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Which is more acceptable?

54 replies

Whichisworse · 17/05/2024 11:10

OK- so I thought this might be a good debate for Mumsnetters on a Friday ;)

Chatting to my partner last night and they mentioned its ok to pee in the shower. This is the same person who wont share a towel and has to have their own individual towel - no "family towels" as they say this is disgusting.

So the debate is - which is worse?

YABU - Peeing in the shower is acceptable but sharing a towel with your loved one is totally grosse

YANBU - Sharing a towel with someone you are intimate with is perfectly fine - weeing in the shower is actually NOT acceptable.

So there will be lots of you probably that think both options are totally disgusting or wrong - but can you choose which is closest to your view or which you could tolerate more.

Poll is meant to be lighthearted. There is no relationship issue involved here it just came up in conversation.

OP posts:
Watchthedoormat · 17/05/2024 11:15

I'd prefer to share a towel with someone than have them wee in the shower I use

PodCastingPodCasters · 17/05/2024 11:14

Both are fine so I can’t vote!

Youcannotbeseriousreally · 17/05/2024 11:14

Both gross. I think sharing towels is worse though , who does that?!

KarmenPQZ · 17/05/2024 11:13

I think there was a study into it and if you wee at the beginning and take a standard 4 minute shower it’s no more unhygienic and it saves a toilet flush so better for the environment.