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Right, that’s it, I’m going carb free

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Newshoesrubbingmyfeet · 13/05/2024 11:59

It’s the only thing that’s worked for me in the past. So tired of feeling tired and ill, looking awful and having no confidence. I’m a larger size 16 now and really need to lose it and go back to how I was, I felt amazing slimmer, physically and mentally, could wear what I liked instead of hiding away feeling ashamed.
My plan is to cut out bread, potatoes and pasta completely. I’m guessing a little rice would be ok and some cereal/oats?
Any tips please? 🙏 I’m getting desperate now and feeling really low

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pontipinemum · 13/05/2024 16:07

Carb reduction works well for me. In both pregnancies I have had GD and had to drastically reduce my carb intake. In this pregnancy I'm not gaining much weight at all - just a little bit which is healthy.

After the baby I think I will try and stick to low carb as it clearly suits my body much better.

Personally though I think if I went zero carb I wouldn't stick at it for long

GoosieLucie · 13/05/2024 16:02

My Advice would be:

  1. Try to eat as few ultra processed foods and ingredients as possible. That means, ideally making the vast majority of your meals from scratch and not using ready-made convenience foods.
  2. Eat mostly plant-based meals. Base your meals on pulses, beans, lentils, tofu, tempeh etc.
  3. Eat loads of different vegetables.
  4. Eat fruit in moderation.
  5. If you eat bread, go for the wholemeal seeded sourdough type and check the ingredients to make sure it's not UPF. Eat it in moderation.
  6. Avoid white rice, white flour and "white" pasta if you can.
  7. For snacks, try a handful of nuts, an apple etc.
BIWI · 13/05/2024 15:51

CloudywMeatballs · 13/05/2024 15:37

I think you'd be better off switching to whole grains rather than trying to ditch carbs altogether. So whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, brown rice, grains like bulgur, farro, millet, etc.

Not really, if the OP wants to go low carb. The carbs in brown/wholewheat aren't really that much less, e.g. a medium slice of Hovis wholemeal is 15.1g carbs whereas a medium slice of Hovis soft white is 17.9g carbs.

(And if you bear in mind that strict keto should be less than 20g carbs per day, you can see just how many carbs there are in bread)

Sainsbury's brown basmati - 30.7g carbs per 100g
Sainsbury's white rice - 30.7g carbs

Sainsbury's white spaghetti - 33.2g carbs per 100g
Sainsbury's wholewheat spaghetti - 29.5g carbs

suki1964 · 13/05/2024 15:45

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/05/2024 13:58

Interesting what your DH was told recently about slimming groups. I was with WW for a year last year and apart from a stone lost around Easter time and the odd few or couple of pounds here and there I actually found it worse for healthy eating. At one point I was eating porridge oats (20g or less) with water plus blueberries for breakfast. I came on here to a weightloss thread and now I have skimmed milk with them.

I agree with you re white carbs cutting out or reducing them. I think for me personally I need a small amount of carbs when losing weight but equally I could cut them out.

Why were you eating so little on WW? Im doing SW ( kind off ) and I never eat so little. I do measure my oats ( well I use oatbran ) but I pile the HM fat free greek style yoghurt on and then a selection of chopped fruits and maybe a handful of seeds

Then Lunch will be a huge salad usually with wholewheat pasta as the carb, loads of salad veggies, pickles, then tinned fish and hard boiled egg

And dinner the same as everyone else, last night it was chicken Saag ( hm from scratch ) and brown rice , bag of spinach in the sauce, punnet of mushrooms, scoop of peas to get the veg in, was lush

Tonight we have easy tea of egg chips and beans - poached eggs, air fryer handcut chips and reduced salt and sugar beans

I eat like that all the time and lose a pound a week on average

Theres plenty of foods available to eat on SW and WW - no food is off limits and both places encourage you to ditch the UPF and cook from scratch , increase the veggies and swap unsatisfying white carbs like bread to wholemeal and to make more use of grains - same as the NHS advise

BIWI · 13/05/2024 15:43

drusth · 13/05/2024 13:31

Would a guava a day be allowed? I'm just having some strawberries or raspberries, but would love a guava! Not bothered by bananas, apples etc.

Depends how low carb you want to go - guava is actually pretty high in carbs though, with 14g carbs per 100g

BigDahliaFan · 13/05/2024 15:38

Start eating normally, proper food, drink in moderation, no sugar, full fat food, but check your portion size. And walk, a lot.

That's sustainable.

CloudywMeatballs · 13/05/2024 15:37

I think you'd be better off switching to whole grains rather than trying to ditch carbs altogether. So whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, brown rice, grains like bulgur, farro, millet, etc.

BobbyBiscuits · 13/05/2024 15:17

@drusth I actually don't know, good idea though. I love almond flour. I guess you wouldn't need much, but it is just ground nuts so the thickness would be more gritty maybe? I've found just the juices of the meat and cream, sometimes lemon etc works well enough.
I love making almond flour cookies. They've got honey though so not really low carb, just gf.

formerlyofthisparish · 13/05/2024 14:39

Op
Are you me?

Calliecarpa · 13/05/2024 14:28

I find that cutting out refined carbs and highly processed foods as much as possible makes me feel a million times better and also helps keep the excess weight off. I do eat plenty of green leafy veg and salad though, and I love cheese and yoghurt, which do have some carbs in them.

BobbyBiscuits · 13/05/2024 14:24

Another thing to add is it's very expensive. Compared to more varied diet with beans, pulses and carbs. I guess that in itself might make you eat less, lol.
No wonder people lose weight quickly.
No processed carbs
No natural carbs
No sugar
No fruit
No juices
No jarred sauces, ready meals
No tinned and packed soups
No deep fried food in batter
No McDonald's, pizza or KFC

But yeah, you have to be so regimented to maintain it that strictly. I'd say as a kind of boost for a few months maybe.
It's probably better cutting down on processed foods and unhealthy carbs (in my case wheat makes me feel a bit grim), but not eliminating anything, especially not fruit and veg.

mrlistersgelfbride · 13/05/2024 14:09

I do low carb sometimes. There's no denying it works. Many years ago I did the vegetarian low carb diet. A book by Rose Elliot.
It was basically eggs for breakfast, cheese salad for lunch and veggie sausages with cauliflower rice for tea. I lost half a stone in 2 weeks but was miserable. There's no way I can sustain eating like that.
If you eat a lot of carbs, say over 300g which is a normal diet, you'll notice a difference if you half that or go under 100g carbs per day. But it's tough. Eating out is not really an option. You have to plan ahead too.

I'd rather up the exercise and cut out sweets and most alcohol. It's a lot easier.

drusth · 13/05/2024 14:02

BobbyBiscuits · 13/05/2024 14:01

Also, if you do a roast chicken, do two. Then portion out the second one for snacks and lunches. One thing I hated was the lack of fruit. Mangos, pineapples etc are off limits as too high in sugar. I think I had a few blueberries a few times a week. But yeah, I'm a sugar addict. This diet makes you have basically no sugar.
Another lush dish is steak in cream and mushroom sauce, or you can slow cook beef and add cream and mushrooms for a stroganoff type thing. Just don't use any thickener, like flour, cornflour or even bisto.
Lots of protein and a fair amount of fat does make it seem more indulgent and satisfying than some other regimes. Problem is as soon as you add the carbs in the weight will escalate. As the diet itself is high in fat and energy with often no real calorie counting.

Does a low carb flour like almond work as a thickener?

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/05/2024 14:01

TeamPolin · 13/05/2024 13:51

I did Keto for a while and felt like absolute shit. I had no energy at all. Our body needs some carbs.... Maybe ease into it, Op. Giving up sugar would be a really positive start.

My best friend did or is doing keto and lost over a stone and a half recently. However, as lots of people on keto do when they start they go hard on it which of course isn’t great for them long term. I did ask her what she’d do to maintain.

She’s now back on keto but not as strict as before.

BobbyBiscuits · 13/05/2024 14:01

Also, if you do a roast chicken, do two. Then portion out the second one for snacks and lunches. One thing I hated was the lack of fruit. Mangos, pineapples etc are off limits as too high in sugar. I think I had a few blueberries a few times a week. But yeah, I'm a sugar addict. This diet makes you have basically no sugar.
Another lush dish is steak in cream and mushroom sauce, or you can slow cook beef and add cream and mushrooms for a stroganoff type thing. Just don't use any thickener, like flour, cornflour or even bisto.
Lots of protein and a fair amount of fat does make it seem more indulgent and satisfying than some other regimes. Problem is as soon as you add the carbs in the weight will escalate. As the diet itself is high in fat and energy with often no real calorie counting.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/05/2024 13:58

budgiegirl · 13/05/2024 12:18

My plan is to cut out bread, potatoes and pasta completely. I’m guessing a little rice would be ok and some cereal/oats?

It depends how low-carb you are wanting to go. If you just want to cut back, then a little brown rice, and some steel cut oats are fine (but not instant oats), but keep them to small portions occasionally. If you want to go very low, then no.

You've got to do it in a way that you can sustain, so if rice and oats help you to keep this up, then have them.

Have you tried WW recently? The new program is brilliant. When my DH went to the doctor for help with losing weight, he was told that clubs such as WW and SW are now not advised by the NHS and that gentle low carbing was the way to go. So cutting out all white carbs, and keeping other carbs to small portions only, or avoiding all together. Carbs really are not necessary when you are losing weight.

Interesting what your DH was told recently about slimming groups. I was with WW for a year last year and apart from a stone lost around Easter time and the odd few or couple of pounds here and there I actually found it worse for healthy eating. At one point I was eating porridge oats (20g or less) with water plus blueberries for breakfast. I came on here to a weightloss thread and now I have skimmed milk with them.

I agree with you re white carbs cutting out or reducing them. I think for me personally I need a small amount of carbs when losing weight but equally I could cut them out.

TeamPolin · 13/05/2024 13:51

I did Keto for a while and felt like absolute shit. I had no energy at all. Our body needs some carbs.... Maybe ease into it, Op. Giving up sugar would be a really positive start.

coxesorangepippin · 13/05/2024 13:49

Yup, it's the best way.

drusth · 13/05/2024 13:48

budgiegirl · 13/05/2024 13:42

It only doesnt work when you stop doing it. This is true of any diet, WW, SW, Fast 800, low carb, keto, whatever. So you need to find the one that works for you. For some people, this will be cutting back on carbs. It doesn't make it wrong just because it wasn't the best way for you.

Yes, people describe low carbing as a way of eating, not a diet.

When I have gone back to eating carbs, my body feels different, bloated and heavy.

I'd love to get to a stage when I can reintroduce wholemeal bread/brown rice/beans etc but currently when I do that I start eating lots of carbs again.

budgiegirl · 13/05/2024 13:42

It only doesnt work when you stop doing it. This is true of any diet, WW, SW, Fast 800, low carb, keto, whatever. So you need to find the one that works for you. For some people, this will be cutting back on carbs. It doesn't make it wrong just because it wasn't the best way for you.

Moreorlessmentallystable · 13/05/2024 13:32

Only thing it works for me too. Lost 25kg in a year and a half (I know it doesn't go as fast for me than other people) of that year and a half , the first year I did very low carb- around 50gr a day (not quite keto as I wasn't eating a lot of fat but more protein, veg and around 20-25% calories from fat) then after I started doing just low carb , so no more than 100gr a day, now I just limit: tortillas, bread, potatoes, cereals,rice and pasta so I would only have that once a day, for example if I am planning to have a wrap for my dinner or anything with pasta or rice, I will try and have soup or salad, eggs or tuna or just something very light with hardly any complex carbs. Limit process foods a lot.

drusth · 13/05/2024 13:31

BIWI · 13/05/2024 13:24

Don't go carb free! You need to include veg, salad and (some) fruit to ensure that you are eating nutritiously.

Would a guava a day be allowed? I'm just having some strawberries or raspberries, but would love a guava! Not bothered by bananas, apples etc.

BIWI · 13/05/2024 13:24

Don't go carb free! You need to include veg, salad and (some) fruit to ensure that you are eating nutritiously.

Purplepeopleeaterz · 13/05/2024 13:21

After trying most things I started 16.8 intermittent fasting and have been amazed at the results. No food groups cut out, very easy to sustain and days off plan have barely any impact on losses. Its slow and steady which puts people off I guess as the quick fix is more popular.

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