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Is it a townie thing? Or am I just anti-social?

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oObyeOo · 18/05/2024 18:09

I live in a very popular part of the UK that basically triples in number the summer months.

It’s the Lakes, so it’s ruralish and lots of space if you know where to go. Yet despite this space…. Like today for example….

Me and family (dh & 11yr old dd) are sitting on the lake shore, really long section of beach. Lots of space as only us and another family approx 20mtrs away.

Another family with younger kids approx 1 and 4 come and sit RIGHT next to us!… About 2 meters away. There’s a whole fucking beach!

Why?!

I think it’s a townie thing… when you live surrounded by people you feel safer/more comfortable next to people.

Whereas if you live rurally you prefer your space more.

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Bryonny84 · 18/05/2024 18:16

People do this all the time. It's like when you're the only person on the bus, all the other seats are empty and someone gets on and sits next to you. They do it because they can or they want to talk to someone. You could always move to another bit of beach if you're bothered?

SherlockHomies · 18/05/2024 18:14

I mean not all 'townies' are the same and I don't imagine all rural dwellers are either.

Some are more sociable than others.

Revelatio · 18/05/2024 18:11

How do you know they don’t live rurally?

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