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My s**d DH

56 replies

realw · 09/05/2024 05:55

Had our car stolen yesterday . Started filing claim with the insurance and realised my surname is missing 1 letter. Insurance was arranged by my DH back in March, he didn't show me anything, didn't not send me acknowledgement email or anything at the time. Car was on finance. Now I am frightened that because of the missing letter, my insurance is nil and void. Absolutely worried. Tell me this will be ok, please. DH and mine surname is the same. He has just made a mistake filling form.

OP posts:
beetforever · 09/05/2024 15:29

drusth · 09/05/2024 14:26

There's no irony, MN bug removes the asterisks. So I'm writing S**d (stupid with 4 asterisks between S and d) and look how it turns out. Try it!

But I do agree with others that stupid doesn't need censoring.

s***

LightSpeeds · 09/05/2024 14:35

beetforever · 09/05/2024 06:42

i think it’s your thread title that’s missing a letter!

😂😂

drusth · 09/05/2024 14:26

beetforever · 09/05/2024 09:24

you are missing two letters

oh the irony! 😆

There's no irony, MN bug removes the asterisks. So I'm writing S**d (stupid with 4 asterisks between S and d) and look how it turns out. Try it!

But I do agree with others that stupid doesn't need censoring.

HavfrueDenizKisi · 09/05/2024 14:19

It warms my heart that 80% of responders to the OP were asking what the fuck s**d means. Twas my first (and only) question too.

pontipinemum · 09/05/2024 14:11

I think your husband made a mistake, we all do

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 09/05/2024 12:09

Might not have been his mistake. Our insurance company had my date of birth wrong took 3 goes to get the correct one. Kept ending up with slightly different wrong versions of my date of birth. Didn't effect either of the car claims and the house insurance claim we had in that period of time. I doubt my stbxh got it wrong setting it up. I think the insurance company messed up.

EasternEcho · 09/05/2024 12:03

No, it is not a mistake that is material, or changes the fundamental agreement. In addition regular payments have been made, through which the parties to the contract are easily identifiable. I wouldn't worry.

JuiceBoxJuggler · 09/05/2024 11:29

Back on topic...

Shouldn't be an issue. The issue is, you don't sort out or even know about your own insurance - that's a problem.

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 11:23

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 11:22

Eh? You can write cunt on here if you want, you know.

And "stupid" is hardly a term of great opprobrium.

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 11:22

Eh? You can write cunt on here if you want, you know.

Kesio · 09/05/2024 11:21

The insurance isn’t void because of a typo

YouAreLiveOnTelevisionPleaseDoNotSwear · 09/05/2024 11:20

You starred out the word stupid 😂😂😂

Heaven forfend!

Hoppinggreen · 09/05/2024 09:40

realw · 09/05/2024 08:57

Stupid

Really?
Well Fuck me

BacktoBeginnersFran · 09/05/2024 09:38

realw · 09/05/2024 08:57

Stupid

😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣

This reminds me of when I was 6 and one of our spellings of the day was stupid, but I wasn't allowed to say the word stupid so had to ask my mam if I was allowed to learn how to spell it 😆🤣😆

Momstermunch · 09/05/2024 09:35

Sounds like he just made a mistake. Easily done. Hopefully your insurance is still valid but either way go easy on him

LesmisPhantom · 09/05/2024 09:33

realw · 09/05/2024 08:57

Stupid

Why on earth did you write it as s**d?

And did you ask your husband for the documents?

ScentlessAprentice · 09/05/2024 09:33

Well stupid has six letters, not four, so your asterisks don't make sense.

Also we're all adults here. You can say stupid if you want. You can also say fuck, wank, bollocks, cunt. This coy 'couldn't possibly say a bad word' shit pisses me off.

Tdcp · 09/05/2024 09:31

Your insurance won't be void because you can't find a letter... surely there's an email or something anyway?

beetforever · 09/05/2024 09:24

realw · 09/05/2024 08:57

Stupid

you are missing two letters

oh the irony! 😆

ZipZapZoom · 09/05/2024 09:00

Firstly your unreasonable for the daft starring of the word stupid.

Secondly why did you arrange your own insurance?

Thirdly the insurance won't be invalid because of one missing letter.

realw · 09/05/2024 08:57

LindorDoubleChoc · 09/05/2024 06:25

What are the two missing letters between s and d?

Stupid

OP posts:
Queenofwistfulthinking · 09/05/2024 06:45

I think they would only make the insurance void if you had committed insurance fraud which would affect the price (both knowingly or unknowingly) . Like for example lied about your usage or where it's kept so I think you will be ok as this doesn't affect the overall insurance cost just a simply name mistyped.

Xiaoxiong · 09/05/2024 06:45

I'm reading it as shithead but there aren't enough stars.

Anyway you can swear all you like on MN, OP - I manage to hold my tongue round my kids because I can always let rip on MN!

And the letter in your name should be ok too if all other details are correct, I have a complicated name and the only name typo I've ever had trouble with is on an airline ticket that had to be reissued.

Amx · 09/05/2024 06:44

Your shed DH?

BurnoutGP · 09/05/2024 06:43

When did stupid become a swear word?? Cannot get past that sorry