I'm aware this may sound childish but please try not to flame me too much I can't help but feel hurt by the events. Short background story my boyfriend never invited me to his friends christening or big birthday celebration. Each time it was like an extravagant do, black tie etc. I had implied I would go with him but he sort of brushed it under the rug saying no point he wouldn't be staying long, its fine he doesn't really feel like going anyway just going to make an appearance. On these occasions he stayed maybe 3 hours or so but anyway. So I have a family birthday coming up where my whole family is having a party and part of me really doesn't want to invite him for that reason. He never invites me to anything to do with his family and it hurts to be honest. I even invited him to my cousins birthday not long ago and he said no. He is sort of hoping for an invite this time because he gets on with this particular family member but I honestly feel like saying no point I won't be staying long. Aibu? I'm sorry if I am but its always just felt like hes embarrassed by me or hiding me hes never invited me to events like this and would always attend himself