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To season my 3 year olds food?

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amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 16:19

Dd has just turned 3. Eats the same as us and generally eats well. Up until now I have always plated her serving up without salt and then seasoned ours after.

Recently she’s been a little more fussy around certain foods including veg but tbh a lot of things taste bland and unappetising without salt, particularly veg!

When I have added (a small amount) of salt with butter she is more likely to wolf it down.

Tonight we’re having pan fried fish, asparagus, broccoli and new potatoes done with garlic, herbs and butter.

It’s 50/50 if she will eat this but I imagine if I seasoned it like ours (nothing crazy!) she’d eat it. Butter, salt, whats not to like?

Would I be unreasonable to lightly salt some of my 3 year olds food on a semi regular basis to encourage her to eat I wider variety of nutritious food she would otherwise likely not eat?

OP posts:
DappledThings · 07/05/2024 21:13

My mum never ads salt to veg either when cooking or afterwards and my siblings and I all grew up loving veg and still don’t add salt to it. I think people who do add salt get used to it then can’t eat it without. I’ve never found veg to be bland at all.
Same. Has never occurred to me to add salt to any food other than chips and I've never met a vegetable I didn't like.

motleymop · 07/05/2024 20:56

I wish adding a bit of salt to my 3 year oldest vegetables would make her eat them.

Anonymouslyposting · 07/05/2024 20:53

I wouldn’t on the basis that if you start seasoning things you get used to the taste such that you need everything to be salty to taste good and that’s not good for you.

I don’t think it’s the end of the world though.

RawBloomers · 07/05/2024 20:36

There was a study a few years ago that suggested adding salt and butter to veg increased consumption to such an extent, overall it was healthier (because the greater veg consumption outweighed the detrimental effects of the butter and salt).

It was just one study (and I don’t recall checking who paid for it), and I don’t know if that would be true of a 3 year old because their bodies are smaller, but you could consider trying low sodium salt alternatives and see if that works.

ItsVeryHyacinthBucket · 07/05/2024 20:32

beetr00 · 07/05/2024 18:50

if you look at the link @ItsVeryHyacinthBucket posted
www.nhs.uk/live-well/eat-well/food-types/salt-in-your-diet/

it states For 1 to 3 years old No more than 2g daily

so* *@amidsummernightsdream a sprinkle will be fine 🙂

A teaspoon is 5g, so to stay under 2g including snacks, bread, butter etc usually means additional salt takes you over. But sure go ahead 😅

beetr00 · 07/05/2024 18:50

if you look at the link @ItsVeryHyacinthBucket posted
www.nhs.uk/live-well/eat-well/food-types/salt-in-your-diet/

it states For 1 to 3 years old No more than 2g daily

so* *@amidsummernightsdream a sprinkle will be fine 🙂

Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 18:48

Peonies12 · 07/05/2024 18:45

I can’t believe a dietician would recommend a diet so high in ultra processed, salt laden foods.

The dietician did not recommend this diet at all. Ds was previously tube fed and these just happen to be the foods he has accepted (prior to the tube the only things he consumed as a baby were aptamil and mashed banana so those foods have always been acceptable to him). She has just reassured us that we need to think of calories only and not to worry about anything else at this point.

Peonies12 · 07/05/2024 18:45

Mumtoasdboys · 07/05/2024 16:31

It’s fine. My ds is 3 and under the care of a consultant and dietician - his diet consists of the following each day:
-pack of mini ritz crackers , 8 oz aptamil and a banana for breakfast. 2-3 packs of crisps a raw carrot and a cup of water for lunch , dinner is a pack of ritz crackers, plain pasta with ketchup , a pack of crisps and before bed another 8 oz aptamil . I was concerned about the amount of salt but the dietician said not to worry he’s fine and it’s ok so I think you are way off a dangerous amount op !

I can’t believe a dietician would recommend a diet so high in ultra processed, salt laden foods.

TinkerTiger · 07/05/2024 18:43

Another thread talking about ‘seasoning’ when ‘adding salt’ would do. Seasoning is so much more than sprinkling salt.

ClockworkDisaster · 07/05/2024 18:41

My mum never ads salt to veg either when cooking or afterwards and my siblings and I all grew up loving veg and still don’t add salt to it. I think people who do add salt get used to it then can’t eat it without. I’ve never found veg to be bland at all.

The same with sugar in fruit. I don’t put sugar on any of it, including strawberries. I did work with a lady who said when she was a kid her mum would add sugar to her fruit to get her to eat it and she still couldn’t eat it without sugar… including bananas which I watched her pour sugar onto her plate then proceed to dip her banana into. I’m not saying you are adding sugar to her fruit, but you can see how adding stuff when a child transfers to an adult.

Having said that, I do agree that eating veg with a small amount of seasoning is much better than no veg at all.

LMMuffet · 07/05/2024 18:40

OP - A little salt is fine, in fact we need some sodium in our diet. It’s a flavour enhancer and better a little salt on vegetables than no vegetables. I shudder at the thought of all the bland food being served by some on here!

froggirl · 07/05/2024 18:40

It's fine.

The salt you need to watch out for is the salt that is already in foods like UPF's, bread, cereals, etc.

Adding a sprinkle of salt to an otherwise freshly home cooked meal is no issue at all.

LMMuffet · 07/05/2024 18:38

AuntMarch · 07/05/2024 18:11

The post says he's under a consultant and dietician, I think she probably recognises that it is an unusual diet, even without your excessive use of judgemental question marks.

Agree. Some people just seem to want to be rude for no reason.

TheShellBeach · 07/05/2024 18:15

CowboyJoanna · 07/05/2024 16:44

I must say, that is a very strange diet.
Crisps and carrot for lunch?? Baby milk at age 3?
Why is he not eating sandwiches?
Or proper hot meals?

Edited

Probably ARFID.
One of my children has this.

He's an adult now and lives on Huel, and occasionally some chips.

AuntMarch · 07/05/2024 18:11

CowboyJoanna · 07/05/2024 16:44

I must say, that is a very strange diet.
Crisps and carrot for lunch?? Baby milk at age 3?
Why is he not eating sandwiches?
Or proper hot meals?

Edited

The post says he's under a consultant and dietician, I think she probably recognises that it is an unusual diet, even without your excessive use of judgemental question marks.

MummySam2017 · 07/05/2024 18:10

amidsummernightsdream · 07/05/2024 16:29

I do understand salt isnt healthy and to clarify I dont and wont be adding it to everything eg if i made a shepherds pie, pasta dishes etc but i think veg on its own or a plainer dish like this Im considering it

She generally eats very well and no processed food

I think the suggestions to with butter and herbs etc first are sensible but we already do that

OP, have you tried roasted veg instead of boiled? My kids love roasted carrots with a bit of olive oil, tastes lovely and sweet to them.

Peas, maybe add a little mint sauce or even fresh mint and melted butter?

Megifer · 07/05/2024 18:09

I added a tiny bit of salt to veg, rice, chips etc. when they went through a veg refusal stage and it made a huge difference. Kids survived and still only add a bit of salt to veg.

Strange but true - I have low blood pressure and 3 different GPs have said I should try adding a bit more salt to my food 🤔

EggbertHeartsTina · 07/05/2024 18:09

Don't think @Mumtoasdboys needs all the judgement; if you look at her user name and the fact her DS is under a dietician it's obvious she's not just feeding crisps for shits and giggles

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 07/05/2024 18:05

I stopped used salt on the veg when I had DD so we could eat the same and have never gone back to adding it.

All the veg is steamed and tastes fine. Don't know if you're boiling or steaming? But boiling will definitely kill the flavour. Steamed veg is yummy!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/05/2024 18:05

takealettermsjones · 07/05/2024 18:03

We do need some salt in our diets. It's actually necessary. It's also true that most people get (more than) enough from things like bread and cheese, but it's definitely not a good idea to remove all salt from your diet, whatever the latest sourdough-mummy-blogs would have us believe.

Yes so I often make roasted broccoli in the oven with melted cheese on top. It’s lovely! Doesn’t need additional salt over and above what’s in the cheese.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/05/2024 18:04

Properly (ie lightly) cooked is also important but you have said that.

takealettermsjones · 07/05/2024 18:03

We do need some salt in our diets. It's actually necessary. It's also true that most people get (more than) enough from things like bread and cheese, but it's definitely not a good idea to remove all salt from your diet, whatever the latest sourdough-mummy-blogs would have us believe.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/05/2024 17:59

I don’t think you need or want salt until you’ve got used to having it. You can taste the food better - and it doesn’t seem bland - if you aren’t used to salt on it.

You need to think about other seasonings - chilli, garlic, paprika, ginger, all the lovely things that aren’t salt.

thirtyseven37 · 07/05/2024 17:58

Absolutely not. They are 3..!!!! Very unhealthy.

Excited101 · 07/05/2024 17:58

That was for @Mumtoasdboys

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