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To think applying perfume pre-plane is antisocial?

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Confrontayshunme · 06/05/2024 13:11

My DM was always really sensitive to perfumes (lots of allergies), and she always said not to wear heavy perfume when you are in various places where people can't escape it (office meetings, carshares, planes, etc). It occurred to me, while a friend applied two squirts of every Britney Spears scent available in duty free, that coating yourself in perfume right before you are in a confined space is a bit antisocial. When I was pregnant I would have vomited profusely just walking through duty free, and I know some ND people who are sensitive.

Just wondering what other people think as I am a bit bored?

YABU - perfume before boarding is fine
YANBU - It is a bit anti-social.

OP posts:
XenoBitch · 06/05/2024 19:27

mitogoshi · 06/05/2024 19:26

Well as they literally are selling perfume in the airport, you can't expect them not to be tried. What's next, no deodorant?

And on the plane too. It boggles my mind as to how little this has been mentioned.

mitogoshi · 06/05/2024 19:26

Well as they literally are selling perfume in the airport, you can't expect them not to be tried. What's next, no deodorant?

parkrun500club · 06/05/2024 19:24

VestibuleVirgin · 06/05/2024 19:16

Christ, we can't have a nut on a plane, don't start with the perfume.
How do you manage in a lift/office/pub/any other buiding or area with walls and closed doors?

Not really a problem in an office and a trip in a lift only lasts a few seconds (as long as you don't get stuck!)

parkrun500club · 06/05/2024 19:23

Wearing perfume is anti-social full stop. I used to wear it myself, but I wish it would become socially unacceptable, it causes headaches for me, and I have no doubt that some people suffer with allergies.

Of course, it is a massive industry!

As for fabric softener - yuck. It has all sorts of chemicals in it which are really really bad for you. I'm a bit surprised they are still allowed.

HappyEater · 06/05/2024 19:20

Nope

VestibuleVirgin · 06/05/2024 19:18

Yougetmoreofwhatyoufocuson · 06/05/2024 13:16

My daughter has had many a trip ruined by people spraying on perfume, it gives her a migraine. But if people are so oblivious of the rest of the world that they drop their garbage and plastic wrapped dog shit in the street, they are never going to get the message that their perfume stinks.

Dear everone who wears perfume, scented deodorants, etc
Stop because a couple of people get a headache if they smell you.
Do it now

VestibuleVirgin · 06/05/2024 19:16

Christ, we can't have a nut on a plane, don't start with the perfume.
How do you manage in a lift/office/pub/any other buiding or area with walls and closed doors?

EmilyTjP · 06/05/2024 19:11

Mumsnet doesn’t like perfume now 😂😂😂

XenoBitch · 06/05/2024 19:08

FoleyHuck · 06/05/2024 16:59

I dunno, I once sat right behind Gok Wan on a flight and he smelt absolutely DIVINE.

That reminds me of the time Gok Wan was visiting my old work place (a kid's hospital). My supervisor was all star struck and asked him how she could "look good naked". He told her that she should keep her clothes on!

XenoBitch · 06/05/2024 19:07

Airports have the duty free bit that has a load of perfume in. Some folks will be trying the testers out.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 06/05/2024 17:23

This has reminded me of when I was on 4 easyJet flights last summer each where they came round with the “luxury perfumes” for sale and handed out testers for people to try.

The cabin was an abomination of Charlie red, some David Beckham shit and Pacco Rabannes Olympea.

The rage I had over this fuckery was immense

justaboutdonenow · 06/05/2024 17:08

Strong, sickly perfume triggers my migraines so YANBU, I do actually like some of the scents but obviously can't wear them.

FoleyHuck · 06/05/2024 16:59

I dunno, I once sat right behind Gok Wan on a flight and he smelt absolutely DIVINE.

DoreenonTill8 · 06/05/2024 16:56

TheCompactPussycat · 06/05/2024 16:28

It's a reed diffuser, not an incense stick! You don't burn it!

Have now got the fear of someone lighting one, would it not be a bit explosive?!

TheCompactPussycat · 06/05/2024 16:28

Librarybooker · 06/05/2024 15:15

I think a reed diffuser would set off our smoke alarms

It's a reed diffuser, not an incense stick! You don't burn it!

IfYouLiveInPigeonStreet · 06/05/2024 15:46

I wouldn't have given it a second thought a few years ago but now have a friend who is highly allergic to cinnamel (not sure how to spell!). It's literally in everything and it makes her tongue swell up. She's had tongue cancer since which is possibly due to the sores she got from her swollen tongue constantly rubbing on her teeth. It's horrendous for her. She has to use scent free everything.

I would never wear freshly squirted perfume anywhere enclosed now, not in the office, on a train, plane etc.

Yadnbu

Maddy70 · 06/05/2024 15:40

Its awful but isnt helped by duty free squirts en route

Fleecedandzipped · 06/05/2024 15:35

Omg, you are definitely, definitely NBU! It is very inconsiderate behaviour, imo.

I can't abide strong perfume, or even subtle perfume, to be honest. Sitting next to a perfume-drenched person in the theatre, cinema or on public transport is a very unpleasant experience. If I can smell it within normal sitting distance, then it's way too strong. I often come out of the venue with a splitting headache.

I don't mind smelling (actually quite like) the very faint hint of perfume of baby shampoo on my grandson's hair or the very faint whiff of aftershave on my son's cheek when I'm giving him a hug - but anything more than that is an invasion of my senses.

I liken it to music playing. If someone wants to listen to music on the bus, then that's fine if they're wearing earphones. But it's not fine if they get on the bus with a bloody great ghetto blaster and blare out their music to everyone else on the bus!

I always try to avoid venturing anywhere near the duty free shops in airports, but in some airports there is no other way in or out. I hold my breath for as long as possible and walk as briskly as possible to get out there as soon as I can!

I don't use fabric softener because the awful artificial perfume lingers in the clothes afterwards - and I always add extra rinses to the wash programme, to be sure of rinsing out all the detergent smells.

Greenturaco22 · 06/05/2024 15:27

On a recent flight someone a couple of rows behind bought some (crap) perfume from the in-flight duty free trolley and proceeded to spray themselves liberally with it several times during the flight. It stunk and made several people cough, the chemical smell was overwhelming. Rank behaviour

CatherinedeBourgh · 06/05/2024 15:20

It's awful, but not as bad as pulling out the nail varnish remover and spending the entire trip doing your nails. Now that gave me a headache.

Toddlerteaplease · 06/05/2024 15:18

I wouldn't go mad spaying loads of it in duty free. But I'm afraid it wouldn't even occur to me to avoid it incase people are sensitive to it.

Librarybooker · 06/05/2024 15:15

AnnaMagnani · 06/05/2024 15:12

How big an office would you count as 'not an enclosed space'?

A colleague at work came in wearing a new perfume. Smelled lovely but my lungs disagreed - instant asthma.

I've needed steroids before because someone thought a reed diffuser would be nice in their office.

So yes, being told no perfume in the office is a very reasonable adjustment for colleagues with asthma and/or migraine.

I think a reed diffuser would set off our smoke alarms

Shakespeareandi · 06/05/2024 15:15

YANBU. In the last few years I've developed a high sensitivity for perfumes. Gives me an instant headache. My OH insists on putting on after shave despite me telling him many times how it gives me a headache. It's instant and takes hours to go. So yes, I would love people not to wear strong scents.

VickyEadieofThigh · 06/05/2024 15:15

YANBU.
Also - the gym.

Librarybooker · 06/05/2024 15:13

I’m asthmatic and I can’t walk through duty free, John Lewis cosmetics area, past Lush without sneezing or catching my breath. In our John Lewis the cosmetics and scents are a long sclep from the entrance to nearly 1/2way across the ground floor. It actually makes me ill if I breathe in.

I can only wear very few perfumes. Interestingly any Jo Malone. Someone bought me some Neom that’s a rollerball thing that’s meant to calm stress. Much too scented for me. Oddly, years ago I had a tiny lavender based stress calm rollerball scent that wasn’t powerful and was calming.