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To use piercing gun for DD first earlobe piercing?

94 replies

CableCar · 10/05/2024 18:36

Have been debating allowing my daughter to get her ears pierced after she's been asking me to get them done and am thinking of just going to a high street jewellers where they'll use the studs and a piercing gun.
Friends have all taken their DDs to high street jewellers for piercings, Claire's etc. where piercing guns were used and been fine. However, the internet seems to be full of hate against piercing guns and advocating for using needles! They say piercing guns aren't as clean of a hole, they can be unsanitary etc... does it really matter?!

YANBU - of course it is fine to go to a high street jewellers - they're only first earlobe piercings, not cartilage etc and it's all hype about not using stud guns - most people go to high street jewellers and are fine

YABU - go somewhere where they use a needle as stud guns are awful!

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Scorchio84 · 10/05/2024 19:14

Don't go to a highstreet, go to a professional

Ghostgirl77 · 10/05/2024 19:11

You are paying someone to do an invasive procedure on your child, why would you want to go for the cheap option?

Professional piercers are able to get good symmetry, use jewellery that is less likely to cause inflammation or irritation, use jewellery the right size to allow for swelling which reduces the risk of it getting embedded, and give better aftercare.

steff13 · 10/05/2024 19:10

I had mine done by a piercing gun a million years ago and I never had any issues. However when my daughter wanted her ears pierced we went to a tattoo shop and had a professional piercer do it with a needle. And I would never choose anything other than that now. It's easy enough to find a professional to do it why wouldn't you?

BashfulClam · 10/05/2024 19:10

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 10/05/2024 19:05

Where? (Sorry to sound dense!). There aren’t piercing shops are there? Is there that much piercing to do 🤔🤣 tattoo studios? I must have missed these!

Yes there are piercing studios . I’ve had both ears, bellybutton, and eyebrow done in a piercing studio. Friend had her tongue done in one, where do you think piercing other than ear are performed? They certainly aren’t going to do a nipple, tongue or eyebrow with a gun!

VerityUnreasonble · 10/05/2024 19:08

My first ear piercings as a kid were with a gun. The swelling forced the stud into my ear on one side resulting in a nice painful trip to hospital to have it removed by a nurse. Would not recommend.

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 19:07

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 10/05/2024 19:05

Where? (Sorry to sound dense!). There aren’t piercing shops are there? Is there that much piercing to do 🤔🤣 tattoo studios? I must have missed these!

There definitely are piercing shops! A lot of them are tattoo shops with a piercing area but some are just piercing only, I have a friend who runs one.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 10/05/2024 19:05

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 18:49

No, go somewhere independently run.

Where? (Sorry to sound dense!). There aren’t piercing shops are there? Is there that much piercing to do 🤔🤣 tattoo studios? I must have missed these!

RampantKrampus · 10/05/2024 18:53

I’d be really wary of anywhere that pierces with butterfly back earrings. They don’t allow enough room for swelling. I remember mine having to be excavated out as a kid 🤢

WetBandits · 10/05/2024 18:51

Just to add, I stupidly got my cartilage pierced with a gun when I was about 15, it never healed and my ear now has a crease at the top where the cartilage was effectively shattered!

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 18:49

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 10/05/2024 18:47

Where are the piercing studios please? Do you mean the likes of blue banana?

No, go somewhere independently run.

KreedKafer · 10/05/2024 18:49

Windwwwash · 10/05/2024 18:44

Not only is the hygiene non-existent in a high street piercing gun, the poor girls who do it have no training and no professional eye for symmetry or positioning. You can end up with all sorts of wonky earrings that can then get horribly infected.

Just take her to a piercing studio, their care is fantastic.

This, a thousand times over.

WetBandits · 10/05/2024 18:49

Piercing guns inflict blunt force trauma to force a dull object through the ear. Needles are sharp and make a neat hole in the ear, which the jewellery is then threaded through. I would never, ever choose a gun.

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 18:48

Any decent, qualified piercer will tell you to go to places that use needles. I wouldn't want to risk my child's health by going to Claires.

thanKyouaIMee · 10/05/2024 18:48

Windwwwash · 10/05/2024 18:44

Not only is the hygiene non-existent in a high street piercing gun, the poor girls who do it have no training and no professional eye for symmetry or positioning. You can end up with all sorts of wonky earrings that can then get horribly infected.

Just take her to a piercing studio, their care is fantastic.

100%!

You're paying to have some metal jammed into your child's body, don't cut corners on hygiene, professionalism and training to just get it done someone on the high street.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 10/05/2024 18:47

Where are the piercing studios please? Do you mean the likes of blue banana?

FuckTheClubUp · 10/05/2024 18:47

Just go to a piercing/tattoo shop.

I had my first piercing done with a gun and omg, it was so wonky and awful it was a joke. One piercing then got infected and closed up so I had to redo it anyway.

I took my daughter to a tattoo shop down the road from me and it was amazing! They were very serious about how sterile the needle was and we never had any problems. Obviously that’s just my experience but a clear difference between the two methods

Greyheronsarethebest · 10/05/2024 18:47

many piercing studios will piece kids. Why would you use a gun if it's that easy to get it done properly? it's not like that there aren't piecing studios around 🤷

SabreIsMyFave · 10/05/2024 18:45

I have never had any issues with piercing guns, with myself OR my DD, but the pp is probably giving good advice. Piercing studios are usually more methodical and professional.

Windwwwash · 10/05/2024 18:44

Not only is the hygiene non-existent in a high street piercing gun, the poor girls who do it have no training and no professional eye for symmetry or positioning. You can end up with all sorts of wonky earrings that can then get horribly infected.

Just take her to a piercing studio, their care is fantastic.