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Hanging my knickers on the line

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Boysgrownbutstillathome · 12/05/2024 19:32

When I was growing up all washing went on the line. I have carried this on - everything goes on the line, including undies. I can see three neighbours' gardens and washing lines from my bedroom window and they never hang their undies out. Is it now considered shameful? I am not embarrassed by my family's clean underpants. AIBU?

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Trulyme · 13/05/2024 10:15

I always hang mine out, but I did notice the other day how ‘sexy’ my underwear is compared to my neighbours and it made me feel slightly ashamed but I’m not sure why.

I stopped hanging out my child’s underwear though when I heard a story about some men enjoying the view (not my neighbours specifically).

I don’t care if they gawp at my underwear, I do care if they do it to my child’s.

BiddyPop · 13/05/2024 10:13

Same here. DH prefers underwear to go in the middle of the whirly line we have (near the pole) but hangs them out like I do, anytime the weather is good enough.

I am currently in an apartment and there are a handful of clothes horses on balconies here, (including mine), but most people seem to tumble dry everything.

StarlightLady · 13/05/2024 08:17

Ginmonkeyagain · 13/05/2024 07:32

I am fascinated by people who are too ashamed to hang their undies out on the line.

But then I often forget to close the bedroom curtains when getting dressed or undressed. I am no better than I ought to be.

Maybe it all reflects general outlooks in life and upbringing? l hang knickers on the line and I’m not bothered who sees me naked either. I close curtains etc so as not to offend anyone rather than concern about being seen.

Ginmonkeyagain · 13/05/2024 07:32

I am fascinated by people who are too ashamed to hang their undies out on the line.

But then I often forget to close the bedroom curtains when getting dressed or undressed. I am no better than I ought to be.

StarlightLady · 13/05/2024 04:35

Mine were on the line yesterday. The line can be seen from a side path if someone is really keen to see. But why would they be? The same can be seen if someone walks through M&S, John Lewis and/or Bravissimo.

ironically, it was warm and sunny this and l didn’t wear knickers with summer dresses. 😀

WhereTheFuckIsMyFuckingCoat · 13/05/2024 03:26

We once stayed with my late MIL and FIL for a few weeks. My MIL did my laundry with her's, and when hanging out my (very tiny lacy) undies, her neighbour looked over the fence and said "ooh Marge, Bob must be doing something right for you to be wearing those racy little numbers!" nod nod wink wink.

MIL was mortified!! She hung all the undies in the house on an airer indoors for the rest of our stay there!

**MIL and FIL weren't actually called Marge and Bob.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 13/05/2024 03:14

Washing lines are for hanging clothes on, at every reasonable opportunity, including undergarments!

bluetopazlove · 13/05/2024 02:59

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 13/05/2024 02:48

My neighbors don't hang any washing up outside. There's 6 of them. How the fuck do they dry everything????

I hang everything up outside as soon as weather allows op. Including period pants.

Had a neighbour like this too way back in the '90s what did they do with it all ?They were incredibly skint , maybe because they tumbled dried everything . I assume she was she was shy about neighbours seeing so much as a sock .Two adults two kids .They were incredibly skint .
I would rather throw all my washing outside than pay for my tumble dryer ,actually I do I never use it unless I'm desperate .

Theoldwoman · 13/05/2024 02:58

What’s the time
half past nine
hang your britches on the line
when they’re dry
bring them in
and put them in the biscuit tin

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 13/05/2024 02:48

My neighbors don't hang any washing up outside. There's 6 of them. How the fuck do they dry everything????

I hang everything up outside as soon as weather allows op. Including period pants.

DiscoBeat · 13/05/2024 01:40

I hang everything out. But no one can see it, and if anyone is due to visit I don't have washing out anyway as we often use the garden.

NefertitiV · 13/05/2024 01:31

Sunnydaysaregone · 12/05/2024 19:48

When I was a teenager there was a spate of women’s undies being stolen from washing lines. I don’t think the knicker knocker was ever caught.

Once, when staying in a caravan park, I had my bra and a lovely bikini stolen from a communal line (we call it 'snowdropping').

coxesorangepippin · 13/05/2024 01:29

I'd never hang underwear out

OhcantthInkofaname · 13/05/2024 01:18

Candleabra · 12/05/2024 19:34

Course not. I was aghast to hear that in a lot of housing estates in America there are rules against hanging out washing as it looks “unsightly”. Presumably they have to use the tumble drier. It’s no wonder the planet is burning,

This is true. In the US many HOA's, Home Owners Associations, don't allow clothes line. Of course using a clothes dryer saves having to iron or steam clothes.

AllTheChaos · 13/05/2024 00:58

I don’t think there was ever a photo in my grandparents’ garden that didn’t have undies on the washing line in the background somewhere! It became a standing joke in the family.

Sunnydaysaregone · 12/05/2024 23:24

BigDaddio · 12/05/2024 22:44

Don't you mean the knicker nicker ?

No , where I grew up the slang word for stealing was definitely knocking 😆

IdaPolly · 12/05/2024 23:09

I hang them on the inner parts of the washing line with other things on the outside to cover them. People could see them from top storeys though if they were intent on seeing them.

Ariela · 12/05/2024 23:06

In the summer, I CBA to peg out the smalls, so generally shove them in the tumble drier when it's free (on solar). Rest of the time they're hung out. However our line can't be seen from the neighbours as it's at the bottom of the (long) garden to get the sun and there's trees etc

SandInSandwiches · 12/05/2024 23:02

All that rummaging around for pegs for my “smalls”, DH’s undies and socks, then to find some pegs pinging off, led me to something similar for this. It makes my life easier, does work and hides my blushes!

Hanging my knickers on the line
FleurdeSel · 12/05/2024 23:01

The gorgeous weather is fab for drying clothes and pants.

My OH hangs my bra by the straps and pants by the waist like I could pop into them. Then his pants and repeat. He is a pita. I eye roll but don't change them.

FangsForTheMemory · 12/05/2024 22:59

My knickers are utilitarian black cotton. I can’t see anyone getting excited about them.

hoonicorn · 12/05/2024 22:57

I usually think "would I be happy to go and retrieve this item of clothing from the neighbours garden if the wind picked up"

If the answer is yes it gets hung out. If no, it does not.

Davros · 12/05/2024 22:52

@Giggorata we had the same with the alternative ending
"Ten O'clock, take 'em off, put them on a dirty cloth"

SpringerFall · 12/05/2024 22:45

I would assume they have an alternate way to dry them rather than it being shameful, why is that the first reaction to it?

BigDaddio · 12/05/2024 22:44

Sunnydaysaregone · 12/05/2024 19:48

When I was a teenager there was a spate of women’s undies being stolen from washing lines. I don’t think the knicker knocker was ever caught.

Don't you mean the knicker nicker ?