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Would this text off your husband put you off

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Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 19:55

😨😨😨😨
’I’ve just shit my pants, literally’

He messaged me this today from work.
He’s not been feeling well recently and complains of a funny tummy in front of our Dd, 6.

Aibu to feel totally put off by this and to just not want to know? Or am I just a cold, uncaring person?!

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DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:23

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:19

Your entitled to your opinion but have you called other ppl out for swearing…some ppl are offended others are not that’s life

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Thank you, Einstein...

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:22

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:17

No bud, not just you as the message re swearing should have been picked up by everyone. IMO there is no need for it.
I hope you do not mind me saying so and many thanks for the response,

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Should have been picked up everyone how can you speak for others not everybody is offended by swear words if you are well as we all know that’s life I love a swear word so that’s that sorted can we get back to the thread now

Janiie · 16/05/2024 21:22

'My dh had to clean up my shit after I had dd2 unexpectedly on the living room floor along with blood. He didn't complain. When I was struggling with my broken ankle and managing the loo he offered to help.'

2 valid and completely different scenarios, her dh was at work. Although tbh I'm not sure a broken ankle would stop me getting to the loo in time.

GrandTheftWalrus · 16/05/2024 21:20

My dh had to clean up my shit after I had dd2 unexpectedly on the living room floor along with blood. He didn't complain. When I was struggling with my broken ankle and managing the loo he offered to help.
And I have ibs and sometimes don't make the loo. I don't tell him "I've shit myself" just that I didn't make it and need to pop a wash on.

Janiie · 16/05/2024 21:19

'Its Chrohns.. not chrone... (ffs). My husband has it and when he has ever "shit his pants" in the 22 years I have known him all I have felt is sympathy.'

Crohn's . It's crohn's ('ffs' Grin)

The op's dh does not have crohns so 0/10 for relevance.

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:19

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:17

No bud, not just you as the message re swearing should have been picked up by everyone. IMO there is no need for it.
I hope you do not mind me saying so and many thanks for the response,

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Your entitled to your opinion but have you called other ppl out for swearing…some ppl are offended others are not that’s life

Upallnight2 · 16/05/2024 21:19

K0OLA1D · 16/05/2024 21:00

I'd be concerned it was a bug and I too may succumb to shitting myself!

Same!

Badburyrings · 16/05/2024 21:18

Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 21:15

@Badburyrings ? I missed the final h by accident, I didn’t say Crones. No need to be so rude

not rude at all..

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:17

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:12

Is I only me you digging out ?

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No bud, not just you as the message re swearing should have been picked up by everyone. IMO there is no need for it.
I hope you do not mind me saying so and many thanks for the response,

Chellybelle · 16/05/2024 21:16

It's only poo, he's not well. Husbands and wives and people in relationships go through all kinds together, it's strange that you're making such a big thing of it.

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:16

User79853257976 · 16/05/2024 21:14

What’s wrong with talking about having a bad tummy in front of your DD?

There are ways of talking about an upset tummy

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Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 21:15

@Badburyrings ? I missed the final h by accident, I didn’t say Crones. No need to be so rude

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Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:14

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:10

TIA don’t thank so but cheers anyway

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So I’ve just read through the posts and there are lots of swear words but you are singling me out why is thatb

User79853257976 · 16/05/2024 21:14

What’s wrong with talking about having a bad tummy in front of your DD?

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:12

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:05

please mind your language. TIA

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Is I only me you digging out ?

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:10

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:05

please mind your language. TIA

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TIA don’t thank so but cheers anyway

2Rebecca · 16/05/2024 21:10

Definitely TMI. You're his lover still

Carrot678 · 16/05/2024 21:09

Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 20:57

I just don’t know what was expected of me? To laugh, say are you ok…what?
Now I’m feeling a mix between finding it funny, but also worried it’s something bad 🙈

Do you have quite a serious relationship? My response would have been "FFS 🤣 are you ok? What happened?"

Flyhigher · 16/05/2024 21:09

I think it's funny!

Thingamebobwotsit · 16/05/2024 21:07

Wouldn't bother me at all. I would be very concerned and worry mine was ill. At the end of the day he looks after me when I am poorly and I do the same for him. And for as long as we are both able we clean up our own mess (which is thankfully very rare). But there maybe some point in the future where one us has to care for the other one. And yes it won't be sexy but that is marriage for you.

Londonrach1 · 16/05/2024 21:05

Seriously..it be worried he ok. Poor guy. Yabu. Sickness and health.

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 16/05/2024 21:05

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 20:25

No fucking chance would I was them ok that’s what I meant 🙄

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please mind your language. TIA

Sunshine45688 · 16/05/2024 21:05

No. I would be quite worried for my DH if he texted that. It's a really annoying thing to happen, especially at work, and I assume he would want a supportive person to vent to. If it happened to me, I'd be quite stressed and upset.

Especially since having kids, bodily functions do not gross me out anymore.

Lovinglife57 · 16/05/2024 21:04

Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 20:57

I just don’t know what was expected of me? To laugh, say are you ok…what?
Now I’m feeling a mix between finding it funny, but also worried it’s something bad 🙈

He’s shit himself that’s it you know what some guys are like he probably wants some sympathy and then want you to baby him when he gets home …is he one of them types that will say I’ve shit myself today I need to lay down can you bring my dinner to me and run me a bath after all I shit my pants at work today 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Badburyrings · 16/05/2024 21:03

Whattochoosetowatch · 16/05/2024 20:10

🙈😂
Do I sound that uncaring?

I seriously don’t want to hear it, he doesn’t have Chrons etc, is always trumping…I do find it off putting. I’m not bothered about talking about our dogs poo or DD’s, but would you really send that? I mean, what could I do about it or was expected to do about it 😬

Its Chrohns.. not chrone... (ffs). My husband has it and when he has ever "shit his pants" in the 22 years I have known him all I have felt is sympathy.

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