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Young child alone in park- safe for now but what next

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watchuswreckthemic · 16/05/2024 23:05

Long one for context/
We have a local small play park which is on the road of a bus route.
Tonight there were a few small teenage groups behaving lovely (some who I recognise), some dog walkers around and a young child.
I assumed the young child was with the dog walkers until she came into the fenced off play equipment and started to engage with me and my youngest.
They asked me to push them in a swing etc and I asked 'do you live close' to which she replied 'I live there' and pointed at a house. I then asked 'are you allowed to play here alone' and they said 'yes my mum knows, she's in bed but I'm okay'.
We left soon after (7pm) but I said 'I think you should go home' etc repeatedly but she stayed.
When I got home my child indicated that they knew this child was about 5.
Via the teenagers I know parents and the teenager themselves etc we know she got home safe this time (as in a vague report from one of them, after a few of the girls trying to encourage her home it seems she did let herself in). Feedback from them is her mum is of the angry sort.

I'm genuinely worried. She had her uniform on so I know what school she attends (infants!) and I know the office staff and teachers from my kids going there.

AIBU for making a safeguarding type of call tomorrow to the school?

OP posts:
Inkyblue123 · 16/05/2024 23:10

get straight onto the social worker tonight. Don’t wait till the morning . If any thing happened you’d never forgive yourself.

Ineedaholidayyyy · 16/05/2024 23:09

Yes I would report this to the school, there is no way a 5 year old should be playing on a park unattended. The fact the child seems fine suggests this is a regular occurance. It's a safeguarding concern and you should absolutely report to the school who can take things further.

nocoolnamesleft · 16/05/2024 23:08

I belong to the school of thought that safeguarding children is not only everybody's business, but is actually the main purpose of society. So I would make a call. But lots of people will probably tell you to mind your own business.

Superstoria · 16/05/2024 23:07

Of course not. You’d be unreasonable not to.

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