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RITA ORA- an example of all that is wrong with the world

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peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 12:04

I am being unreasonable, and not sure whether its jealousy or irritation that she has done so well with little discernible talent. However, she irritates me intensely for being presumably financially very successful for not wearing any clothes. MET Gala case in point. She is just such a narcissist. I know there are others out there, but she doesnt even have a crap reality show with her sisters

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BustyLee · 08/05/2024 00:39

Thalia31 · 07/05/2024 22:03

You do sound jealous and perhaps bored

Nothing wrong with either. Why should we worship people in the public eye. I would hope that they don’t give a sh** what we think.

fao · 08/05/2024 00:36

It's not like she's netanyahu or anything, gosh!

BustyLee · 08/05/2024 00:36

littlestarlittlemoon · 08/05/2024 00:22

Yep agree with all of this.

Not sure what Rita has ever done to get all the hate (is it the same thing Meghan has done?....)

It isn’t hate more like annoyance. Poor Megan gets actual hate. If she was more of a suck-up like Rita Watita seems to be she might also just be annoying.

BustyLee · 08/05/2024 00:27

Magpie50 · 08/05/2024 00:19

I think all I really know about Rita Ora is that her collection in Primark is kinda hideous...

Which proves that she is all that is wrong in the world, surely?

littlestarlittlemoon · 08/05/2024 00:22

GogAndMagog · 07/05/2024 12:50

I bloody love the song she did with Liam Payne.

That aside, she's living her best life and riding the fame wave. She gives it her all and I like that.

The clothes are bloody awful though but you don't go to that event to cower in a corner.😆

Yep agree with all of this.

Not sure what Rita has ever done to get all the hate (is it the same thing Meghan has done?....)

Magpie50 · 08/05/2024 00:19

I think all I really know about Rita Ora is that her collection in Primark is kinda hideous...

TheChosenTwo · 08/05/2024 00:16

I haven’t read the full thread as it’s very long but I saw Rita Ora and I realised all I know about her is that she’s a singer (couldn’t name any songs but probably know some to sing along to) and that she did a collaboration with Rimmel for some nail varnishes in really pretty summer colours which I loved!
I don’t know anything else about her so imo she’s not an example of all that is wrong with the world!

potato57 · 08/05/2024 00:14

peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 12:10

Have you seen the photos from the Met gala There is limited cloth or stitching so I would argue definitely not a dress

It's a skin coloured body suit, she's wearing more than many there, it's just tighter 😂 Look at the side pictures under her arms.

BustyLee · 08/05/2024 00:05

Nanny0gg · 08/05/2024 00:04

She did look amazing

She really did. Stunning.

Nanny0gg · 08/05/2024 00:04

3luckystars · 07/05/2024 22:14

I love Pamela Anderson.

She did look amazing

hot2trotter · 07/05/2024 23:53

She's a talentless cokehead who shagged her way to the top.

peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 23:38

You have absolutely nailed it.

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Moonpie6 · 07/05/2024 23:34

peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 12:18

Why dont you get a grip. The only person mentioning her refugee status is you. Frankly I wasnt even aware of it, because I generally put Rita Ora in the box of over hyped, under clothed, irritating and talentless twats - however, I note that is unreasonable, but not due to her refugee status

I like you can we be friends ha!?

I don't get her at all. I thought she looked awful.

Looking at the carpet it was full of narcissistic people. Also JLo gone off her majorly. I think she is definitely narcissistic.

Runnerduck34 · 07/05/2024 23:26

Just had to google this! saw a video clip and tbh she looked pretty uncomfortable and self conscious.
It looked like a long beaded tabard with an american tan tights body suit underneath- but she was clearly holding the front crutch area in place very carefully every time she moved.
It is very sad that successful women -or any woman- feels they need to dress in a very revealing, not to mention totally impractical, way, to market their sexuality and their body especially when it makes them feel vulnerable and they cant move freely. As usual was in direct contrast to the fully clothed man in a suit she was standing next too, whose only body parts on show were his face and his hands!
As a mum of 3 girls I do despair that this is still the social norms our children are exposed too.

Windypants21 · 07/05/2024 23:21

NonPlayerCharacter · 07/05/2024 20:57

it's a stretch to say i implied all women who dressed scantily were talentless

No, you just said that you thought they were. "When I see women scantily dressed I think they have little talent." Even while accepting Ora does have talent, so you know it's nonsense but you do it anyway. Good to see you have accepted that the problem is actually your attitude.

Such ridiculous judgements (a woman's dress has nothing to do with how well she sings, acts, writes, plumbs or treats other people) are one way by which women are exploited, so if you're so anxious that they should be treated like people and judged on what they do rather than what they wear, you know where to start.

Stop using systemic exploitation of women to whitewash your own sexism about women's clothing. You aren't fighting it, you're perpetuating it.

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Because i would prefer women to wear beautiful clothes to promote themselves I am the ruination of society, sexist and exploiting women?

And all of the Kardashians and Emily R, would be on the front of the papers/magazines if they wore trousers and a turtleneck because they are so talented? No they wouldn't, because no paper/ news outlet would be interested in what they had to say/sell.

Adele, Taylor Swift, Celine Dion just need to step out their door to be on the front of the paper or to sell their music, even if they wore a tent. Rita Ora has a great voice but needs the exposure to stay front and centre.....why....because flesh (especially womens) sells papers, the more elaborate that is the more likely youll make the front page, and so get noticed or stay noticed. These aren't my values or rules, this is the society we are in today, Call me what you will but to me this ' need' to be semi naked is just another exploitation of women.

Years ago we had Page 3 of The Sun 'Newspaper' I didn't like it then and i don't like this version now.

FrangipaniBlue · 07/05/2024 23:20

I know someone who has met her (on multiple occasions) and they said she's really not a very nice person, particularly to those she considers "staff".

BustyLee · 07/05/2024 23:15

nothingsforgotten · 07/05/2024 23:09

So if he wore a body stocking and a curtain of beads that would be fine?

Okay then Confused

It would be great if he wore the beads over a bodystocking. It would look bloody ridiculous, but we're so used to women rocking looks like that. I can't imagine what it feels like to be walking around as though you're naked when all the men are covered up from head to toe.

Yes, let's see men's bum and the suggestion of their penises (what is the plural for penis? Peni?). Why not?

nothingsforgotten · 07/05/2024 23:09

AboutYouTalk · 07/05/2024 19:23

Where are the men with their arse’s hanging out? Her husband is also a massive attention seeker, all covered up tho whilst he stands next to her half naked for the world to see….

So if he wore a body stocking and a curtain of beads that would be fine?

Okay then Confused

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 07/05/2024 23:07

I just think it’s terribly sad that all of these young beautiful women are in such a position that they feel that they have to appear in public nearly naked in order for what? Attention? Likes? Photo ops? I don’t see any men appearing virtually naked at events; and I don’t think anyone would be ogling at them if they did.

nothingsforgotten · 07/05/2024 23:02

Sandytoesandcrabs · 07/05/2024 17:45

I quite like her. I like anyone who does well for themselves and think she can dress how she wants. Very un mumsnetty. I can’t ever imagine being irritated by such things

I agree. I couldn't care less what anyone wears, and people are actually allowed to wear whatever they want. Presumably she chose her outfit, so was happy to wear it, and what has it got to do with any of the rest of us?

It seems the MN perpetually offended have now become the perpetually irritated.

NotTidyAtAll · 07/05/2024 22:49

To be honest, I’m sick of so many famous women going out in their underwear or less.

Female pop stars on stage, in their knickers/ pants.

Do the men dress like this? No

What is it showing girl's growing up about their worth? , that their value is how naked they can be.

Its just really sad.

nothingsforgotten · 07/05/2024 22:49

RosyappleA · 07/05/2024 15:06

I wouldn’t call her out specifically but yes that outfit screams, “I need to stay relevant, google me.”
That sleazeball she married did make me think what the hell.
Majority in that industry are narcissists to me.

Sleazeball ????????? Please explain.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 07/05/2024 22:48

LargeAmericano · 07/05/2024 22:35

Perhaps it’s you who’s ‘weird looking’ or even just plain old racist?

Rita is very talented and attractive to people not looking at her through bitch lenses. My DC are half Kosovan Albanian with the same almond shaped eyes (throwback to the Ottoman Empire) and have always been considered and commented on as very beautiful.

I love most of her music actually (nothing to do with DH being Kosovan!), Anywhere, Let You Love Me, For You, Coming Home, Body on Me, Lonely Together, Ritual, You For Me, Black Widow (one of my favs) - listen to the faster ones at the gym. She was very genuine on the talent shows and had made lots of money.

Envy is not an attractive look.

I’m not envious at all!

I just don’t like her character (a couple of people here have said she’s not very nice) and she has discernible talent to me and obvs OP too.

I’ve got almond shaped eyes too but otherwise my ancestry is plain old boring British and direct German/french, so more blonde blue eyed Caucasian.

My brother’s ex girlfriend is Albanian and sort of looks like Rita does.

You’re obviously biased due to your DH being Kosovan. A distant cousin of mine is actually married to a Kosovan woman who owns and runs her own tv station and has 2 DDs but I’ve got no idea if they’re proud of their fellow countrywoman or not.

Bloody hilarious that basically you’re sticking up for Rita based on the fact that your DH is Kosovan and your DDs are too. Find your own argument not based on that fact would be a good idea.

And I’m not saying all Kosovans/Albanians are ugly as you seem to think I’m implying. Just Ms Ora. Wink

Charlottedancer · 07/05/2024 22:44

peeweemermaid · 07/05/2024 12:23

Youre absolutely right. My DM scrolling led me to her and the over hyping and hence financial success of this vacuous idiots is very annoying. Perhaps also showing my age, but Rita ORA as a successful music artist, must have been living under a rock for 20 years because I cant think of one song!

'Wish that I could let you love, wish that I could let you love me...what's the matter, what's the matter we me , what's the matter with me, oh...'

Come on guys, she has some catchy tunes even if its pop music, and she's beautiful to look at.

I get a down to earth vibe from her....yeah she's in that world and has to do that stuff for her job, but anytime I've watched her, she seems really endearing.

Hate the game, not the woman.

Shakespeareandi · 07/05/2024 22:43

Had to google her outfit expecting something atrocious. It's fine! What's wrong with that? She looks cool, it's obviously not an everyday look but for the Met gala. I think she looks great. I heard her in a radio interview years ago, and she was really funny. Talking about what her mum thought of some of her more extreme outfits. She seemed nice and funny. Her OH is very attractive and I thought his outfit was different and looked nice too.
Let's not bring each other down. She hasn't harmed you in any way. Don't be a bully or a mean girl, you don't know them.
And if you think someone is talentless etc, that's just your opinion and as such, irrelevant. Perhaps focus on people you do like rather than people you don't like.