Dressing up in sexy lingerie

Underwear wise if my bra and pants vaguely match I’m winning!

single and happy so mo menz to dress up for

i do like a bit of power dressing at work though - it scares managers!

No, it’s a race to the bare bottom.

I think it's a fun way to spice things up a little. I'd never do it if I felt obligated to or like someone was expecting it, but if it makes me feel good then why not. That being said I'm a year post baby and still haven't felt like braving it since my body changed so much none of my nice lingere fits anymore and it's too expensive to buy while still breastfeeding incase my shape changes again.

Not wearing lingerie is hardly a race to the bottom!

I love dressing up for DP. and I love when he makes an effort to look good for me. I have when given the opportunity dressed up ready for him getting home from work. His face lights up with love and desire. It makes me feel good about myself and my body and makes us both feel wanted and desired and appreciated.

It's not a race to the bottom, you can do things to make your partner feel good and keep a monogamous relationship exciting.

Mine thinks the entire concept is hilarious so it would be pointless even if I didn’t feel like a self conscious idiot. I wear nice - as opposed to sexy - underwear all the time.

I dress up often, love it.

I used to feel like a dick in any sexy underwear. The first time I did the whole full on lingerie thing my boyfriend burst out laughing and I was so embarrassed I ran off to get changed- he was embarrassed too and we never tried it again.

This was before porn was widely available so maybe it's different now.

I have before early in relationship with dh but it fizzled out as it added nothing to the experience and it was coming off anyway 🤦‍♀️

With previous partners I have done it but my husband is more of a comfy pyjamas kind of guy. He would probably just burst out laughing. He thinks it's just going to go on the floor pretty quickly so what's the point?

I’ve done it once and he didn’t notice so I felt like a right muppet. Never again.

Do I expect it in a partner?

Yes, i wouldn't be impressed with a grey pair of y-fronts with holes in them, a g-string or cartoon boxers.

Just normal decent boxers please.

This is me too, and I wear comfortable wear with no vpl but if seeing OH , yes I may wear something i deem sexier, though we don't see each other v often.

I love my husband reaction when he finds me in his favourite pair of knickers. It's very exciting

You steal your husband’s favourite knickers, wear them and he finds it exciting.

Mine would be livid.

i did wear his socks once though.

I don't differentiate and wear pretty underwear for me., every day. None of it is dental floss style, not overly lacy etc. Practical, comfortable underwear but not plain. DH is a very visual person, so it has an added bonus there too. Maybe it helps that I am a size 6-8 in my 50s and have the good fortune to be fairly well toned with it.

No he really doesn't. He says he loves me for the beautiful person inside the body.

Absolutely no point. I am neither sexy nor attractive. Dressing up in 'sexy'underwear would be like having a beautifully wrapped present only to find a nondescript gift inside.

Luckily my husband loves me anyway.

I am so dressed down 99% of the time that sometimes I enjoy stepping out of the granny pants and into the dental floss. I certainly wouldn't wear them all day though. I don't really know what men would dress up in though - If it's the sort of thing you'd find in Ann Summers then I'd find it either a bit cringe or hilarious.

You was a late teen and he was a man in his 30s buying you clothes and other sexual items from Ann Summers???

None of the boyfriends I’ve had - or the two dhs- have ever been remotely interested in sexy undies. They’ve just liked to get them off asap so seems really pointless. Maybe if I was with someone who really appreciated I might make an effort. My dh (married 15 years) is not even slightly interested in underwear. Couldn’t even give a monkeys.

I like to wear things that make me feel attractive, I do this for myself though. Some days I wear my scruffs and that makes me feel good. Husband loves me in whatever I wear, although I think he’d prefer bare skin in bed but I like my pjs

I think women have so many more options for lingerie choices from pretty and attractive to very overly sexual. I think it’s easier for us.

Have you ever thought about why there is so much more available for women?