I think the reality was probably even more ambiguous than he lets on.
I was also seduced by someone who got me really, really, REALLY fucking high, with all kinds of drugs including crack and heroin and MDMA and experimental psychedelics.
At no point, however shitfaced I got, did I go into some kind of coma where I had no way of interacting with someone who wanted to have sex with me.
Of course, mileage may vary. But setting all this aside, I really appreciate RG exposing himself (oo-er) to this kind of scrutiny and admitting to the blurred boundaries. I am so sick of the Daily Mail comments on #MeToo stories, you know the sort of thing, "Well why didn't she just say so at the time" etc.
That said, maybe the reason blokes don't understand it is that in their case there is an element of self-promotion, whereas for many women there's just a total sense of helplessness.
I'm just glad that the conversation around all this just got more nuanced.