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Is losing a pet the same as losing a relative?

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Thejewellershands · 18/05/2024 10:27

This question has been inspired from another thread that I read this morning and got me wondering.

Do you think that losing a pet is comparable/the same as losing a relative?

I have a dog and two cats and on one hand if I lost a close family member and someone compares it to them losing their cat I’d probably be a bit annoyed. But then again, when I put myself in the position of losing one of my animals I know that I will feel utterly devastated and heartbroken. Grief is grief and loss is loss. But are they comparable? What do you think?

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Thejewellershands · 18/05/2024 10:30

Seashor · 18/05/2024 10:29

Worse, I actually love my pets.

Maybe this is what it comes down to. How close you are/how much you love the relative vs how bonded you are to your pet

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Gcsunnyside23 · 18/05/2024 10:29

No. In no way comparable in my opinion. I have a pet who I love but no way would I grieve a pet like a family member it friend. But saying that I do know people who feel so deeply for their pet that they would

Seashor · 18/05/2024 10:29

Worse, I actually love my pets.