DH and I have been married for 6 years, together for 10, and 1 DS. He’s never given me any reason to doubt or not trust him. We’re both in our early 40s.
We've never had the same taste in music. He has a favourite band he’s seen loads and I’ve been with him a few times. I don’t enjoy it and made it clear last time that I wasn’t going with him again. He’s seen them since with friends.
Just before Christmas, a new woman started in his team. She’s in her late 20s, although her and DH are at roughly the same level career wise. It’s clear she and DH get on well, he mentions her when talking about work, although they don’t socialise outside of work events. One thing they have in common is both love the band.
The band are playing again in our area in a few months and she’s suggested they go together, as DH had mentioned he was considering getting tickets and going alone.
He’s been completely open with me about it, and says he would like to go with her just because it’s better than going on his own. However, I feel funny about it and can’t tell whether I’m just being ridiculous or I’m right to be concerned.
He does have female friends but the big difference is they’re his age, are in relationships, and I’ve met them.
AIBU?