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3 ‘baby mums’…. Instant red flag??

354 replies

Lilysienna1 · 13/05/2024 20:23

As the title says…. Would you continue talking with a man you’ve met (in person) if he told you he has 5 children with 3 women? (Youngest is a one year old, oldest is 16.)

From what he has said, the relationship he has with the mothers of his children is amicable, and he has all 5 of them (3 with 1 mum, then one each with the other 2) every other weekend and pays child support for all 5.

Bearing in mind, I have 3 children with my ex, so I feel like a hypocrite for even wondering if there is something just a bit off… that with 3 women things didn’t work out, that he has had the last 2 children fairly early into each relationship and that the youngest is only 1, and that relationship ended 6 months ago…. Red flag or second date…

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Youcannotbeseriousreally · 13/05/2024 20:26

Fuck no.

Lokshen · 13/05/2024 20:26

🚩🚩🚩
IMO

StormingNorman · 13/05/2024 20:25

Wouldn’t touch him with the shitty end of a 10ft barge pole 🚩

StarbucksQueen1 · 13/05/2024 20:24

Wouldn’t appeal to me personally!