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Scared of going to Paris Alone

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Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:40

I have booked a short trip to Paris for two nights, to go to the French Open Tennis for one day.
There is no one close to me that likes Tennis enough to join me, so I randomly booked solo and a single ticket.
But now I am worried about going there alone. Unable to get refunds.

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AllyCart · 16/05/2024 15:56

The refund bit is irrelevant. You've spent the £1,000 (or whatever) now so forget about the money.

If you really don't want to go, then don't go, because if you do still go you've spent £1,000 AND ALSO had a nightmare, stressful few days, whereas if you don't go you've just spent the £1,000.

Ecstaticmotion · 16/05/2024 15:56

Hey, I spent a month in Paris alone in the summer in 2022. Feel free to PM me if you have any specific qs. It feels as safe as any city - there are some areas you’re not advised to wander into as a tourist in the evenings but otherwise all normal. You will be absolutely fine.

DappledThings · 16/05/2024 15:53

Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:51

Taxi when alone or Metro ok?

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Yes, I'd get Metro or taxi alon in Paris same as I would in London

BigDahliaFan · 16/05/2024 15:52

You could book a transfer from the airport or station through your hotel if you are arriving a bit later on the first night.

sugarhockeyicedtea · 16/05/2024 15:52

What you need to keep you safe in Paris is a man with a particular set of skills..

BigDahliaFan · 16/05/2024 15:51

Not crazy at all, it'll be amazing, as soon as you are in your hotel it'll be fine. And there'll be lots of other people doing the same thing. Ask for tips on here on the best apps and how to get to your accommodation.

I used to travel to Europe a lot for work on my own, and it was always absolutely fine when I got there.

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Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:51

SpringleDingle · 16/05/2024 15:45

Why does it worry you? I have been to Paris twice recently for work travelling alone. I've also been on holiday with my 9 year old daughter, just me and her. Paris is great! If you can express your particular worries perhaps we can reassure?

Taxi when alone or Metro ok?

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DreadPirateRobots · 16/05/2024 15:51

Why would it be crazy?! You wanted to go see a thing so you're going to see the thing. Do you have anxiety? You're making such heavy weather of this and it really doesn't need to be.

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Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:48

I feel it was a bit crazy to book it.

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Headtothestreets · 16/05/2024 15:47

Maybe research exactly where you are going and how you will get there. That might make it feel less alien? Have a wonderful time, what an exciting event to see.

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Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:47

SpringleDingle · 16/05/2024 15:45

Why does it worry you? I have been to Paris twice recently for work travelling alone. I've also been on holiday with my 9 year old daughter, just me and her. Paris is great! If you can express your particular worries perhaps we can reassure?

Its the far West of Paris. So I wont be in the middle . Just want to make sure I am able to find the places I need to be. Late check in times at hotel etc.

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maslinpan · 16/05/2024 15:45

Paris is not a dangerous city and you will be completely fine. Avoid Chatelet Les Halles metro at night as it can be a bit lairy, but otherwise it's completely fine.

SpringleDingle · 16/05/2024 15:45

Why does it worry you? I have been to Paris twice recently for work travelling alone. I've also been on holiday with my 9 year old daughter, just me and her. Paris is great! If you can express your particular worries perhaps we can reassure?

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Aquarius1234 · 16/05/2024 15:44

Ishagonnaland · 16/05/2024 15:43

So if you can’t get a refund …. You’ve two options, go or not.

what are you afraid of? Can you research / plan anything eg use of the Metro to mitigate any fears?

All the usual things when going somewhere new. Researching and looking and how far the travel is to and from, or what form of public transport, isn't quite the same as being there in person.

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DreadPirateRobots · 16/05/2024 15:44

Why? You'll be fine and have a lovely time, unless you deliberately decide not to.

Ishagonnaland · 16/05/2024 15:43

So if you can’t get a refund …. You’ve two options, go or not.

what are you afraid of? Can you research / plan anything eg use of the Metro to mitigate any fears?

AngeloMysterioso · 16/05/2024 15:43

What is it that worries you?

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