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To think that everything Fiona Harvey said in her Piers Morgan interview was a lie? [Edit by MNHQ]

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Eshmee · 09/05/2024 21:20

Having watched her interview this evening, everything about her screamed 'liar'. Her language, her demeanor, her body language. I just wonder what other think?

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lemonmeringueno3 · 10/05/2024 18:27

I don't care that she has a personality disorder or whatever her working diagnosis is. It doesn't absolve you of consequences when you set out to ruin lives.

We wouldn't be so protective if she was a male stalker, or saying she deserves a cut, or that the victim is lying, or any of the other nonsense on this thread.

Working on the assumption that the central premise of Gadd's story is true, and that he wouldn't be daft or cruel enough to make it up, then it's hard to feel any sympathy for her. I imagine quite satisfying to see the tables turned on her now actually. At least she was portrayed with some sympathy, as ill rather than evil.

LillianGish · 10/05/2024 18:21

What struck me most watching the PM interview was that Gadd claimed to have changed details to make Martha unrecognisable, but Fiona Harvey couldn't have been more recognisable. Fiona looks like Martha, sounds like Martha, has a legal background like Martha and, like Martha, has previous for stalking. Gadd clearly wanted to out her - anyone who has ever encountered her either at work or at university would have immediately recognised her and the most cursory internet search would have found her as PM pointed out. I think that might have been fair enough if Gadd had stuck to the facts of what happened (which would have been bad enough), but including scenes like the assault on his trans girlfriend was a step too far. PM appeared to be gently trying to steer Fiona in this direction by reminding her that voicemails and emails either existed or they didn't so she should perhaps focus on discussing stuff she could prove definitely didn't take place. Unfortunately Fiona seemed incapable of taking the hint and thus ended up digging herself into a bigger and bigger hole.

Chaoseverywhere · 10/05/2024 18:17

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 15:26

I agree it's disgraceful to wheel her out as entertainment. She has become the victim now and the writer is abusing his position in order to bully Fiona and he looks like he's enjoying it, too.

I imagine that he has been playing a merry game with her from the start. I believe she is a stalker but he has manipulated her too. He does say this in his unfortunately Netflix show, coming across all reflective and sincere but he has used her and continues to use and exploit her vulnerabilities.

I also wonder if the actress who played Fiona was manipulated and not told the truth, I would have thought she must feel very conflicted about it all.

Edited

That’s a really interesting point about the actor. I wonder how she feels about it now having heard the PM interview.

although I’m still inclined to towards the theory that this is all a clever social experiment.

Anonymous2025 · 10/05/2024 18:00

Babybreath · 10/05/2024 17:51

I wonder if any of her friends or boyfriends will come forward to defend her.

I wonder if they even know there are her friends or boyfriend

Ijussthadanegg · 10/05/2024 17:59

lemonmeringueno3 · 10/05/2024 06:37

If she barely knows Gadd, has only met him 5-6 times, didn't send him all those emails and letters, wasn't obsessed with him, never went to his shows - why does she think it's about her? Why are her 'friends' telling her it's about her? It must be about someone else surely.

I mean, come on. Her grandiose personality meant she thought this interview would vindicate her and launch her into a tv career or something. Instead, she accidentally gave full credence to Gadd's story.

Well said

Babybreath · 10/05/2024 17:51

I wonder if any of her friends or boyfriends will come forward to defend her.

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 17:48

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 17:35

Piers Morgan's interview has had 5,073,449 views in the first 21 hours. This is amazing. Does anyone know of other 'spectacles' with this sort of engagement?

Let's be honest, apart form the whole thing being super exploitative and unethical FH does have a point. She is the star of the show, both in the actual Netflix series as well as in PM's interview. Why should she not get a cut of this bonkers media extravaganza? It's not RG or his story that is attracting this sort of crazy world-wide attention, it's absolutely her, her persona is selling this and making some people mega $$$.

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I suppose she must have been paid handsomely for the interview?

Combattingthemoaners · 10/05/2024 17:36

RazzlePuff · 10/05/2024 16:37

There’s an ethical question with NOT allowing Fiona speak.
If “we” decide she has MH issues, and “we” decide, for her own good, that she cannot appear in media. We are denying her freedom of speech, it’s disability discrimination. She is free to make mistakes & Eff-up her life.

she is not free to behave however she likes, and then get privacy / no consequences

Yes it is fine to give people a voice who are able to provide consent and understand the implications of their decisions. She lives in such a fantasy world she is not able to see this. She clearly does have mental health issues, it doesn’t take an armchair detective to point out the blindingly obvious. It isn’t disability discrimination to protect someone who is being thrown into the public gaze and unable to navigate properly.

She faced consequences when she was taken to court.

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 17:35

Piers Morgan's interview has had 5,073,449 views in the first 21 hours. This is amazing. Does anyone know of other 'spectacles' with this sort of engagement?

Let's be honest, apart form the whole thing being super exploitative and unethical FH does have a point. She is the star of the show, both in the actual Netflix series as well as in PM's interview. Why should she not get a cut of this bonkers media extravaganza? It's not RG or his story that is attracting this sort of crazy world-wide attention, it's absolutely her, her persona is selling this and making some people mega $$$.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 10/05/2024 17:15

ImWearingPantaloons · 10/05/2024 16:36

@TheCountessofFitzdotterel really?
How on earth do they pass essays and reports when it's barely readable?

The academics work very hard at extracting meaning from it and looking for aspects they can award marks for, eg something could be illiterate but you can still work out roughly what the argument is meant to be, or that the student has done some research for the essay. All the pressure is to find things you can pass them for because it doesn’t look good to have a lot of them fail, so people get through who probably don’t have the literacy skills to do a job actually involving the degree subject.

Portakalkedi · 10/05/2024 17:12

I haven't seen it but from the above headlines, I'm not sure Piers Morgan drags people by force to be interviewed, isn't it done for money?

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 10/05/2024 17:11

TraitorsGate · 10/05/2024 17:06

Who identified her as being the stalker or did she put herself forward.or is that all ,ies and part of a delusion. The court case and sentence is easy to prove and her emails and calls. Is there proof anything was sent from her ip address or phones. I don't understand why there's not more said about the producer who raped him, I find the whole thing uncomfortable and not really sure who or what I believe.

Anyone with google could identify her very quickly as she has a great many posts about Gadd over many years on her facebook account.

Initially the media did not name her but then she herself gave permission to the newspapers to identify her.

TraitorsGate · 10/05/2024 17:06

Who identified her as being the stalker or did she put herself forward.or is that all ,ies and part of a delusion. The court case and sentence is easy to prove and her emails and calls. Is there proof anything was sent from her ip address or phones. I don't understand why there's not more said about the producer who raped him, I find the whole thing uncomfortable and not really sure who or what I believe.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 10/05/2024 17:05

JeepSleeHack · 09/05/2024 23:34

Im not watching cause fuck Piers. No one is trying to hold the grooming rapist tv producer to account, just the mentally unwell woman.

Netflix really fucked with this series. I’m cancelling subscription. Done with them. And trust Piers to get his rocks off by exploiting this.

I've not yet watched the show and haven't seen the interview but from what I'm reading I think I'd agree with you on this.

PM is a nasty barrel scraping excuse for a journo and is no doubt loving all the attention this is generating.

And yes ... predatory abuser man continues to live his life as normal but let's all judge the clearly unwell woman Confused

ILoveYouItsRuiningMyLife · 10/05/2024 17:02

NonPlayerCharacter · 10/05/2024 16:43

I got about 15 minutes in and I can't bear watching any more.

I thought it was pretty boring to be honest. Just her denial of everything. Predictable.

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 10/05/2024 17:02

This is never going to court.

Firstly it would cost many thousands.

She could do it herself as a "lawyer" but she has already said she wont.
Her "boyfriend" also a "lawyer" could do it but she ruled him out too

No real lawyer is going to take that on a no win, no fee basis unless they are confident of a better than 50% chance of winning. So that rules all real lawyers out.

Saying you are going to sue and actually suing are not the same things.

This is never going to court.

Babybreath · 10/05/2024 16:49

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 16:19

That's interesting, what sorts of mannerisms and body language did you find deceitful?

I'm obviously not a body language expert but closing her eyes when speaking, drinking water , rapid blinking and eye movements and some of the things she said that contradicted herself. When she was watching the court scene her eyes moved as if she was trying to remember this.
Just her whole demeanour really.

NonPlayerCharacter · 10/05/2024 16:43

I got about 15 minutes in and I can't bear watching any more.

tiredandabitfat · 10/05/2024 16:40

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 15:33

Does anyone have a theory why FH is so cool and collected, in front of the cameras?

I think she just has a very high opinion of herself, and a very low opinion of others. Expects everyone to just believe what she says, so she doesn't worry too much about what she says.

I think she has a severe personality disorder.

RazzlePuff · 10/05/2024 16:37

There’s an ethical question with NOT allowing Fiona speak.
If “we” decide she has MH issues, and “we” decide, for her own good, that she cannot appear in media. We are denying her freedom of speech, it’s disability discrimination. She is free to make mistakes & Eff-up her life.

she is not free to behave however she likes, and then get privacy / no consequences

ImWearingPantaloons · 10/05/2024 16:36

@TheCountessofFitzdotterel really?
How on earth do they pass essays and reports when it's barely readable?

tiredandabitfat · 10/05/2024 16:36

NotThatWrong · 10/05/2024 14:57

To me, Fiona held her own during the interview. She sounded like any politician on TV, identical, the same way of speaking. Very assertive, fluent in how she responded to the questions and didn't really trip up. She also really did not seem flustered or worried. She evaded some questions just like most politicians. I mean if I found myself in an unexpected media frenzy, I'd be blushing, mumbling, sounding stressed and probably defensive too. She just sounded like she was well briefed and held her head high.

I also thought I am a good reader of body language, tone of voice etc but she did sound very believable by and large. I presume she must be lying but I actually do know women who speak just like her, never flustered, always mega confident and quick to reply, never humble or unsure. Weird!!

I mean how come she is so media savvy?

I see what you are saying. Many, many people (myself included) would not cope being filmed for tv and being put on the spot like that.

She didn't mumble, blush, burst out crying, need a moment to compose herself, lose her train of thought etc.

She did manage to speak fluently, even if the content was evasive and didn't answer the question. That is somewhat hard to do without just clamming up.

I think she just has such a high opinion of herself, and such a low opinion of others, that she doesn't really think through what she's saying. She just lets it flow and expects others to believe it, and gets very angry when they don't.

At the very end, when PM asked her to look into the camera and speak to the viewers, what she said was just garbage.

Combattingthemoaners · 10/05/2024 16:34

Why are people falling over themselves to point out her inaccuracies and lies? She’s a prolific stalker and lives in a fantasy work. Of course it is going to be lies! Many seem to be missing the real issue of the interview being unethical.

Rainingsincenovember · 10/05/2024 16:33

RazzlePuff · 10/05/2024 16:03

Her composure and control, when she was telling HER story were full deception.

She unravelled when Morgan went off topic, and she wasn’t prepared:

  1. Revealing her “lawyer boyfriend”, fully closed her eyes telling this where she had barely blinked for previous 20 mins.
  2. Her education and qualifications, grades. She could not answer this question at all - law degree? 2 other degrees? No grades YET claims a “photographic” memory which is a mythical kind of memory. Surely if can recall everything you see/ read can get good grades!

She might be unwell, but she can make her own decisions.

She wouldn't have "grades" with an ordinary Scots law degree. If she started a legal traineeship after university, she must also have a post-grad Diploma in Legal Practice. I wouldn't describe my post-grad DLP as "a degree" but it involves a year at university, so I wouldn't quibble if someone else described theirs as a post-grad degree.