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To think ODFOD used to be allowed?

119 replies

DirtyKit · 11/05/2024 18:07

It did right?

but now it isn’t?
what happened?

IABU - it was never allowed
IANBU - it was allowed

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WrenNatsworthy · 11/05/2024 18:13

Let's all meet up in matron"s office at midnight for a feast, and take it turns to go under the table and say it.

LightsOnSparklingTowers · 11/05/2024 18:13

I think they have always deleted it IF it was reported.

Nanny0gg · 11/05/2024 18:13

PineappleTime · 11/05/2024 18:11

It wasn't ever allowed to tell someone to fuck off and everyone knows what is stands for.

Nonsense

It was allowed and often justified

Nanny0gg · 11/05/2024 18:12

BettyWont · 11/05/2024 18:09

I don't think telling another poster to fuck off was ever allowed, was it?

Yep

drusth · 11/05/2024 18:12

Allfur · 11/05/2024 18:10

Agree, name calling and verbal insults are completely unnecessary

Exactly.

Why would you want to tell people to fuck off? Just argue your point or ignore.

CountingCrones · 11/05/2024 18:12

Mumsnet is where I learnt it, so it must have been allowed at some point. I'm not here often enough to catch deleted posts.

PineappleTime · 11/05/2024 18:11

It wasn't ever allowed to tell someone to fuck off and everyone knows what is stands for.

ThreeEggOmlette · 11/05/2024 18:10

You're allowed to think it.

But 'Oh bore off' is the accepted form.

Allfur · 11/05/2024 18:10

drusth · 11/05/2024 18:09

If you can’t express your opinion without telling people to fuck off then you shouldn’t be here, OP.

Agree, name calling and verbal insults are completely unnecessary

BettyWont · 11/05/2024 18:10

I've been on MN for 13 years and I don't ever remember it being allowed.

Cluelessaf · 11/05/2024 18:10

drusth · 11/05/2024 18:09

If you can’t express your opinion without telling people to fuck off then you shouldn’t be here, OP.

Welcome to mumsnet

drusth · 11/05/2024 18:09

If you can’t express your opinion without telling people to fuck off then you shouldn’t be here, OP.

Justlovedogs · 11/05/2024 18:09

longdistanceclaraclara · 11/05/2024 18:08

Who said it's not allowed?

This? Haven't seen it much lately but just figured it's out of fashion!

Eminybob · 11/05/2024 18:09

Since when was it not allowed. I haven't seen it for a while to be fair, but I didn't realise it had been banned Shock

BettyWont · 11/05/2024 18:09

I don't think telling another poster to fuck off was ever allowed, was it?

Justlovedogs · 11/05/2024 18:08

singingthypraises · 11/05/2024 18:07

No idea what it stands for sorry

Oh do fuck off dear

Hermittrismegistus · 11/05/2024 18:08

It seems to be counted as a personal attack now.

longdistanceclaraclara · 11/05/2024 18:08

Who said it's not allowed?

singingthypraises · 11/05/2024 18:07

No idea what it stands for sorry