My friend has recently got engaged to a man she’s been with for about a year. Everything moved very quickly and he swept her off her feet.
I do not like him and one of our other friends has quietly told me the same. Her words were ‘he just doesn’t seem like a nice person’. He’s quick to put others down - ie if someone is moving somewhere, it’s awful and he would never want to live there. But he’s really nice to my friend.
I cannot explain why but I feel really worried about him, like he’s going to turn out to be abusive and hurt her and she will be too proud to say.
Is there some sort of way I can let her know that I will always be there to listen and help if she needs without making it clear I don’t like her fiancé?
He really hasn’t done anything wrong but I just have a very strong feeling he’s bad and when our other friend mentioned it (both our husbands agreed) it’s made me more worried and less like it’s just me not thinking anyone is good enough for her.