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Will I throw this one back ... social media activity

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gona · 15/05/2024 07:42

I'm chatting to a man on WhatsApp. Busy schedules have not all owed us to meet for the last couple of weeks but we have plans for next week to meet up.
Before I meet any date I do my best to find out as much about
then as I can via people and sm.

He is as true as his word regarding his plans and commitments and I can see this via social media.

I have been catfished once and if I had done my research on others I would have saved my self a lot of stress. This is why I do this.

This man has given me no reason to believe he isn't who he says he s but I had a look on his socials.

They are chock full of sports, footie, current affairs reposts. Nothing sinister but there are, out of hundreds of likes, a couple of posts/ photos of curvy women. Nothing very revealing or sexual, just women with large breasts. Possibly three likes photos out of hundreds.
Is this a red flag ? Would you throw him back?
I'm
Out of this scene for a very long time so appreciate your views. Thanks.

OP posts:
SocksAndTheCity · 15/05/2024 07:45

Heterosexual man likes tits shocker.

CharlotteSometimes1 · 15/05/2024 07:45

Photos he’s posted or liked? If he’s like two or three out of hundreds it wouldn’t bother me. Not sure how you can see all his likes though. If it’s posts I’d be a bit wary.

bbqsalt · 15/05/2024 07:45

you must have spent hours on this OP

either way, no i wouldn’t meet him

but all those hours wasted op!

fourelementary · 15/05/2024 07:45

As a single man why would “liking” a photo of an attractive woman be a red flag?

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