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Buyers want wheelie bins included.. after discount

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Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 16/05/2024 23:09

Our lovely FTB 🙄have requested wheelie bins be included after generous discount… many unreasonable requests met!

AIBU to leave dead nan ashes under the floorboards & take the wheel bins as a summer plunge pool for the kids 🫣

OP posts:
ilovesushi · 17/05/2024 10:27

I bet they want you to leave the tiles on roof too!

JudgeJ · 17/05/2024 10:25

shazshaz · 17/05/2024 07:54

I know round my way the council own the rubbish bin but the garden waste bin we own & it cost £100 to buy plus an annual fee. If we move within the borough the council say take the bin and they send you a sticker with your new address to put on it. If you move outside the borough you leave the bin, they collect it and give you money back.

Oh at least we don't have to first buy it and we pay about £60 a year which I thought was excessive, I feel less so now!

JudgeJ · 17/05/2024 10:22

LittleGreenDragons · 16/05/2024 23:17

The wheelie bins stay with the property. They aren't yours, they belong to the council. Where do you do live if you believe they go with you?

We pay annually for our brown, garden rubbish bins so people do tend to take them as they would have to pay again for a new one though I suppose it depends on the time of year, if the renewal is due then it's pointless.

NotOutWoods · 17/05/2024 10:22

Where we live, you have to buy them! And they're on such a backorder, it takes ages to get them sorted! How do I know? We just moved house into this new area and the seller took the bins with her! Fair enough. But it was six weeks before we got our own bins. And the council, idiots, kept telling us to just put rubbish outside in bags and they'd get collected. On more than one occasion, they didn't! As the bin men refused to take them due to "health and safety". And this is a council that's declared itself bankrupt!

mangochutneyjar · 17/05/2024 10:22

CatHerderSupreme · 17/05/2024 10:20

What if your Nan likes them though and doesn’t haunt them properly?

She may turn into a helpful poltergeist who moves their bins out in the night before bin day, then moves them back again?

Maybe she'll end up preferring to live with them than with you because you dissed her ashes 😆

Ottersmith · 17/05/2024 10:21

What?? There are places where the council don't provide bins? What the hell?! Are they big Tory areas or something?

CatHerderSupreme · 17/05/2024 10:20

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 16/05/2024 23:44

I’m loving that taking my wheelie bin is unreasonable but popping a teaspoon of nans ashes underneath the floorboards to haunt the tight fuckers hasn’t picked up on…

What if your Nan likes them though and doesn’t haunt them properly?

She may turn into a helpful poltergeist who moves their bins out in the night before bin day, then moves them back again?

Voerendaal · 17/05/2024 10:17

This has got to be a joke - nobody could be so pathetic to take the wheelie bins with. Actually when you consider taking light bulbs toilet seats etc it isn’t just pathetic - it is actually nasty

Wheelieusefulbinlover · 17/05/2024 10:15

@Sellthishousetorhosecunts stick to your guns! I think this is an MN thing, like the mumsnet infinite roast chicken, where councils have a ring fenced wheelie bin budget and every household has at least 3.

I live in a London Borough previously mentioned in the thread and they don't give anything away for free. When I move I'll be taking my wheelie bin with me. I don't care how dirty or stinky it is, I'll clean it, that bin cost me £50!!

Alondra · 17/05/2024 10:14

Magnastorm · 16/05/2024 23:22

Who the fuck takes wheelie bins with them when they move?

Probably the same weirdos who pay to get them cleaned, I guess.

This. I can't believe people take their wheelie bins when they move.

MN never stops surprising me.

Itloggedmeoutagain · 17/05/2024 10:14

I'm struggling to believe this is real

oakleaffy · 17/05/2024 10:11

taxguru · 17/05/2024 10:01

Taking lightbulbs is pathetically petty.

As for nan's ashes, no one would care, why would they? There's already lots of debris, dust etc under floorboards.

Discount/negotiation is entirely normal and you're being very unreasonable to get wound up about it. You either agree or you don't and then you move on.

I'd also caution against annoying your buyer. You don't know when you may need a favour from them, i.e. if post or a parcel gets delivered there, you need an element of goodwill for them to hold onto to it and let you collect. If we bought a house with an unhinged and stroppy seller like the OP who took all the lightbulbs, I'd be immediately shredding all post that came for them and putting parcels in the bin!

Taking lightbulbs is really spiteful and an arsehole move.
When my friend moved into his first property, the lovely selling householder left them a lovely note to say she hoped they'd be really happy there.

That reflected far better oil the seller than some spiteful person being petty about bins and lightbulbs.

As to the Grandmother's ashes, that's just disrespectful to the Grandmother.

oakleaffy · 17/05/2024 10:08

Taking a Wheelie bin when you move?? That's crazy.
I thought they belonged to the local council anyway - not the householder.

ChristmasFluff · 17/05/2024 10:06

We have to pay for our garden waste bins every year - it's not a fee for the bin, it's a fee for them to be emptied.

The previous resident left his garden bin anyway. As would I. Can't believe anyone would take a wheelie bin with them.

Mimimimi1234 · 17/05/2024 10:04

Id only take my wheelie bin if i had bought a nice new one and it was nice and clean or I was on a budget myself. Otherwise, If they were old and manky, I think Id like a nice new bin for my new property. If you want your wheelie bins for the above reasons then say no. But I wouldnt do it out of spite, its not worth bringing spite into it, just think logically if you want those particular bins or not.

taxguru · 17/05/2024 10:01

Taking lightbulbs is pathetically petty.

As for nan's ashes, no one would care, why would they? There's already lots of debris, dust etc under floorboards.

Discount/negotiation is entirely normal and you're being very unreasonable to get wound up about it. You either agree or you don't and then you move on.

I'd also caution against annoying your buyer. You don't know when you may need a favour from them, i.e. if post or a parcel gets delivered there, you need an element of goodwill for them to hold onto to it and let you collect. If we bought a house with an unhinged and stroppy seller like the OP who took all the lightbulbs, I'd be immediately shredding all post that came for them and putting parcels in the bin!

Fr7fr6 · 17/05/2024 10:01

I've never heard of someone taking their wheelie bins with them. I thought they belonged to your local council.

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2024 10:01

Sellthishousetorhosecunts · 16/05/2024 23:44

I’m loving that taking my wheelie bin is unreasonable but popping a teaspoon of nans ashes underneath the floorboards to haunt the tight fuckers hasn’t picked up on…

Why would you take them? They're not yours, they're the council's!

How many would you need at your new house?

Shan5474 · 17/05/2024 09:56

How much was the discount for the cat flap? Surely you could’ve just said no?? I’d prefer to pay £40 for a new bin than put my gross bin in a removal van with my belongings. How much have you pissed off the seller of your new house that they’re taking their bins with them too???

Mistymountain · 17/05/2024 09:54

I thought the wheelie bins belonged to the council? We pay £50 a year for ours.

sueelleker · 17/05/2024 09:52

Unless they're extra ones that you've bought, aren't wheelie bins council property?

Iamnotalemming · 17/05/2024 09:51

You need to leave or take whatever you've agreed to leave and take on your Fixtures and Fittings Form (assuming you're in the UK).

If your buyers have queried something on the form and you don't like it just say no? If you had to buy them and can use them where you're going explain that. They are likely to be of the don't ask don't get school of thought. They are unlikely to pull out of the purchase over some bins.

Taking the lightbulbs and not leaving a single loo roll is petty. Don't be that seller. And leaving your Nan's ashes is plain weird.

Conveyancing is horribly stressful. It will be over soon. Good luck.

badatdecisions · 17/05/2024 09:48

Magnastorm · 16/05/2024 23:22

Who the fuck takes wheelie bins with them when they move?

Probably the same weirdos who pay to get them cleaned, I guess.

I pay to get mine cleaned monthly and I wouldn't take them with me 😂

silverfullmoon · 17/05/2024 09:46

I dont think leaving your grans ashes is going to be the punishment you think it is. I'd just chuck them in the bin. Surely the only one here being disrespected is your granny?!

Also, who would want to use a bin as a plunge pool vomit nothing more relaxing than marinating in used tea bags, bin juice and old potato peeling slime 😂

SeismicSalad · 17/05/2024 09:45

Boogiemam · 17/05/2024 07:33

I read your OP thinking you were laughing at how daft a request was to leave the wheelie bins, because what dickhead loads stinking, filthy, full of rubbish bins into a van and moves house with them??
Oh, that would be you.

What is missing in your life that THIS is how you passive aggressively try and "get even" with those who have wronged you? (Even though you could have said no to the negotiation in price).

Not just take them but use them as “a summer plunge pool for the kids” - is everyone overlooking that part? 😂😂😂