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Head lice - what to use and can school sort it at all?

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lulann · 10/05/2024 23:41

Found out today from school there are cases of headlice. First time.

DD 7 was at a friends house for tea until 7.30pm. When dd was at home and in bed she was scratching. Yes it looks like she may have them although I could only see 2 I think.
Of course I am now scratching.

What treatment should I get tomorrow? There are so many!
Do I have to get a shampoo?
Combs that 'zap' them dead or combs that remove lice AND eggs??
DD has several food allergies and I expect in the future will react to hair dye like I do (so cannot use).
Any suggestions?

Also can school make sure all kids are treated, is that allowed? I'm wary we'll get rid of them and she will then re catch all over again.

School haven't said which year group (primary) but they all mix in the huge playground anyway.

OP posts:
Hotcrossbunnowplease · 11/05/2024 08:47

Don’t use a treatment, they mostly don’t work and it sounds like your DD could react. I know a girl who developed alopecia from using it. Just comb with nitty gritty and conditioner every 2 days and you will get rid of them, keep going every few days even when you think they are gone. Admittedly I have boys and combing is quick, I know it takes longer for girls

Swearwolf · 11/05/2024 08:45

School can't do much, but our school do send out texts and emails telling parents to check whenever nits are going around.

Make sure her hair is up every day, french plaits if you can. We also use the 3 in 1 kids Vosene, which has tea tree in it and is a lice repellent.

LaPalmaLlama · 11/05/2024 08:44

Hedrin Once. It works and you don’t have to faff around combing for hours. When I lived overseas my mum used to bring me two bottles a year when she came to visit. It was the one thing I’d always be reminding her about the week before 🤣

DumpedByText · 11/05/2024 08:44

I've never used a treatment. Just get a nitty gritty comb and comb hair every other day until you see nothing. Then check every Sunday for eggs etc.

Zanatdy · 11/05/2024 08:44

Primary school and girls was a nightmare for nits. One of my DD’s friend had them all the time. I suspect they weren’t treating them properly as when they moved house and she left my DD never had nits again

EmilyBronte82 · 11/05/2024 08:43

I remember sitting next to my DD and spotting a louse, it was bloody huge! I totally freaked out and DH managed to grab the crawling bugger! Squished it between his nails!

I then felt itchy and guess what I had them too!

First things first - Hedrin Once!

Leave that on then wash out.

Then use a nitty gritty comb, rinse the comb each time.

Then head torch and look through all the hair starting from one side and pull out any missed eggs and squash them between your nails.

ThePassageOfTime · 11/05/2024 08:41

Linearforeignbody · 10/05/2024 23:48

Comb hair daily with conditioner until they are all gone.
It’s a common thing and part of being a child. Adults don’t get infested because our immune systems keep them at bay.
Its not the school’s responsibility.

😂😂😂😂

Please explain how our immune systems kill nits.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Moglet4 · 11/05/2024 08:36

CaraDeLaVagine · 11/05/2024 00:31

Which one moglet? I'm yet to find one that was worth the £25.

This one. It’s fab. And we are a family with tonnes of very thick hair.

Head lice - what to use and can school sort it at all?
Moglet4 · 11/05/2024 08:34

CaraDeLaVagine · 11/05/2024 00:07

Zap combs sound great on paper but won't work on thick hair and are often duds.
Hair dye just dyes the lice, won't off them.
If you can afford it, and are near any, a headlice salon would spare you all the pain.
They'll hoover them out.
Professional Head Lice Treatment | The Hairforce (hairforceclinics.com)

I didn’t pay anything like that I’m sure!

Head lice - what to use and can school sort it at all?
Mairzydotes · 11/05/2024 07:58

They used to say headlice only like clean hair , buy it doesn't seem to make a difference. They do seem to prefer some people, like how some people are more prone to insect bits.

My dd had them and had very long hair. I found cheap tea tree conditioner, combed through dry hair worked better than expensive treatments. Then dry the hair and snip off any strands with stubborn eggs still attached.

Bumblenums · 11/05/2024 07:55

It's just one of those things OP, it's no one's fault, we've had it twice here. Get a bucket of cheap conditioner and a nitty gritty comb. Cover hair in conditioner on wet hair, and comb every other day for 10 days. Wipe the comb every time to remove the nits/eggs. Wash bedding on hot wash. Tea tree shampoo and always tie back for school.

CleftChin · 11/05/2024 07:50

NitNot oil and combing through very well 2-3 times with a few days between is the best for us - the Hedrin style treatments are just unpleasant for everyone (smell, feel etc)

Then I use a conditioning spray with some tea-tree in for the next few weeks to try and stop him getting re-infected while the other kids are sorted out (hopefully)

SauvignonBlonk · 11/05/2024 07:41

For prevention we use a spray every day. Two drops of tea tree oil in a little spray bottle of water. Has worked for the last 7 years - nit free thankfully.

Lincslady53 · 11/05/2024 06:04

Ask the phamacist which shampoo to use. They alternate the treatment to prevent the nits become immune from any particular treatment, at least thats what we were told years ago. Adults can get them. When we were kids, schools were visited by a nurse who would treat whole schools if there was an infection, but that was dropped before school milk. Nitty Nora the bug explorer, they were known as.

Cat2024 · 11/05/2024 05:53

DD had nits in 2019. Really hard to get rid of. What worked best for us was Nitwit solution and twice weekly combing with nitty gritty comb and LOTS of (cheaper) conditioner in hair. It coincided with her getting her hair cut in a longer bob so she had to wear hair down for school, before that her hair was tied back. After, we got rid of them, I did used to comb through her bob with leave in conditioner which had tea tree oil in which is meant to deter them?? Her hair is now longer and tied back for school. Plaits also help as they find it harder to catch on.

TammyJones · 11/05/2024 02:21

Hadalifeonce · 11/05/2024 00:12

DD used to get them a lot. I used to use conditioner and a nit comb every other night, I sent a note to parents at the school with info about nits and lice, and tips to get rid of them. Once all the parents were treating their children there was a massive reduction.

Just conditioner and nit comb.
Do the whole family though.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 11/05/2024 02:16

Hedrin,follow the instructions,do the whole family at the same time.

I honestly think the reason it's so rife is because people use conditioner and a nit comb and don't spend anywhere near long enough doing it,it takes ages doing it properly and so it spreads.

Schools used to send kids home and you weren't allowed back until you had the all clear. Now parents can't be arsed, along with everything else so it becomes 'acceptable.'

CarolineFields · 11/05/2024 02:14

Linearforeignbody · 10/05/2024 23:48

Comb hair daily with conditioner until they are all gone.
It’s a common thing and part of being a child. Adults don’t get infested because our immune systems keep them at bay.
Its not the school’s responsibility.

of course adults get infested, what part of the immune system do you imagine could work against head lice!?

Adults tend to have shorter hair and keep their heads further away from other people's so there is less transfer to and from adults, but they obviously can very much get them

sleepyscientist · 11/05/2024 02:13

We use full marks solution done in 5 minutes...,it also removes dandruff

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 11/05/2024 02:06

Linearforeignbody · 10/05/2024 23:48

Comb hair daily with conditioner until they are all gone.
It’s a common thing and part of being a child. Adults don’t get infested because our immune systems keep them at bay.
Its not the school’s responsibility.

Catching headlice doesn't have anything to do with your immune system. They're tiny insects that set up shop on your scalp and hair if they get the chance, not internal parasites.

The reason adults mostly don't get infested with headlice, is simply because we're more fussy about personal space with non-relatives, and so we don't engage in head-to-head contact with them. Headlice go round school classes, because children do have head-to-head contact with their friends. Naturally, children also have head-to-head contact with their parents, so parents of young children catch headlice off their own children all the time.

Teenagerantruns · 11/05/2024 00:42

Best thing to do as others have said is conditioner and comb hair, l used to just stick kids in front of tv and do it, if she's scratching she's defintinatly got more than the two you can see. The school can send out letters but some people never treat their kids so you might be in for long haul. Once you cleared your DD just make sure you check at least once a week.
Don't forget to change bed and wash sheets abs towels.

Smartiepants79 · 11/05/2024 00:32

School can do nothing except send out general letter to say please check your child. We’re not really supposed to inform individual families and cannot enforce any kind of treatment.
It is quite possible that your Dd may get them more than once.
It would only be reported as part of a much wider picture of possible neglect. Not treating for nits on its own is not

CaraDeLaVagine · 11/05/2024 00:31

Which one moglet? I'm yet to find one that was worth the £25.

GrumpyOldCrone · 11/05/2024 00:27

My daughter caught them (aged 18) in a nursery, doing work experience. We used special shampoo; didn’t help. Nothing helped, except regular combing.

There’s a reason these fuckers are everywhere. We’re delicious. Combing every 3 days is the only thing that actually works.

Schools can’t do anything. You have to do it yourself.

Moglet4 · 11/05/2024 00:22

My kids went through a couple of years of constantly picking them up at school. It was gross. Use the bit shampoos but I suggest not using the spray as it turns your whole room into an ice rink. What was a game changer for us was the electrifying comb I got off Amazon. It really does work! You just comb it through the hair and it kills lice and combs out the nits. It beeps when it comes across them too. Used in combination with the shampoo and a normal bit comb it means you don’t miss any, even in very thick hair. It’s great for catching them early in future too- just comb it through once a week or so - we definitely caught one before it had a chance to lay anything!