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How the erosion of LGBT rights effects female sex based rights.

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needatalk · 11/05/2024 10:38

I've been reading various discussions and articles on this topic for some time and the conclusion that keeps popping up in my mind is the worry that my female rights will be as much eroded as LGBT rights in law.

I've seen a push in America especially Florida from activists and lawmakers, combining female and LGBT rights in the same grouping. In the UK, politicians are taking American policies. They are calling for diversity and equality to be dismantled in law. It's like time is going backwards in just on LGBT rights but on female sex based rights. Where less rights will exist for us females in the future to do subjects such as STEM or be Astronaut because of the stereotyping happening from suppose feminists who's concepts are the old typical stay at home leave the male to do the dangerous or go to work mentally.

My daughter is 8 years old and and I worry for her, to not able to have the right to do express herself as bisexual or lesbian because of erosion of LGBT rights. We all know homosexuality a long time ago was illegal and that can happen again for all LGBT rights. I worry that my daughter who loves space won't able to follow Rosemary Coogan become an astronaut which is something she dreams of because in the future people will say the radiation of space is too dangerous for females as they will get deformities in that area to prevent them for having babies or healthy babies. Science has disprove this but people are dismissing science now.

As much as I care and support about sex based rights, I can't forget the thought in my mind that my and my daughter's female rights are in as much danger of being taken away not by activists but by lawmakers who enforce sex based past stereotyping and us females lose equality which has been hard to fight for in the first place.

I'm so worried for the future for us females.

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SinnerBoy · 11/05/2024 16:16

Lampy123678 · Today 16:01

+ + No-one has said that trans people shouldn't be allowed to get pregnant. Posters have correctly stated that trans women can't get pregnant because they are of the male sex. + +

I wouldn't have said that if I haven't seen some GC posters say it and I have.

Well, none of us seem to have read that, so could you link, please?

Re testosterone, I believe it's a discussion between the patient and their doctor and ultimately down to the patient as it's their body whilst they are pregnant.

So, if a pregnant mother was taking crystal meth, you'd be fine with that? After all, it's her her choice, right? How about Thalidomide? It's currently used to treat leprosy. Any other damaging drugs, or is it only testosterone you think is fine.

FOJN · 11/05/2024 16:15

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:08

Well firstly the science doesn't show that at all but even if it did, do you believe in interfering with the bodily autonomy of others or not? Should we be taking away the children of biological women who smoke in pregnancy ?

Domperidone is thought to be safe to give to women to increase breast milk production. Men are not designed to lactate. We have no idea about the nutritional value of chemically induced "breast milk" in men so no I do not think we should support someone who wants to "breast feed" but isn't biologically designed to do so. The needs of a baby always come before an adults want for validation.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:13

FOJN · 11/05/2024 16:02

How on earth do you intend to measure the effects of any government policy on women if we can't actually define what one is? How will you gather data on the effects of austerity on women?

There are no women's rights if we are not recognised as a sex class.

Perhaps if you knew more about the issues you wouldn't reduce women's concerns to public toilets.

Hang on a second. I never said that women fighting for sex based rights are wrong per se. I said they shouldn't be platforming people who are supported by right wing groups or parties or women who support abusive men to do it.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:10

RandomButtons · 11/05/2024 16:05

I am aware of the legal technicalities yes. However abortion is allowed in the U.K. and no one in the government is trying to stop that (which is what the OP is stating as fact)

It's allowed under technical circumstances and women are at risk of prosecution should they not follow the technicalities.Vulnerable women being abused have vastly reduced access to the legal routes of abortion. It should not be taken for granted that the right to abortion is a given until it's decriminalised and more feminists should be devoting their time and platform to the issue.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/05/2024 16:09

And none of them think attacking the bodily autonomy of others will ever bite them on the bum.

In the same way that many women (orignal sex based meaning) don't think that undermining the legal and social existence of Women as a sex class that excludes male people will ever bite them on the bum? Even though that bum is already getting nibbled away as we see women losing out to colonising men (original sex based meaning) in our sports, in our prizes, in our professional bodies, in our reserved physical spaces, in our equality measures and targets...

It's both hilarious and heartbreaking to see people who believe they are "feminists" wokring so hard at making what it's reasonable for women to expect from society shrink smaller and smaller just to avoid having to say No to men.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:08

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 16:04

Would that be because the "breastmilk" that transwomen produce is full of chemicals and bad for the baby?

Well firstly the science doesn't show that at all but even if it did, do you believe in interfering with the bodily autonomy of others or not? Should we be taking away the children of biological women who smoke in pregnancy ?

RandomButtons · 11/05/2024 16:05

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 11:21

You do know that abortion isn't decriminalised right? And that the fight to decriminalise it, is not getting enough support from MPs?

I am aware of the legal technicalities yes. However abortion is allowed in the U.K. and no one in the government is trying to stop that (which is what the OP is stating as fact)

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:04

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2024 15:59

Maybe you need to go and have a read on here and see people arguing that trans people shouldn't be allowed to be pregnant...

There aren't any, of course, although there are discussions over transm taking testosterone whilst pregnant, to the known detriment of the developing baby. Testosterone is teratogenic, which means that it causes defects, including deformed genitals in girls and anovulation, which is a major cause of infertility.

Do you support that?

Some do though.

Re testosterone, I believe it's a discussion between the patient and their doctor and ultimately down to the patient as it's their body whilst they are pregnant.I don't support smoking or drinking alcohol in pregnancy but it doesn't mean I think women should be made to stop smoking or drinking whilst pregnant because I don't believe in chipping away at bodily autonomy.

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 16:04

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:01

I wouldn't have said that if I haven't seen some GC posters say it and I have. There are some very nasty people who get a free pass on here again because they believe with the overall "GC view" regardless of if they're being nasty. Some think transmen shouldn't be allowed to get pregnant. Some think trans women shouldn't be allowed to breastfeed. It doesn't cross their mind that the medical assistance they're arguing against also supports biological women who are adoptive parent for example. None of it gets called out because they all agree in principal against trans people. And none of them think attacking the bodily autonomy of others will ever bite them on the bum.

Would that be because the "breastmilk" that transwomen produce is full of chemicals and bad for the baby?

FOJN · 11/05/2024 16:02

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:57

You mean except the GC people who do court the support of right wing groups? And Nazis? Or the several threads on here encouraging women to vote Tory because of their opinions on GC issues regardless of how awful they have been to women? Ok..

A simple example is JK Rowling publicly supported Johnny Depp despite knowing his abusive towards Amber Heard.

The Tories have done absolutely f*ck all for women or our rights. Austerity has been deadly for women in the UK. Austerity in general I feel is responsible for many issues GC feminists are so worried about because they aren't funding the services that should be keeping dangerous inmates out of women's prisons and there isn't any bloody funding going to crisis centres. They have done nothing in their years in power to decriminalise abortion and it took over a decade for the buffer zones to be passed and even then they watered it down. I take issue with "feminists" encouraging people to vote for them as though it is in women's interests when it's not. Just because they say what you want to hear about public toilets while doing NOTHING to progress women's rights.

How on earth do you intend to measure the effects of any government policy on women if we can't actually define what one is? How will you gather data on the effects of austerity on women?

There are no women's rights if we are not recognised as a sex class.

Perhaps if you knew more about the issues you wouldn't reduce women's concerns to public toilets.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 16:01

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:51

No-one has said that trans people shouldn't be allowed to get pregnant. Posters have correctly stated that trans women can't get pregnant because they are of the male sex.

I wouldn't have said that if I haven't seen some GC posters say it and I have. There are some very nasty people who get a free pass on here again because they believe with the overall "GC view" regardless of if they're being nasty. Some think transmen shouldn't be allowed to get pregnant. Some think trans women shouldn't be allowed to breastfeed. It doesn't cross their mind that the medical assistance they're arguing against also supports biological women who are adoptive parent for example. None of it gets called out because they all agree in principal against trans people. And none of them think attacking the bodily autonomy of others will ever bite them on the bum.

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2024 15:59

Maybe you need to go and have a read on here and see people arguing that trans people shouldn't be allowed to be pregnant...

There aren't any, of course, although there are discussions over transm taking testosterone whilst pregnant, to the known detriment of the developing baby. Testosterone is teratogenic, which means that it causes defects, including deformed genitals in girls and anovulation, which is a major cause of infertility.

Do you support that?

PickAChew · 11/05/2024 15:59

I'm baffled at how women are losing the right to "do STEM" as I'm not sure that is something that is specifically referenced in equality laws.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:57

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2024 15:31

Lampy123678 · Today 11:29

Does it concern you how many people in the first group you describe agree with some women's attacks on the LGBTQ community?

Goodness! What a load of emotive, utterly hyperbolic clap-trap! Nobody's getting cosy with the far right, or religious extremists. And the GC side isn't anti LGB, nor even anti trans, just pro keeping males out of female spaces and business.

Speaking of JKR do you applaud her for supporting abusers?

Do you applaud yourself for punching kittens? How and when has JKR supported abusers?

No, because you don't have your examples of them critiquing the right wing parties and their actions against LGBT people and women do you?

In this country, right wing parties in power only include the Tories. What actions are they carrying out against the LGB and the TQi+++ lot? It's dishonest to lump LGB people in with TQi+++

Do you mean acting on the Cass Report, to row back on handing out puberty blockers like Smarties? On all the law cases, where women have been bullied and harassed by colleagues, with the support of the employers and have won, establishing the fact that it's legal not to use opposite sex pronouns, if you don't want to?

Stopping males pushing women and girls out of sports? Not allowing transw rapists to choose to serve jail time in women's prisons? Finding that rape victims shouldn't be forced to share a crisis centre with a bloke called Sharon, or be illegally excluded?

You mean except the GC people who do court the support of right wing groups? And Nazis? Or the several threads on here encouraging women to vote Tory because of their opinions on GC issues regardless of how awful they have been to women? Ok..

A simple example is JK Rowling publicly supported Johnny Depp despite knowing his abusive towards Amber Heard.

The Tories have done absolutely f*ck all for women or our rights. Austerity has been deadly for women in the UK. Austerity in general I feel is responsible for many issues GC feminists are so worried about because they aren't funding the services that should be keeping dangerous inmates out of women's prisons and there isn't any bloody funding going to crisis centres. They have done nothing in their years in power to decriminalise abortion and it took over a decade for the buffer zones to be passed and even then they watered it down. I take issue with "feminists" encouraging people to vote for them as though it is in women's interests when it's not. Just because they say what you want to hear about public toilets while doing NOTHING to progress women's rights.

FOJN · 11/05/2024 15:55

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:46

I'm not sure what you are finding so confusing and want clarified. I believe in bodily autonomy. I think people should make decisions about their own bodies regarding their healthcare and that the state and it's political opinions shouldn't interfere. What is so hard about that for you? Maybe you need to go and have a read on here and see people arguing that trans people shouldn't be allowed to be pregnant if you're so confused about why I think some GC people fight against bodily autonomy.

I asked you if you were talking about children or adults. You still haven't answered.

The confusion with pregnancy arises when someone claims to be so distressed by the reality of their physical body that they need to undergo radical body modification for their own wellbeing but then feels comfortable doing the most female thing of all.

I don't think they should be stopped but I do have questions about how any medication they are taking may affect a baby and why the NHS should fund reassignment treatment when a planned pregnancy seems inconsistent with a diagnosis of gender dysphoria.

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:51

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:46

I'm not sure what you are finding so confusing and want clarified. I believe in bodily autonomy. I think people should make decisions about their own bodies regarding their healthcare and that the state and it's political opinions shouldn't interfere. What is so hard about that for you? Maybe you need to go and have a read on here and see people arguing that trans people shouldn't be allowed to be pregnant if you're so confused about why I think some GC people fight against bodily autonomy.

No-one has said that trans people shouldn't be allowed to get pregnant. Posters have correctly stated that trans women can't get pregnant because they are of the male sex.

RandomButtons · 11/05/2024 15:49

needatalk · 11/05/2024 10:57

There will always be a small group of people making noise about this.

Thats a world away from it being debated as government policy.

Please show evidence that this has been debated by the government/parlament

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:46

FOJN · 11/05/2024 15:42

Why won't you clarify what you mean?

Adults are free to pursue medical treatment if they choose to.

The Cass report made it very clear that there was insufficient robust evidence to support social or medical transition of children.

Do you think we should provide treatment which maybe harmful?

Don't you think that gender confused young people deserve well researched health care?

I'm not sure what you are finding so confusing and want clarified. I believe in bodily autonomy. I think people should make decisions about their own bodies regarding their healthcare and that the state and it's political opinions shouldn't interfere. What is so hard about that for you? Maybe you need to go and have a read on here and see people arguing that trans people shouldn't be allowed to be pregnant if you're so confused about why I think some GC people fight against bodily autonomy.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/05/2024 15:44

Protecting women's rights should not be contingent on women accepting the sexist misogyny of gender identities.

The people who connect the two are acting in bad faith. They may spout forth about feminism and equality but by their actions betray that that they do not see women as deserving social support and legal protections in their own right, but only as a reward for their support of more important causes.

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:43

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:35

I'm sorry, I didn't see your edit before before I quoted you. I'm referencing GC posters and politicians arguing against access to trans healthcare. I think, while perhaps we'll meaning, arguing to limit the bodily autonomy of others is dangerous to women and girls. It makes bodily autonomy seem like a privilege and not an absolute right.

But everybody is limited to various forms of healthcare unless they are Gillick competent and in the same way that doctors can prevent treatment if they believe that it is not in the best interests of the patient.

FOJN · 11/05/2024 15:42

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:35

I'm sorry, I didn't see your edit before before I quoted you. I'm referencing GC posters and politicians arguing against access to trans healthcare. I think, while perhaps we'll meaning, arguing to limit the bodily autonomy of others is dangerous to women and girls. It makes bodily autonomy seem like a privilege and not an absolute right.

Why won't you clarify what you mean?

Adults are free to pursue medical treatment if they choose to.

The Cass report made it very clear that there was insufficient robust evidence to support social or medical transition of children.

Do you think we should provide treatment which maybe harmful?

Don't you think that gender confused young people deserve well researched health care?

SinnerBoy · 11/05/2024 15:41

She also just publicly supports men who abuse women so there's that too.

Really? Link, please.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:38

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:34

But you have called JKR a supporter of an abuser, and have made the same 'mistake' that you have claimed others have by linking completely different issues.

Just because someone on the right right is GC doesn't mean that someone that is also GC supports all of their policies or beliefs.

It does when an anti abortion right wing politician quotes you whilst passing an anti lgbt piece of legislation and you say nothing. She also just publicly supports men who abuse women so there's that too.

There's a difference between me and a right winger both like X. Of course that doesn't make us the same. But if the right-winger is boosting my online profile or expressing support for me publicly I'd happily tell them to do one and not want to be associated with them.

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:35

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:25

I take it that you have seen the footage of TRA's abusing and assaulting women?
I would also like to know what bodily autonomy rights trans people have that men and women don't?

Edited

I'm sorry, I didn't see your edit before before I quoted you. I'm referencing GC posters and politicians arguing against access to trans healthcare. I think, while perhaps we'll meaning, arguing to limit the bodily autonomy of others is dangerous to women and girls. It makes bodily autonomy seem like a privilege and not an absolute right.

FrippEnos · 11/05/2024 15:34

Lampy123678 · 11/05/2024 15:29

Have you seen that several other posters have already tried to detract from the point of prominent GC feminists supporting abusers and/ or right wingers? I'm not sure why you think TRAs doing it makes it ok? I don't support anyone abusing women and I'm certain my principles can stand without the support of those who do. It's a shame many with a public platform don't think the same.

But you have called JKR a supporter of an abuser, and have made the same 'mistake' that you have claimed others have by linking completely different issues.

Just because someone on the right right is GC doesn't mean that someone that is also GC supports all of their policies or beliefs.