Am I being OTT here but my husband really upsets me when I feel he’s invalidating me. For example;
I have struggled with sleeping since having our son. He is now 3 years old, my sleep is better and fine but I do get the odd night if insomnia.
The other night on holiday was awake for 3 hours in the night and I knew my husband was sleeping.
When I asked l my husband do you mind if I have a little longer in bed and you take our son to breakfast, he replied,” we are going home tomorrow you can sleep then. Me too, I didn’t really sleep”
When I challenged that and said no you was asleep. He just said oh what ever, stop whining. I started crying because I was frustrated and left me in a position where I felt guilty.
I am in bed now whilst they’ve gone to breakfast and I just dread him being annoyed with me.
He is good at turning things around on me, so I will have to get over this and say no more to him.
He will say I am whining like a little b*ch … a classic line.
Why would he make me feel like this over something so innocent