/05/2024 07:46

I came home the other day to find that DH had left the tumbler/washing machine on and gone out for 30 minutes or so.
It makes me so mad that the house could have burned down due to his laziness, yet I get looked at like I’m nagging.
And we both know a couple whose garage went on fire due to the tumbler being left on.

YABU - stop nagging and be grateful he did some washing.
YANBU - everyone knows you don’t go out and leave the tumble dryer on.

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ChaosAndCrumbs · 28/05/2024 17:59

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 11:25

You make your own choices, and take your own risks.

Of course I do. That’s very obvious, we all make our own choices and take our own risks in every aspect of life. I’m also pointing out that plenty of people will be like me, dealing with disabilities and health issues or life stages that create extra laundry and may need separate washes and so are in a bit of a catch 22. Telling them to take their own risks doesn’t offer anything but guilt tripping, which is a bit silly when you don’t know what difficult choices and risks they may already be juggling at home.

PoochiesPinkEars · 24/05/2024 22:07

@Tiredandfedupofit I wasn't taking about you specifically.
There are plenty of people whose laundry cycles and home presence don't overlap as well as you manage.
The bending out of shape was a reference to people for whom they would have to significantly, and not easily, alter things to achieve what you readily manage.
Didn't imagine you were hovering over your appliance, not sure where you got that idea from.

My wondering out loud where we draw the line on risk from 'too high to conscionably accept any exposure to it' to 'pragmatically I'm going to have to accept this risk in my life because avoiding it creates appreciable difficulties' seems to have been taken awfully personally by you. 🤷🏾

Tiredandfedupofit · 24/05/2024 20:42

PoochiesPinkEars · 24/05/2024 17:40

@taxguru but there are plenty that do.
My point/question is what is the threshold of risk where we (attempt to) avoid all exposure to it and bend our life far out of shape in that attempt?

I'm really not bending my life far out of shape by only using my appliances when I'm home. Talk about an exaggeration!

If you choose to take that risk, that's absolutely down to you but don't think those who don't are just sitting at home hovering over our appliances in case they catch fire! It works for me to use these things when I'm home, no shape bending necessary!

NoWordForFluffy · 24/05/2024 19:47

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 19:45

Where are these statistics published? I'd rather be cautious relying on my experiences.

You can Google the number of each type of fire and the number of households in the UK to work the % out. Around 650 fires out of about 28m households.

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 19:45

NoWordForFluffy · 24/05/2024 19:25

0.00002% of houses in the UK had a WM or TD fire in a recent year (can't recall which, maybe 2022). The risk is tiny, and people can decide how risk averse they are, based on stats and experience.

Where are these statistics published? I'd rather be cautious relying on my experiences.

NoWordForFluffy · 24/05/2024 19:25

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 11:25

You make your own choices, and take your own risks.

0.00002% of houses in the UK had a WM or TD fire in a recent year (can't recall which, maybe 2022). The risk is tiny, and people can decide how risk averse they are, based on stats and experience.

fieldsofbutterflies · 24/05/2024 18:57

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 18:54

Where did you get that statistic from?

Someone linked it upthread.

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 18:54

fieldsofbutterflies · 24/05/2024 11:30

Someone upthread posted about a fridge catching fire - you can't completely eliminate the risk.

Of course it's devastating when it happens but the chances are still absolutely tiny - less than 0.1%.

Where did you get that statistic from?

PoochiesPinkEars · 24/05/2024 17:40

@taxguru but there are plenty that do.
My point/question is what is the threshold of risk where we (attempt to) avoid all exposure to it and bend our life far out of shape in that attempt?

taxguru · 24/05/2024 17:35

PoochiesPinkEars · 24/05/2024 09:07

Same question here.
Winner what the stats on car accidents are and how they compare to the stats on appliance fires etc... We're all still driving around though, should we avoid that too, because there are no reasons to use a car that justify that risk?

Most people have to travel so it's a meaningless comparison. Few people "have to" leave the drier running when they're out of the house.

taxguru · 24/05/2024 17:33

fieldsofbutterflies · 24/05/2024 11:30

Someone upthread posted about a fridge catching fire - you can't completely eliminate the risk.

Of course it's devastating when it happens but the chances are still absolutely tiny - less than 0.1%.

Indeed, but statistics show that driers have a higher risk of catching fire than a fridge. Anything electrical has a higher risk of catching fire without external influences than something that isn't such as a sofa! Different electrical appliances have differing risks as to catching fire.

mygrandchildrenrock · 24/05/2024 11:32

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 07:58

I'm sorry, but as a retired firefighter, I have seen too many fires caused by faulty appliances. Homes damaged and unnecessary injuries. The things you mention do not justify taking risks.

30 years ago, I went out for half an hour leaving the dryer on in the garage. Came home to fire fighters putting out a fire! One of the fire fighters said they would never go out and leave a dryer on and I’ve never done so since.

fieldsofbutterflies · 24/05/2024 11:30

aLFIESMA · 24/05/2024 08:14

This (tumble dryer fire) happened a few days ago to a friend, she'd only popped out for 30 mins and came home to fire engines. Please ,please, please never leave a dryer on when you're not home everyone.

Someone upthread posted about a fridge catching fire - you can't completely eliminate the risk.

Of course it's devastating when it happens but the chances are still absolutely tiny - less than 0.1%.

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 11:25

ChaosAndCrumbs · 24/05/2024 08:24

That’s fine, I appreciate your opinion based on experience, but what solution is there? If I don’t take the risks, we don’t have clean clothes.

You make your own choices, and take your own risks.

PoochiesPinkEars · 24/05/2024 09:07

ChaosAndCrumbs · 24/05/2024 08:24

That’s fine, I appreciate your opinion based on experience, but what solution is there? If I don’t take the risks, we don’t have clean clothes.

Same question here.
Winner what the stats on car accidents are and how they compare to the stats on appliance fires etc... We're all still driving around though, should we avoid that too, because there are no reasons to use a car that justify that risk?

trainedopossum · 24/05/2024 08:56

Our dishwasher started smoking at the plug and would've caused a fire if we'd been out. Ever since then I turn off appliances when I go out, particularly because we have dogs and I'd never forgive myself.

ChaosAndCrumbs · 24/05/2024 08:24

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 07:58

I'm sorry, but as a retired firefighter, I have seen too many fires caused by faulty appliances. Homes damaged and unnecessary injuries. The things you mention do not justify taking risks.

That’s fine, I appreciate your opinion based on experience, but what solution is there? If I don’t take the risks, we don’t have clean clothes.

aLFIESMA · 24/05/2024 08:14

This (tumble dryer fire) happened a few days ago to a friend, she'd only popped out for 30 mins and came home to fire engines. Please ,please, please never leave a dryer on when you're not home everyone.

Kjpt140v · 24/05/2024 07:58

ChaosAndCrumbs · 24/05/2024 07:37

Ok, but if someone is then unable to actually get the washing done (or in this situation, the drying and the dishes as well), then what’s the solution?

Potty training, urinary conditions, bladder/bowel weakness due to stroke are all current issues in my family atm. There’s seperate washes to general clothes eg. bibs/wool clothes/coats/soiled clothes etc. The cycle takes 3-4:30 hours, usually longer as the machine gets stuck on 11 minutes for about half an hour (and definitely longer if a hot wash). If someone is out at 8:30am and back around 6pm, how does more than one load get done a day? When do they fit in a drum clean if not overnight?

Just genuinely wondering how people fit it in? I work from home, but regularly have meetings out of home and other commitments during the day with my children so I’m not ‘at home all day’ if that makes sense. Some of those meeting days are really long - 16h the other week - so how do I keep up with laundry if only using when I’m home the entire time?

I'm sorry, but as a retired firefighter, I have seen too many fires caused by faulty appliances. Homes damaged and unnecessary injuries. The things you mention do not justify taking risks.

ChaosAndCrumbs · 24/05/2024 07:37

Kjpt140v · 23/05/2024 12:11

There is a significant risk. Problems with electrical appliances are usually those with electric motors due to overheating. I've seen many.

Ok, but if someone is then unable to actually get the washing done (or in this situation, the drying and the dishes as well), then what’s the solution?

Potty training, urinary conditions, bladder/bowel weakness due to stroke are all current issues in my family atm. There’s seperate washes to general clothes eg. bibs/wool clothes/coats/soiled clothes etc. The cycle takes 3-4:30 hours, usually longer as the machine gets stuck on 11 minutes for about half an hour (and definitely longer if a hot wash). If someone is out at 8:30am and back around 6pm, how does more than one load get done a day? When do they fit in a drum clean if not overnight?

Just genuinely wondering how people fit it in? I work from home, but regularly have meetings out of home and other commitments during the day with my children so I’m not ‘at home all day’ if that makes sense. Some of those meeting days are really long - 16h the other week - so how do I keep up with laundry if only using when I’m home the entire time?

Kjpt140v · 23/05/2024 12:11

parkrun500club · 23/05/2024 11:44

I would never go out and leave the tumble dryer on, but I have gone out and left the washing machine on. I think the risk with the washing machine is much lower and am more worried about a flood than a fire.

Edited: we often run the dishwasher as we go to bed.

But please please don't leave your tumble dryer on if you are not there, or in bed!

Edited

There is a significant risk. Problems with electrical appliances are usually those with electric motors due to overheating. I've seen many.

parkrun500club · 23/05/2024 11:44

I would never go out and leave the tumble dryer on, but I have gone out and left the washing machine on. I think the risk with the washing machine is much lower and am more worried about a flood than a fire.

Edited: we often run the dishwasher as we go to bed.

But please please don't leave your tumble dryer on if you are not there, or in bed!

ohtowinthelottery · 23/05/2024 11:38

We put our dishwasher on once and went away for the weekend. When we came home 2 days later it was still running. We were lucky to have a house to come back to! It was only a couple of years old too (as was the house!)
Never done it again since.
It worries me that energy companies are encouraging people to use cheap off peak electricity by putting on their appliances at night. Thankfully I've got solar panels and I'm at home most of the time so I use free electricity as soon as the sun shows it's face.

Growlybear83 · 23/05/2024 08:58

I woukd never leave a washing machine or tumble drier on when I went out or overnight. I have occasionally left the dishwasher on at night but turn it off if I need to go out. I remember my mum's washer/drier catching fire a few years ago, and how terrifying thst was for her.

OneWildBiscuit · 23/05/2024 08:47

Knowing a family who were left homeless on Christmas Eve after a catastrophic house fire caused by their tumble dryer, I would never leave a tumble dryer unattended. I do leave my washing machine on when out though as I don't feel there is any significant risk of this being a fire hazard.

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