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To HATE the church bells?

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ShyPearlMoose · 07/05/2024 20:17

I have just moved to a new area and I am so annoyed by the church bells ringing. They ring from 7:30-9pm on Tuesday and Wednesday nights and they are SO LOUD. I'm trying to wind down by this time but cannot get any silence so they're really bothering me. I know it's people practicing but does their hobby really have to disturb the entire town's evening for 90 minutes twice a week?
I can only think how annoyed some parents might be when trying to get their children to sleep on school nights.
Anyone else annoyed by them?

OP posts:
pinklepea · 08/05/2024 00:13

At least you have real church bells. Most churches don't have that now. They play the sound but not from people and real bells anymore!

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/05/2024 00:09

YABU.
Grew up listening to church bells as lived near one and they're lovely.
You're not one of those annoying types who's moved from a city/town to a village and near a church and then suddenly started complaining, I hope?! 😁

MegsNaiceJam · 08/05/2024 00:06

The church bell ringers here must use their practice time to get steaming drunk as they can never perform any sort of tune without cocking it up!

Think along the lines that instead of a light skippy tune of “oranges and lemons”
we get
“or AN ges ges andlem ONS”

I suspect it they made it more a “get pissed and make some noiiiise!” more people would take up the hobby!

Flanjango · 08/05/2024 00:04

The church has been there a lot longer than you. We've had the same complained about in our village. We also had complaints to the infant school about kids shouting at lunchtime. Check out the area before you move.

Nicehamsandwich · 08/05/2024 00:01

Ahem... I live in a housing association house up the road from a church that rings its bells on the hour, every hour, as well as Sundays, weddings, funerals, Christmas etc and runs a practise group every Tuesday. I still think that if you choose to live near a church, you can't complain about the sound of the bells.

with social housing there’s often little to no choice where you live. You can give a preference for one or two areas but there’s no guarantee. With my HA if you turn down 2 properties you’d go to the bottom of the list again. There’s no way I want to be living where I live but I was homeless, had waited 2 years and just wanted a place to live . I’d not even have thought to check if there was a church nearby or dared turn it down if there had been in case the second choice was really bad.

BeachHutsAndDeckchairs · 07/05/2024 23:55

Garlicked · 07/05/2024 20:47

I want to stress I'm not picking on you, it's just that every other post says this and it's getting on my tits almost (not quite) as much as the priory's malfunctioning auto-chimes. I LIVE IN A FUCKING HA FLAT! I was lucky to get it, though I can guess why it was vacant.

All this "Why did you buy a house next to a church" actually is a case for checking your privilege, mates.

Ahem... I live in a housing association house up the road from a church that rings its bells on the hour, every hour, as well as Sundays, weddings, funerals, Christmas etc and runs a practise group every Tuesday. I still think that if you choose to live near a church, you can't complain about the sound of the bells.

Moveoverdarlin · 07/05/2024 23:54

On a Sunday morning, I love nothing more than waking up to the sun shining, church bells ringing and walking round the garden with a cup of tea. I find the sound of church bells blissful.

There are so many threads on here about noisy neighbours with hot tubs, awful kids, parties all the time, church bells are a lovely sound.

MrsMoastyToasty · 07/05/2024 23:49

I love hearing church bells. The ones in our local church are said to have been given to the church by the composer Handel.

SkiingIsHeaven · 07/05/2024 23:42

Don't you just hate blow ins?

NewName24 · 07/05/2024 23:29

AntelopeTowelArt · 07/05/2024 20:20

I understand where you are coming from! We lived right next to a church and it wasn’t so much the bell ringing practices, for me it was more the fact that they started at 7am every day…including the weekend, and yes, when we had a baby if we were ever lucky enough for them to still be asleep at 7am (which was so rare!) then the bells would wake them 🤣. Other times of the day I used to like hearing them. Definitely wouldn’t however live next to a church again!

This sounds very odd.
Who are the bellringers that would even be able to get to the church 7 days a week before 7am, let alone who would want to ??? Confused

Though I think YABU OP. As everyone has said - moving in to a property in close proximity to a church with a bell tower, then complaining about noise (at perfectly reasonable times) from the bells, is clearly unreasonable.

Rhinohides · 07/05/2024 23:24

How has it taken this long for you to realise you don’t like church bells? They peal out over most celebrations and many Christian activities.Are you originally from overseas so didn’t know what you were letting yourself in for?

VeraForever · 07/05/2024 23:16

Why didn't you research the area ?
Get over yourself. There are worse neighbourhoods to live in.
Christ on a bike.

Justleaveitblankthen · 07/05/2024 23:04

maras2 · 07/05/2024 20:23

Miserable sod.
Why did you move there?😡

That's very.. Christian of you 😂

Bobbotgegrinch · 07/05/2024 23:04

You'll learn to tune them out eventually. We lived right next to a church for years and we barely even noticed them by a couple of months in. Its like living near a busy road, or a trainline, you just get used to it.

CountryShepherd · 07/05/2024 23:00

Toddlerteaplease · 07/05/2024 20:24

I love church bells.

Me too!

HulaChick · 07/05/2024 22:59

Oh dear... you sound like people who move to the countryside then complain about no street lights, or move next to people with chickens & complain about the noise they make. You'll get used to them & if not, move again. The church was there long before you and will hopefully be there for a long time to come. I'd much rather hear tuneful church bells over traffic noise any day.

urbanbuddha · 07/05/2024 22:59

YADNBU.
The church bells here are horrendous, loud and monotonous and they go on and on and on and on. It’s torture.
Every Sunday morning I mentally compose my letter to environmental health and then I force myself to be tolerant and try and embrace live and let live. It’s not romantic bell ringers tolling away - it’s a recording, but it is deafening.

HcbSS · 07/05/2024 22:55

FarmGirl78 · 07/05/2024 21:26

It's half 8, it's not like it's 3am!!

This!!! Two 90 minute sessions a week at a sociable time for the majority! Massively unreasonable.

aerkfjherf · 07/05/2024 22:45

The only thing you can do is go and join in @ShyPearlMoose

SabreIsMyFave · 07/05/2024 22:42

missmollygreen · 07/05/2024 20:22

Buy a house by a church and complain about the church bells ... ok then!
Yabu

100% this. Well documented fact. Do NOT move near a Church if you don't like the sound of the bells .....

It's like don't move near a school and then whine about 100s of kids and multiple dozens of cars blocking the road, in your street for 40 minutes on the morning and 40 minutes on the afternoon.

Of course YABVVU @ShyPearlMoose Can't believe you even need to ask!

ThisKookyBlueSnake · 07/05/2024 22:32

If only you had some sort of missile...

Sorry you've got the monty python church bells sketch in my head now.😂

FiatEarth · 07/05/2024 22:32

Simply beautiful.

%3D%3D
Bountifulbarbie · 07/05/2024 22:26

We loved opposite a church for 4 years. I stopped hearing them as I got so used to them and only heard them when visitors would comment!

BMW6 · 07/05/2024 22:25

Believe me OP when I tell you that after a while you won't register them.

When you hear a repeated noise your brain switches it off somehow.

Hang in there. You will stop noticing within 6 months.

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 07/05/2024 22:21

@EmmaEmerald I was involved in a serious accident in which nine of my colleagues were killed. The peel was for my safe return.

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