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Buyers want wheelie bins included.. after discount

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Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 16/05/2024 23:09

Our lovely FTB 🙄have requested wheelie bins be included after generous discount… many unreasonable requests met!

AIBU to leave dead nan ashes under the floorboards & take the wheel bins as a summer plunge pool for the kids 🫣

OP posts:
Dancehalldarling · 17/05/2024 08:16

Hmm how much were the bins? I’ve changed my mind after reading your updates.

cat flap discount is relevant assuming it’s through a wall and not a door?

Jc2001 · 17/05/2024 08:15

Gillypie23 · 17/05/2024 08:13

The wheelie bins are property of the council not yours personally.

Well you do have to pay for them now with a lot of councils so not sure if that's legally true.

Not that I think people should take them with them if they move

Gillypie23 · 17/05/2024 08:13

The wheelie bins are property of the council not yours personally.

Ginmonkeyagain · 17/05/2024 08:12

I mean you could have said no to the cat flat discount. We had a nervous FtB with a shit solicitor who tried to insist we pay for the local authority (it was an ex LA flat) to carry out an asbestos survey of all the communal areas.

We firmly but politely refused and got on with the sale. No need for vindictiveness.

ineedtostopbeingdramaticfirst · 17/05/2024 08:10

We moved in to a new house and had to buy the bins £150 for three!!

We moved a year later (temporary accommodation) we left them as it was more grief to take them.

Jc2001 · 17/05/2024 08:09

Sound what discount did you give for the catflap?

GivePeaceAChance · 17/05/2024 08:06

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 17/05/2024 07:29

So mumsnet has spoken, I’ll leave the bin. As people have suggested, we live in an area which do not provide bins and we’ve purchased it. Our new property doesn’t have one either.

maybe this is a massive drip feed but the discount is for a cat flap that can be seen in pics, seen in person and was negotiated after a survey (which didn’t show much!)

so maybe I’ll leave them nan & the cat.

So

they requested a discount because the door has a cat flap….well now I’ve heard it all. Why did you agree to it.!!

Im going to reverse my suggestion because
they are petty and
You have to buy your bins in your area and
you’ll have to do the same when you move
they are your bins not the councils.

HarryPottersScar · 17/05/2024 08:04

Blimey OP - you think you are being funny but you just sound angry and vindictive. Even your user name is aggressive. Chill out. Life will be much calmer if you do.

Flamingos89 · 17/05/2024 08:03

My god - I just thought wheelie bins came with the house 😂😂😂 learn something new everyday

Beekeepingmum · 17/05/2024 08:02

I think we can all see where the problem is in this process. You sound vindicative. Your nan isn't going to haunt them, they won't care about a little extra dust under the floor boards, and if they do find out nan will just end up in the council landfill via their hoover and the new bin.

RubySloth · 17/05/2024 07:59

Utterly bizarre that anyone takes wheelie bins with them. Seriously very odd but then again, you think ashes can haunt so enough said, really. 😂

Pipsquiggle · 17/05/2024 07:56

Why did you agree to a discount for the cat flap? They knew they were being CF asking for it but it sounds like you capitulated.
How much discount did you give them?
Sounds like they wanted a little bit more off to make them feel like they've got a deal, a bit like on Bargain Hunt when they say 'Would you take x ' after asking 'What's your best price?'

I have always left the bins even though I paid for them from the council.

Please don't be that person to take the light bulbs and loo seat, you're coming across as petty. Your house is nearly sold, go and make lovely memories in your new home

HMW1906 · 17/05/2024 07:54

If you’re not happy with the price you’ve agreed then you should have said no. Not said yes then start being petty and tidy about wheelie bins and grans ashes (which no one would care about other than you and maybe other family members who would be horrified that you would do that to a loved ones ashes).

LuluBlakey1 · 17/05/2024 07:54

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 17/05/2024 07:29

So mumsnet has spoken, I’ll leave the bin. As people have suggested, we live in an area which do not provide bins and we’ve purchased it. Our new property doesn’t have one either.

maybe this is a massive drip feed but the discount is for a cat flap that can be seen in pics, seen in person and was negotiated after a survey (which didn’t show much!)

so maybe I’ll leave them nan & the cat.

You sound like the kind of person who would just leave their pet.

shazshaz · 17/05/2024 07:54

I know round my way the council own the rubbish bin but the garden waste bin we own & it cost £100 to buy plus an annual fee. If we move within the borough the council say take the bin and they send you a sticker with your new address to put on it. If you move outside the borough you leave the bin, they collect it and give you money back.

LuluBlakey1 · 17/05/2024 07:52

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 16/05/2024 23:09

Our lovely FTB 🙄have requested wheelie bins be included after generous discount… many unreasonable requests met!

AIBU to leave dead nan ashes under the floorboards & take the wheel bins as a summer plunge pool for the kids 🫣

It would never cross my mind to take wheelie bins with me on a house move.

Timeforanewnam · 17/05/2024 07:51

Well .

thats enough crazy for me today

CatkinToadflax · 17/05/2024 07:50

Blimey, I hope the buyers aren’t expecting a fully fitted kitchen. 😶

artfuldodgerjack · 17/05/2024 07:47

Paperthin · 16/05/2024 23:19

NOBODY takes their wheels bins OP, not in the UK anyway.

Both times I moved the buyers took the bins! And one house we had to wait almost a year for new bins!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/05/2024 07:47

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 17/05/2024 07:41

I dug up a plant from DM's garden when we sold after she died. I'm glad I did as it's still going strong in my garden years later and the new owners dug up all the plants in the front garden. There's a couple I wish I'd taken from the back garden as well as they dug up everything in the back garden as well (it sold again on Rightmove, I didn't go and check!)

My mum has a rose in a pot which she took from the garden of her childhood home after my grandparents' house was sold. It's already moved house once. I'm not sure whether she grew it from a cutting or dug up the whole plant. I think having that link to the house she was born and grew up in has helped her to come to terms with life moving on. She is also connected with the buyers on Facebook and really likes knowing that they are now raising their young family there.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 17/05/2024 07:45

InWalksBarberalla · 17/05/2024 01:32

In the areas where councils don't provide bins - either paid for in council taxes or for separate fee - are people just allowed to use any bin? How does the waste collection happen - here it is one person driving a truck that picks up the bins and empties them so all the bins have to have the same lid design.

I can answer this! We don't have wheelie bins here. Everyone mostly just uses either a normal/old fashioned round dustbin that they buy from a shop, or just puts the bags out on the kerb.

The collection is a team of about 4 people picking up bags (or struggling to get them out of the odd wheelie bin people have also bought from a shop) and chucking them manually in the back of the bin lorry. It's not a lorry that can pick up bins.

We took our bin when we moved, but all the recycling malarkey stayed with the house. We paid for an optional garden waste wheelie bin, (which does get picked up by the lorry) and a subscription to empty it. If we moved to the same council area I'd probably ask the council if we can take it and not have to pay the lump sum for the bin again.

TheGirlWithTheMousyHair · 17/05/2024 07:44

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 17/05/2024 07:29

So mumsnet has spoken, I’ll leave the bin. As people have suggested, we live in an area which do not provide bins and we’ve purchased it. Our new property doesn’t have one either.

maybe this is a massive drip feed but the discount is for a cat flap that can be seen in pics, seen in person and was negotiated after a survey (which didn’t show much!)

so maybe I’ll leave them nan & the cat.

I’d want a big discount for a cat flap, because I’d need to replace the door, and they aren’t cheap! Perfectly reasonable request.

crumbpet · 17/05/2024 07:43

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/05/2024 07:42

They negotiated a discount for the cat flap?

Why on earth did you agree to that? It's not as if they would have pulled out of the sale if you'd just said no.

How big is the cat flap and has it caused structural issues?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/05/2024 07:42

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 17/05/2024 07:29

So mumsnet has spoken, I’ll leave the bin. As people have suggested, we live in an area which do not provide bins and we’ve purchased it. Our new property doesn’t have one either.

maybe this is a massive drip feed but the discount is for a cat flap that can be seen in pics, seen in person and was negotiated after a survey (which didn’t show much!)

so maybe I’ll leave them nan & the cat.

They negotiated a discount for the cat flap?

Why on earth did you agree to that? It's not as if they would have pulled out of the sale if you'd just said no.

mitogoshi · 17/05/2024 07:42

And strictly speaking, if it's in the photo or description unless specific marked as not included then it is. Our range cooker for instance was stated as not included.