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RITA ORA- an example of all that is wrong with the world

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peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 12:04

I am being unreasonable, and not sure whether its jealousy or irritation that she has done so well with little discernible talent. However, she irritates me intensely for being presumably financially very successful for not wearing any clothes. MET Gala case in point. She is just such a narcissist. I know there are others out there, but she doesnt even have a crap reality show with her sisters

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NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 15:12

RitaKiaOraJustForMeAndMyDog · 07/05/2024 15:11

Oh and I made an effort
One just wore a grey cardie you know who you are
One wore a wet tee shirt
I beat those bitches

I beat those bitches

<<checks username>>

I'll be your dog!

phoenixrosehere · 07/05/2024 15:12

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 14:36

I get so tired of adult women being castigated for not being role models to young girls when that's not their job. Famous men act like shits and nobody cares what young boys might think. Female singer wears a revealing outfit at an event literally famous for crazy outfits and she's morally responsible For The Children.

The industry she's in is largely controlled by men - women may be singing and dancing but men are waving them through and making the business and marketing decisions. If you want to hold anyone responsible for the deleterious effect on young girls, blame them. All Rita did was sing a song and wear a dress.

Tired of it too..

My parents always told me when I was a child and teen that many celebrities are ADULTS so can do and wear things I can’t and I accepted that. The same parents moaning about role models are often the ones who want to ban things and want the world to completely cater for their children instead of taking personal responsibility as a parent to teach their children what is and isn’t acceptable for them to do of their age.

Most of those at the MET are in their late 20s and up. Why try to police what adults are wearing at an event that is pretty much an extravagant fancy dress party.

RitaKiaOraJustForMeAndMyDog · 07/05/2024 15:11

Oh and I made an effort
One just wore a grey cardie you know who you are
One wore a wet tee shirt
I beat those bitches

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 07/05/2024 15:10

I call her Desperora 😀as she's always got some body part out, however, I don't find her entirely without talent, she has a nice tone to her voice.

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 15:10

Allfur · 07/05/2024 15:08

I know right? Although tbf, It wasn't me asking, just not sure why it bothers you so much

You can Google it if you really want to know.

RitaKiaOraJustForMeAndMyDog · 07/05/2024 15:09

Ahem

Excuse you

Fashion crimes against humanity, is it?

My dress had ancient beads,
Older than anyone on this planet
including my husband and Anna Wintour

Cara DeLaVagine wore a chainmail hoodie

Eddie Redmayne nicked his wife's dress
You could see Emily Ratajkowski's tits
I was doing an Angie Jolie's legs thing
Plus the theme was Lady Garden Of Time
Did you not read the memo?

Love
Rita Kia Ora
aka Rita Waititi
(but Rita Waitita rhymes
and as does Rita Ryvita)

Mummyofbananas · 07/05/2024 15:08

She's very pretty and she's an ok presenter I'd say but her music is boring and bland- I think I can only name one song and I don't like it, I am surprised how famous she is for what she's done.

I don't have an issue with what she wears though- she has a lovely figure- I'd happily show mine off if I looked like that.

Allfur · 07/05/2024 15:08

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 15:02

Phew!

I know right? Although tbf, It wasn't me asking, just not sure why it bothers you so much

RosyappleA · 07/05/2024 15:06

I wouldn’t call her out specifically but yes that outfit screams, “I need to stay relevant, google me.”
That sleazeball she married did make me think what the hell.
Majority in that industry are narcissists to me.

Lightfrost · 07/05/2024 15:06

Soigneur · 07/05/2024 12:15

Yep, another Albanian who doesn't know her place...

Honestly, the hatred that successful refugees and immigrants get on Mumsnet is off the scale.

I didn't know she's Albanian (and it's probably the same for many other posters on here). I still think her outfit looks like a fly curtain.

Realdeal1 · 07/05/2024 15:05

I actually know people who know her and also Dua Lipa personally through work. Both apparently very pretty, both not able to sing!

GasPanic · 07/05/2024 15:04

Well she sings. She's not bad at it either. She has some talent.

I think it is pretty harsh to claim she is successful for not wearing any clothes, implying that is the only reason for her success.

There are people out there who genuinely are famous for not wearing any clothes and have little other discernible talent.

whynotwhatknot · 07/05/2024 15:02

im wit you op-i always thougt she was average anyway but then she had anillegal party in lockdown clearly didnt give a shit an showed who she was

shes irritiating on masked singer aswell doesnt know anyone and sounds thick

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 15:02

Allfur · 07/05/2024 15:01

Oh don't worry, I know how to Google stuff

Phew!

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 15:01

SleepingStandingUp · 07/05/2024 15:00

TBF, I think You Can't Google would be more Lily Allen

You walk into a bar and say
"who do you think you are,
just some girl singing shit in a bar
and I say "you can't Google?

Cos my face is all over this place,
You're the loser not me in this race
Cos I'm already famous and rich
I'm already a superstar.
Then along comes some your missus
And she's pointing "who's this?"
And I'm like
What, you can't Google either?
And I laugh and walk out of your life.

I like that, but it doesn't rhyme Tesco with "al fresco".

Allfur · 07/05/2024 15:01

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 14:58

Yeah, but if it bothers us we can look up things to do about it. You would appear to be stuffed!

Oh don't worry, I know how to Google stuff

margymary · 07/05/2024 15:00

Righto. Know none of her songs, would have taken you less time to just name it or don't you know one either?? Agree with pp - never met a real live Rita Ora fan IRL, and you just keep telling to me google. Weird response. Almost like you don't know any either.

SleepingStandingUp · 07/05/2024 15:00

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 14:51

You can't Google either?

TBF, I think You Can't Google would be more Lily Allen

You walk into a bar and say
"who do you think you are,
just some girl singing shit in a bar
and I say "you can't Google?

Cos my face is all over this place,
You're the loser not me in this race
Cos I'm already famous and rich
I'm already a superstar.
Then along comes some your missus
And she's pointing "who's this?"
And I'm like
What, you can't Google either?
And I laugh and walk out of your life.

Bululu · 07/05/2024 15:00

Agree OP. Awful talentless people making loads of money. This is the norm rather than the exception in 2024.

Elderflower14 · 07/05/2024 14:59

Can't stand her. She broke lockdown rules.. Very very annoying on Masked Singer too!!!

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 14:58

Allfur · 07/05/2024 14:56

The 'can't you Google' crowd are a tad snippy

Yeah, but if it bothers us we can look up things to do about it. You would appear to be stuffed!

Taurusenergy · 07/05/2024 14:57

I find her annoying. She's a pretty girl and I did like some of her music mainly with Calvin Harris but there's something about her doesn't seem right. We all have people that can do that tho I found Philip Schofield annoying as well and guess I was right on him lol.

Mitsky · 07/05/2024 14:57

She does not have a good reputation in the music industry that’s for sure.

therealcookiemonster · 07/05/2024 14:57

I always have the same question in these situations

what happens when they need a wee?

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 14:56

margymary · 07/05/2024 14:54

Well I can, but I mean't which was the song she was most known for. Thanks though.

Google can tell you that as well.