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Sorry, not sorry, but wfh really is much easier

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Jeannie88 · 12/05/2024 21:10

I know it's become the norm, especially post covid, but do those who wfh realise how much easier their lives are?

Sorry, but I have found it a bit pathetic and embarrassing that there has been a big defiance of 'going into office' once a fortnight to be such an horrific ordeal?

Don't you all realise how fortunate you are? No commute, time at home to do things those of us have to do after a day of being on our feet, all frontline and retail etc then look after our children?

Sp my point from.personal experience. We are a group of 6 friends (f) and go out regularly together. When we have been to midweek gigs, comedy nights, meal, the 4 who wfh joke how they can roll out of bed and be online within minutes to show present, then have breakfast and just work at their own pace and even during teams meeting they can sit back and contribute what they have to.

Then, the 2 of us who have to get up at 6am, dress for work, ready to drive so sensible of alcohol intake the night before and buy ourselves soft drinks in rounds or even drive and give lifts. Then do a full intensive day with full on human interaction and check e mails on the evening when we get the time to do so.

Of course childcare issues come into this. We who don't wfh have to take our DC to breakfast club or childminder then go on to work, the 3 of the 4 who have DC drop them off at school and rush back having been seen to log on early but not really working as getting them ready.

Ok so my observation and opinions based on this. I guess all the moaning on MN about having to go into the office (which really isn't so hard is it?) had incited me to raise this point.

Oh and I do have DP who wfh and he totally agrees with me. He's hardworking and doesn't do the slob thing, but agrees, in his own words. 'It's a piece of piss compared to going to the office and even that was so easy compared to your job'.

So please those who have the privilege of wfh stop moaning! Honestly, how would the world work if everyone wfh? It wouldn't.

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SuncreamAndIceCream · 12/05/2024 21:15

I totally realise how fortunate I am

It's why when someone emails me or teams calls me or messages, unless I'm in a meeting or eating my lunch, I answer pretty much straightaway.

It's the trade off for me - it's a privilege to WFH (I'm the only one in my organisation who WFH every day) therefore I put in maximum effort to be available all the time

It does mean that taska which require periods of concentration are real pita because I just don't get the long stretches of uninterrupted time I need. But I would rather get up at 5am and spend 2 hours on those critical tasks before my work day than go back to the office!!!!

BusyCM · 12/05/2024 21:14

Depends on the job surely?

I work from home as a childminder and I certainly don't recognise that lazy view of WFH that you describe. I'm knackered, still have housework to do in the evenings and don't drink on a work night....

Curlewwoohoo · 12/05/2024 21:13

Who's moaning though?

Tumbleweed101 · 12/05/2024 21:13

I'd love to work from home.