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To think Keir Starner is ignoring women and children’s rights?

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Greengablesfables · 16/05/2024 17:58

Hello hello? Kier? We’re here. We are right here. We are Women. Are you listening to us? Hello? Hello?

To think Keir Starner is ignoring women and children’s rights?
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AdamRyan · 17/05/2024 11:49

crochetcatsknitting · 17/05/2024 10:02

This thread 🙄

Just this week alone:

I've been overwhelmed by a report on horrific birth experiences for women reminding me of my own. That's our NHS. Who's in charge?

Last night I watched a newsnight feature (that made me cry) on the fact that close to 90% of rape charges do not result in conviction. Our justice system. Who's in charge?

My daughter came home yesterday telling me that a twelve year old at her school is pregnant but the Tories want to ban sex education for youngsters. Our education system and our children. Who's in charge?

The school also sent home literature to discuss and share with my DD re dangers of sexting, and when thinking about how to discuss this and other consent issues with her, I realised I don't feel I can tell her to trust the police anymore. Our police services. Who's in charge?

But because a handful of desperate right wing nutters say the right thing on 'gender woo', the Tories are absolved of any responsibility for the overall fucking disgrace that women's rights are in.

I am GC too, but not to the point I'll turn a blind eye to stuff like the above. If the ONLY thing you care about is GC stuff, then you are not really concerned about "women's rights".

Furthermore, the one thing demonstrably true about the Tories are lies and self-serving corruption.

On the one hand all of the above, on the other, they supposedly care about women's rights?

I'm sorry, but NO. They're lying to you to get your votes. Just like they did with Brexit. If the opinion tide turned, so would they, to hell with science.

Well said

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EasternStandard · 17/05/2024 11:48

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 11:41

@EasternStandard stick with the current lot if you want. Who really cares ? No one’s mind is ever changed on MN.
You give gender critical women a bad name because you also lap up and disseminate all the other right wing tosh that comes with the culture war. Some of us agree that people cannot change sex and that a trans women isn’t a woman but it doesn’t mean we think the tories are competent (or that labour are a million times better but we’ll give them a go).

Well you’re not going to be happy with women speaking up are you?

For whatever reason you make it personal and insulting

I mean it’s irrelevant as you don’t know more than what you’ve created in your head about a random mner you have zero clue about, I can tell whenever you launch into inaccurate diatribes.

Whatever is driving your personally directed anger doesn’t actually have anything to do with me at all.

AdamRyan · 17/05/2024 11:43

Ofcourseshecan · 17/05/2024 08:45

No, it’s another of these threads where women who have voted Labour (or Green, or even LibDem) all their lives are expressing their desperation at having no one they can vote for now.

Unless I have a Communist or SDP candidate, which is very unlikely, I’ll have no one who will defend women’s and children’s rights.

Edited

You have a very narrow view of "womens and children's rights" if you think that's the case.
I put some links upthread on what Labour propose to do about women's rights, there is far more than any other party.

Meanwhile various Conservative MPs are trying to restrict abortion in various ways.

I know which party I think is the biggest risk to womens rights.

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 11:41

@EasternStandard stick with the current lot if you want. Who really cares ? No one’s mind is ever changed on MN.
You give gender critical women a bad name because you also lap up and disseminate all the other right wing tosh that comes with the culture war. Some of us agree that people cannot change sex and that a trans women isn’t a woman but it doesn’t mean we think the tories are competent (or that labour are a million times better but we’ll give them a go).

AdamRyan · 17/05/2024 11:39

Marjoriefrobisher · 17/05/2024 08:49

i absolutely do not give a shit about starmer’s family situation, but the determination of his fan base to explain away that statement is funny, and revealing.

Of course one might say the same about the lengths some posters go to, to shut down debate about Sunaks family. There is a lot more cause for concern there.

The self identification of Starmers child is irrelevant to anything. Maybe you should go and read up about the first trans MP and how well they have been supported by their party leader. Maybe there is a vested interest there.

EasternStandard · 17/05/2024 10:42

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 10:35

Most think the Cass report is good. Does that make up for the years of Tory shite nope. If you live in a nice mc bubble maybe you don’t see how the UK has
declined ? Who knows..

‘Who knows’

Going by your posts aimed at me on various threads I’d say you don’t know much about that or anything more happily 🙌

On this though there seems to be a disconnect. Posters who have been saying stop or mn isn’t the place or whatever throughout haven’t helped.

Their approach would mean politicians wouldn’t change. Labour still had Self ID only last year. Many get angry, hurl insults or threaten but it’s women who have been clear about the harms of gender that have moved this forward.

As for the US in pp I see a good outcome in the U.K. ie the Cass Review and other. It’s pretty much outcomes women are focussing on that are happening.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 17/05/2024 10:42

BIossomtoes · 17/05/2024 10:37

Your call for proof is either wildly naive or a mendacious attempt to get out of providing your own proof, as you know full well that you can’t.

What’s your excuse?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jul/24/labour-will-lead-on-reform-of-transgender-rights-and-we-wont-take-lectures-from-the-divisive-tories

Anneliese Dodds met with LGBA recently so hopefully that's progress!

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 17/05/2024 10:42

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I reckon we're going to get them at least weekly until the election finally arrives 😁
Give it up. As a woman I'll be voting Labour.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 17/05/2024 10:39

Meadowfinch · 16/05/2024 18:17

You're right OP.

I can't vote for them, they represent a genuine risk to women's rights, which is so sad.

😂
Yes, the Tories are so fab for women, better stick with them 🙄
Not

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 10:35

Most think the Cass report is good. Does that make up for the years of Tory shite nope. If you live in a nice mc bubble maybe you don’t see how the UK has
declined ? Who knows..

EasternStandard · 17/05/2024 10:24

Whenwillitgetwarm · 17/05/2024 10:21

This whole ‘do you know what a women is’ worked successfully in the US. Every right wing talk show host would scream it at Democrats. People voted Republican and the result was the end of Roe V Wade.

The right wing lobbyist employees on here know what they’re trying to do. It’s from the playbook but it won’t work.

What do you think of the change that has already happened?

The Cass Review for example and the outcomes it’s effected or moving away from Self ID

Good or not?

Whenwillitgetwarm · 17/05/2024 10:21

This whole ‘do you know what a women is’ worked successfully in the US. Every right wing talk show host would scream it at Democrats. People voted Republican and the result was the end of Roe V Wade.

The right wing lobbyist employees on here know what they’re trying to do. It’s from the playbook but it won’t work.

Marjoriefrobisher · 17/05/2024 10:10

Churchview · 17/05/2024 09:42

Any bill or law on abortion that is so overwhelmingly supported by men from one political party is a relevant concern isn't it?

45 supporters - less than a quarter of whom are women.

39 of whom are Conservative & DUP
Only 3 Labour

Edited

Be concerned about it if you want, although without government backing it isn’t going to pass, so I’m not losing sleep yet. My point is I’m not sure why anyone thinks it’s a relevant response to people raising concerns about what an incoming Labour government (whose members have made many concerning statements on these issues will do). It feels a bit like an attempt to blow smoke in people’s eyes. A pretty unsuccessful one too 😂

PoppingTomorrow · 17/05/2024 10:06

pointythings · 16/05/2024 20:38

Yep, I love people who think the trans issue is more important than all the other issues that affect so many more women to a far greater degree: the NHS, Council services, domestic violence services, the rolling back of rights for temp workers, education and school buildings, insecure housing. You know, trivial little things like that.

Clearly I'm not a true feminist.

Just FWIW: I oppose the use of puberty blockers. I just don't believe Labour are going to reinstate their use. I support the Cass report. I just don't think Labour are going to bin it. And I also haven't forgotten that men in female prisons, men in women's sport and men in female NHS wards has all happened under the current government. And yet here we are again - the Tories are the best party for women.

This in spades every time.

Anyone who thinks that voting for a party decimating free-at-the-point-of-need healthcare, education, and local council funding forcing cuts to early years services, and coming for workers' rights, is better than Labour must be smoking something.

Brefugee · 17/05/2024 10:03

WrenNatsworthy · 16/05/2024 18:58

Is this another one of those threads where the shills come in and bang on about how amazing the Conservative party are with regard to women?

Sigh.

probably.
But what it needs is more people to emphasise how bad Labour is wrt women's rights - despite other relatively ok policies

They read MN, they should hear it as much as possible

crochetcatsknitting · 17/05/2024 10:02

This thread 🙄

Just this week alone:

I've been overwhelmed by a report on horrific birth experiences for women reminding me of my own. That's our NHS. Who's in charge?

Last night I watched a newsnight feature (that made me cry) on the fact that close to 90% of rape charges do not result in conviction. Our justice system. Who's in charge?

My daughter came home yesterday telling me that a twelve year old at her school is pregnant but the Tories want to ban sex education for youngsters. Our education system and our children. Who's in charge?

The school also sent home literature to discuss and share with my DD re dangers of sexting, and when thinking about how to discuss this and other consent issues with her, I realised I don't feel I can tell her to trust the police anymore. Our police services. Who's in charge?

But because a handful of desperate right wing nutters say the right thing on 'gender woo', the Tories are absolved of any responsibility for the overall fucking disgrace that women's rights are in.

I am GC too, but not to the point I'll turn a blind eye to stuff like the above. If the ONLY thing you care about is GC stuff, then you are not really concerned about "women's rights".

Furthermore, the one thing demonstrably true about the Tories are lies and self-serving corruption.

On the one hand all of the above, on the other, they supposedly care about women's rights?

I'm sorry, but NO. They're lying to you to get your votes. Just like they did with Brexit. If the opinion tide turned, so would they, to hell with science.

WickedSerious · 17/05/2024 09:56

AmpleFatball · 17/05/2024 00:01

But he’s referred to his daughter as being just that - his daughter - on many occasions (pre and post the “two sons” comment - which was confirmed by a spokesman to just be a slip of the tongue).

People get their words muddled all the time, it happens. I think taking one verbal slip as evidence that he had a trans child is ridiculous tbh.

He comes across as a very muddled individual tbf.

Churchview · 17/05/2024 09:42

Marjoriefrobisher · 17/05/2024 09:31

It’s not a government bill, and it’s supported by Labour members too. I’m not sure why you think that mentioning it is relevant or helpful in the context of a discussion about concerns in relation to policy of the incoming Labour government.

Any bill or law on abortion that is so overwhelmingly supported by men from one political party is a relevant concern isn't it?

45 supporters - less than a quarter of whom are women.

39 of whom are Conservative & DUP
Only 3 Labour

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 09:37

@Chersfrozenface what’s your point ? All this gender ID and men in female prisons has happened under the conservatives here ? Only changed their tune when they realised they would be obliterated at the GE …

Chersfrozenface · 17/05/2024 09:34

pointythings · 16/05/2024 20:38

Yep, I love people who think the trans issue is more important than all the other issues that affect so many more women to a far greater degree: the NHS, Council services, domestic violence services, the rolling back of rights for temp workers, education and school buildings, insecure housing. You know, trivial little things like that.

Clearly I'm not a true feminist.

Just FWIW: I oppose the use of puberty blockers. I just don't believe Labour are going to reinstate their use. I support the Cass report. I just don't think Labour are going to bin it. And I also haven't forgotten that men in female prisons, men in women's sport and men in female NHS wards has all happened under the current government. And yet here we are again - the Tories are the best party for women.

I suggest you take s look at Wales, where Labour have been in government since the beginning if devolution.

The Senedd, the Welsh Assembly as was, has just voted against accepting the Cass Report.

And do take a look at the Welsh Government's LGBTQ+ Action Plan for Wales.
https://www.gov.wales/lgbtq-action-plan-wales

Marjoriefrobisher · 17/05/2024 09:31

BIossomtoes · 17/05/2024 09:00

Nobody’s “railing”. The constant narrative about toilets and puberty blockers does get tedious. Surely anyone concerned about women’s rights would be all over the current proposal to change abortion law? The impact of that will be huge if it goes through.

https://bills.parliament.uk/bills/3511/stages/18470/amendments/10014840

Edited

It’s not a government bill, and it’s supported by Labour members too. I’m not sure why you think that mentioning it is relevant or helpful in the context of a discussion about concerns in relation to policy of the incoming Labour government.

Churchview · 17/05/2024 09:28

I wonder if I might genuinely and respectfully ask - Are those posters who are unhappy with Labour's stance on this issue confident of how the Conservatives will deal with this matter in future, especially given reference to their performance in this area over the past 14 years? Things have become a real mess, obviously frightening so for some, and I would be interested to know how you feel the Conservatives will deal with this situation which clearly isn't going to disappear whichever party governs next.

Also to the same posters. Can I please ask are you satisfied with what the Conservatives have achieved for women and children over the same period? On balance do you think women and children are generally in a better position now than where we were in 2010? It seems to me that we clearly aren't and I find it hard to get over that in relation to a single issue. Does that issue outweigh the general situation and, if so, how?

Just eager to get an insight into the wider feelings of those for whom this subject is clearly a burning issue.

I suppose I'm primarily asking @Allthesea, @Marjoriefrobisher and @Greengablesfables because of your constant presence on the thread, but any other input would be really welcome.

EasternStandard · 17/05/2024 09:27

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 09:23

Well I guess it’s better than anti immigration crap 😂
Most folk hopefully will be pragmatic. They think the gender stuff has gone too far but other things have a greater bearing on their everyday lives like the NHS and state education and public transport. I don’t live in London, my town is falling apart, it’s a shadow of its former self compared to 14 years ago. We have 2 Tory MPs who’ve done bugger all. Most will be more bothered about that at the same time as not agreeing that young children should get puberty blockers. For the privileged few who have nothing else to worry about it can be an overriding passion but for most of us not so much. Still think the tories’s record is abysmal and won’t vote for them.

Were you the poster that lashed out with ‘immigrant’ the other day. It fits with that diatribe in pp

Tootiredforallthiscrap · 17/05/2024 09:26

@JerseyRoyals most of us think biology matters but also that the state of the UK is shite and the Tories throwing a few morsels of gender critical titbits means nothing and is just to save their skins. Did you even learn from Brexit ?

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