So... I was planning a solo vacation and asked a friend to come along. She agreed and we planned a 7 day trip. All was fine, until day 6. We had been having a great day but then we had a small disagreement. It was stupid really, we brought up the common law versus marriage. I noted I thought they were the same thing minus the marriage certificate. She does not like when people disagree with her, for the most part in other situations like this with her, I just keep my mouth shut and don't express myself. However, this time she went off saying her and her common law are not married and she hasn't committed to him etc etc.. I noted to her they were common law and in a years long committed relationship.. she then got upset saying. " I didn't say any vows to him" and 3 times said "I'm not stupid I know the difference". I in turn told her, I had not called her stupid and it's OK to disagree and have a normal discussion still. I then proceeded to walk away and went and sat in another area to cool off. She then came over and sat by me, which fine, but I needed some time to myself. I got up and told her I needed a second and was going to go chill in our hotel room. She then said "we'll when are you coming back and I need up there too" I responded with "I just need a second like idk" and began walking to the room. She followed behind me. I got in the room and used the bathroom. When I came out of the bathroom, she ask for my room key however, my intentions were to go outside on the hotel grounds thus I needed my key. I again said to her, I just need some time, I am going outside. She then got very upset and said I was being a bitch.. she repeated it multiple times "you're acting like a bitch" I was in shock, and when this happens, I shut down. I responded with "we'll how so?" Badically asking why she thought I was a bitch. She then started doing impressions of me saying in a mocking voice "I need a minute, give me some time to myself" and accused me of treating her like her husband. To this, I left the room with no arguing. I took some time, came back and showered etc.. it was very awkward. I was then just relaxing and reading and she was kind of pacing around. I had no words, no thoughts on how to move forward with her. She then said sooo.. what do you want to do.. as if we should just go about the day. I said to her, "I'm not sure, I don't know what to say". She then said well, what your just going to ignore me and I said "I just don't know what to say or do after that". She then again got upset with me and said "I'm leaving tell me when you figure it out" and stormed out of our room. The rest of the trip was just awkward. I had a couple to dos to check off our last day and choose to do them alone.
Overall, my thoughts are I don't want to be friends with someone who mocks me and does impressions of me like that or calls me a bitch. I find this hurtful especially to then further act as if I am in the wrong and not acknowledge her behavior towards me. I would have been more then willing to address any wrong doings on my part but she was hostile so we weren't able to have an appropriate discussion.
Any thoughts?