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AIBU?

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Original poster

To ask if you would date a guy who...

131 replies

NCMD · 10/05/2024 21:00

  • Has visited a brothel in the past and paid for services?
  • Does recreational drugs with friends every few months (weed, MDMA, mushrooms, coke)
  • Has a cross dressing fetish?

Interested to hear others thoughts on the above points to help me move on from being dumped by this guy.

YABU - Yes. I'd date him.
YANBU - No. You've dodged a bullet.

OP posts:
WilliamButt · 10/05/2024 21:03

He sounds like a total catch.

betterangels · 10/05/2024 21:03

Easiest no ever.

IncognitoUsername · 10/05/2024 21:02

I have dated men in the past who smoked weed but that was at Uni.
The brothel thing would be a no for me.
The cross dressing would depend on what and when.

BitOutOfPractice · 10/05/2024 21:02

No. No. No.

you’ve dodged a bullet.

BCBird · 10/05/2024 21:02

Oops pressed wrong one. Absolutely not OP

skippy67 · 10/05/2024 21:01

I'd snap him up. 🙄