Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To season my 3 year olds food?

114 replies

amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 16:19

Dd has just turned 3. Eats the same as us and generally eats well. Up until now I have always plated her serving up without salt and then seasoned ours after.

Recently she’s been a little more fussy around certain foods including veg but tbh a lot of things taste bland and unappetising without salt, particularly veg!

When I have added (a small amount) of salt with butter she is more likely to wolf it down.

Tonight we’re having pan fried fish, asparagus, broccoli and new potatoes done with garlic, herbs and butter.

It’s 50/50 if she will eat this but I imagine if I seasoned it like ours (nothing crazy!) she’d eat it. Butter, salt, whats not to like?

Would I be unreasonable to lightly salt some of my 3 year olds food on a semi regular basis to encourage her to eat I wider variety of nutritious food she would otherwise likely not eat?

OP posts:
Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 17:57

Excited101 · 07/05/2024 17:56

I think when you’ve got a child with food phobia (or similar) the rules have to be slackened somewhat. So glad your child is doing well, I’ve worked with children with severe issues surrounding food and it’s so important just to get anything in them. I wouldn’t be using it as an example of healthy salt levels for a child who doesn’t have those issues though.

No it’s obviously not great but my point was even at this level - it’s not dangerous so OP can relax about her dd

HolyFalseEquivalencyBatman · 07/05/2024 17:57

but for me salt plays a part in that

And for those of us that don’t feel veg needs salt, we love the taste of the actual veg. By salting your DCs veg you are going to be ensuring that, like you, she can’t eat it without. Madness.

Excited101 · 07/05/2024 17:56

I think when you’ve got a child with food phobia (or similar) the rules have to be slackened somewhat. So glad your child is doing well, I’ve worked with children with severe issues surrounding food and it’s so important just to get anything in them. I wouldn’t be using it as an example of healthy salt levels for a child who doesn’t have those issues though.

GrumpyPanda · 07/05/2024 17:54

Given your child is reared on unprocessed foods, I don't see an issue with lightly salting it. That said, you could also try to substitute seasonings high in natural glutamate - such as parmesan or dried tomato flakes - or play around with seaweed flakes or a tiny amount of soy sauce.

And a hearty YABU to the pp who thinks unsalted butter tastes weird. You simply haven't tried proper artisan butter!

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 07/05/2024 17:54

And I'd add stock to a shepards pie which is also salty.

Marblessolveeverything · 07/05/2024 17:54

spriots · 07/05/2024 17:51

Shop bought harissa has salt in it. Same for shop bought creole seasoning

Obviously you might be making your own but most people don't

Yes sorry I should have said it's a mix my sister makes. But the one from our local shop is salt free, seemingly lots of demand from those on blood pressure tablets ,😉

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 07/05/2024 17:53

I don't add salt in pure form but do let my kids have ketchup, cheese with pasta etc....

JacquiDaytona · 07/05/2024 17:52

amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 16:42

I’m happy to accept IABU but I cant accept anyone saying adding salt to veg is strange or doesnt make it taste better

Come on guys that’s ridiculous

Maybe you personally dont like it and that’s fine but i think it’s generally accepted that adding a small amount of salt doesnt make it taste better.

Yes of course seasoning makes food taste better, I was thinking the same thing as you!
I don’t worry too much tbh, my 2yr old has a little bit of salt and pepper on things like veg or potatoes - very little processed food otherwise and eats pretty much everything atm. Maybe I’m wrong, but I’d never really overly worried about it.

Dayfurrrrit · 07/05/2024 17:52

I feed my kids what we eat (age 5 and 3) and of course I season our food! For example
potatoes cooked with a little oil and salt and pepper. Roasted veg the same.

GaryLurcher19 · 07/05/2024 17:51

If your DD isn't eating lots of processed foods and factory made bread, it's probably fine to give her a small amount on her dinner.

Also, boiled veg tastes better if salt was added to the water because it retains it's nutrients and natural flavour. The salt is drained away.

spriots · 07/05/2024 17:51

Marblessolveeverything · 07/05/2024 17:46

@amidsummernightsdream I stir fry veg with harrissa, garlic or creole spices. So no added salt but plenty of flavour. Might be helpful.

Shop bought harissa has salt in it. Same for shop bought creole seasoning

Obviously you might be making your own but most people don't

MumChp · 07/05/2024 17:49

Our 3 yo children ate the same as us.
Just don't overdo salt.

Marblessolveeverything · 07/05/2024 17:46

@amidsummernightsdream I stir fry veg with harrissa, garlic or creole spices. So no added salt but plenty of flavour. Might be helpful.

Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 17:42

ElaineSqueaks · 07/05/2024 17:35

Four packets of crisps a day for a three year old seems like madness.

im aware it’s a lot- my point was to reassure OP about salt intake as a consultant and dietician are aware of my ds intake and have said it’s not going to harm him, it was just to show the upper limit of what’s acceptable in terms of salt intake for a 3 year old.

My ds will onlt accept mostly crunchy foods - a year ago he was tube fed so what he eats now is actually amazing ! Sounds awful to most people but to us this is huge progress

SetTonguesWagging · 07/05/2024 17:42

I don't add salt to my food, so I wouldn't add it to my kids.

That said, I'd be happy to add things to encourage them eat it (butter, ketchup, mustard, chilli etc). I'm just not a salt fan.

ElaineSqueaks · 07/05/2024 17:35

Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 16:31

It’s fine. My ds is 3 and under the care of a consultant and dietician - his diet consists of the following each day:
-pack of mini ritz crackers , 8 oz aptamil and a banana for breakfast. 2-3 packs of crisps a raw carrot and a cup of water for lunch , dinner is a pack of ritz crackers, plain pasta with ketchup , a pack of crisps and before bed another 8 oz aptamil . I was concerned about the amount of salt but the dietician said not to worry he’s fine and it’s ok so I think you are way off a dangerous amount op !

Four packets of crisps a day for a three year old seems like madness.

Sahara123 · 07/05/2024 17:25

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 07/05/2024 16:58

Why are so many people completely ignoring what foods OP has posted? She's not saying add salt to a Happy Meal, she's saying add salt to some fish, veg and spuds!

Yes I would absolutely be offering her foods that have been cooked properly, with a little salt. Unsalted foods taste of basically nothing, salt is needed to bring out the flavour. And butter without salt is just fat. Unappetising fat.

And don't add after. Add while cooking. Pasta, veg, potatoes should be cooked in salted water.

PS I have three teen boys and have added salt to their food once they got to about 1. Two out of the three eat anything, but none of them have any allergies or health issues of any kind.

This, definitely

Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 17:21

CowboyJoanna · 07/05/2024 16:44

I must say, that is a very strange diet.
Crisps and carrot for lunch?? Baby milk at age 3?
Why is he not eating sandwiches?
Or proper hot meals?

Edited

Asd and ARFID unfortunately

massistar · 07/05/2024 17:06

Here's the thing. Boiled plain vegetables uk style really don't taste great so no wonder kids don't eat them. I do broccoli stir fried with garlic, chilli, ginger and a bit of soy sauce (salty) and the kids wolf it down. Same with things like cabbage and kale.. stir fried with salt and pepper and garlic. Or roasted veg, again a bit of olive oil, sea salt and garlic. I'd much rather my kids ate vegetables with a bit of seasoning than didn't eat vegetables at all.

loverofalmonds · 07/05/2024 17:03

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

loverofalmonds · 07/05/2024 17:03

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

SummerInSun · 07/05/2024 17:00

Butter yes. Garlic yes. Herbs yes. But why are you adding salt to your own vegetables, let alone a child's?!? If they aren't overcooked, they don't need salt.

amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 17:00

@loverofalmonds i can totally accept and i did clarify to say that.

Yes i understand that you dont like salt on your veg. Happy now?

OP posts:
loverofalmonds · 07/05/2024 16:59

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Bignanna · 07/05/2024 16:59

amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 16:53

@PeloMom this is exactly my view on it

Prooerly cooked veg is the food of the gods. Badly cooked veg is rank

and by properly cooking I dont mean salt necessarily but timings and method etc too but for me salt plays a part in that

Why not make veg as appetising as possible so kids enjoy it so they dont want the processed crap or plain pasta alternative

and just to reiterate again im talking about tiny amounts amongst an otherwise balanced diet

I agree that salt in the water when cooking potatoes does improve the flavour. Without it it’s too bland, even with butter and milk added to mash. I don’t tend to use it on other veg. I also use it on poached and boiled eggs and tomatoes. Not everyone likes garlic.

Swipe left for the next trending thread